Does the staff even read profiles ? I specifically state my preferences and it appears the matches and people you say I may be interested in, many times are polar opposites . I don't mean to be disrespectful but it is a waste of everyone's time to view pics and profiles and get halfway through and find out definite deal breakers so please give consideration to this . Also , I do understand the idea of posting pics of ones pets and friends but , frankly I'm not interested in dating your pet and maybe saying , I have and love animals and friends and family are important to me so you should take this into consideration for a good fit would probably be more appropriate than a shrine . I apologize , but backtracking a little , for example , if I say I am attracted physically to dark haired , dark skined women under 5 - 6 and you match me to blond haired , blue eyed women 5 - 9 , wheres the logic . So please address this . Thank You

Sir, you are on a FREE date site. It is NOT in the job description of the staff to read profiles & match people accordingly. A computer is giving you options. However you can do a more specific search, by age & area, marital status, drinker, smoker.

And in fairness, you, yourself do not have a pic up. Believe when I say "Women can think like men "
And your lack of a profile pic & very specific TYPE of women, listed on your profile, may be an issue.

Welcome, robertberner2. It's simply not possible for us to peruse every profile, but we are working on improving our automatic profile filters (which would prevent email addresses in the location, for example).

As for our search finding highly-specific candidates, only the advanced search should really do that. If you're saying that such advanced searches are not working, though, we'll definitely look into the matter.

As long as the main photo of an account is a good photo of the member's face, we are allowing secondary photos to represent other aspects of the member's life.

Finally, to germanchoclate1981's point, we do not give paid members more search options than free members.

'Help' and 'BugReports' forums are routinely edited for
anything off-topic or not pertinent to the query.

These two forums are not for chitchat.

soufie
Site Moderator

At first I actually thought the matches that showed up for me were taking my specific requirements under consideration to make those matches. I have since learned that all you have to do is have a profile here and they will match you with anything they think is breathing.
My biggest question is why would anyone pay for a site as poorly maintained as this one is.
I know it is free and paid for by ads but the site is constantly asking me to pay to join. If IM does not consistently work whether I pay or not what exactly would I be paying for? It seems to me that all I would pay my money for is the same bad service.
There are so many naked pics here and multiple profiles that the subscribers here actually do the job of monitoring this site not the site itself. There is no one to approve photos so males with their johnsons hanging out are abundant. I would never recommend this site to anyone.

I have not seen naked pictures on here. What about everyone else?

Well if you look on someone's profile...you will see a button saying match with him/her. That is a button all members have and can ise of they see someone they like and want to connect. So there are other ways to get matches other than the site.

Report those pictures. They get taken down. It is a free site and because of that there is limited help and techs to do everything at the snap of their fingers.

Report anyone you feel is a scammer through the profile. Don't post user names in the forums.

Scammers are everywhere on the net. Nature of the beast

Hi I probably have the wrong section,but I don't know if anyone else reported it,that there are plenty of people in Africa pretending to be soldiers on this site,then they try to get money out of people.almost every guy that message me and I give my number they have an African country code.I think that these spammers should be filtered out.

Please report them, then they can be filtered out.

nope not me. I want to though, lol just kidding,,or not

Occasionally yes one will pop up as somebody's av pic but I don't think it lasts very long

I have saw one. and he really needed to mow the lawn ha ha