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Another School Shooting
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I sgree about our brain
it is our greatest weapon and our greatest tool.... |
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secrets
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secrets arent hard for me, I find just suggesting the inquirer ask the person directly usually works
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fathers.
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Could be she's insane. As long as he's supporting the child he may come around to certain facts and/or opportunities. People conceive babies by acting stupid and it's not fair to say the father is not a real man when the mother is most likely not a real woman. Real women are smart enough to not get punked. and everyone is not a natural parent, but those who arent are more than capable of learning through experience like we as humans have the capacity to do with just about anything,,, I was NOT a good father (indifferent) to my first son and lost him. With my next son and daughter I lavished them with my love, I learned. "Fathers, like mothers, are not born. Men grow into fathers- and fathering is a very important stage in their development." ~~By David M. Gottesman.~~ |
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Another School Shooting
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nothing makes you guaranteed safe
preparation and plans can make us 'safer' with children in a home, those old enough to have grip and young enough not to grasp 'gun safety', an available and loaded gun may even make them less safe, and a less available unloaded gun, of course makes the adult no more safe unless they have enough forewarning of the danger to get to the gun and/or load it before that danger is upon them,,,, |
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fathers.
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Congrats for raising your 2 boys to decent men. You certainly bucked the trend and skewed the results of that study! (This is a good thing) I just wish I knew more about showing my daughter on make-up and girlie stuff, but as a young woman she is doing just fine. ![]() yes, I wish my daughter had an example of a healthy relationship/marriage or the experience of being a daddys girl or the product of a lifelong love,,,but she is going to still be a wonderful person,,, |
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rarely would someone choose jail over their fine if they do, they deserve what they get,,,, Actually a lot of people do. You get credit for like $75.00 a day and instead of paying a fine they can just do a certain amount of days. their choice,,,life is about choices |
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will power to an extreme,,,,
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rarely would someone choose jail over their fine
if they do, they deserve what they get,,,, |
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id be suspect of such a recording
Did you listen? no, there was no link provided, just the mention of it being on youtube causes me to be precautious,,, The link was provided, on the first page. Being on youtube means we should start with a neutral stance on its credibility. If it were on FOX or CNN at least there would be a major network staking their own credibility on the credibility of the recording. Without that backing, what we have is a recording of unreliable origin, with no particular cause to believe it to be a fake. If you've ever been to trial, and if you listen to it carefully, and if you've paid attention your whole life to the difference between acting, lying, and authentic dialog, then I think you will agree that it is almost certainly real. I have been to trial, I mentioned before that I was the victim of an assault myself, where I Was grabbed full body and thrown to a ground.,,,in any case Im still suspect of a youtube link that claims a judge allowed a plaintiff to tape a court hearing but then refused to let him , Im also suspect that all 'long pauses' were removed, although the tape is 37 minutes long,,,,,there is no telling what was really edited out or what it adds to the context,, |
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Older men, younger girls?
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I'm always judged for "looking" at older men. I'm 18, and the age range I usually like to go for is 25-35. I don't see how it is something so bad. Age is nothing to me, it's about the person :) its about emotional maturity generally I think age means less when people are of general college aged (between 18 and 24), I was already in college at 16 so to date someone attending the same school as me would have meant dating an 'older' person in most cases biologically, but we would have still been on the same social and intellectual level as peers |
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Another School Shooting
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speaking doesnt kill people UNLESS it causes an environment that is unsafe like yelling 'fire' in a crowded theater so, no, you dont have a right to stop me because I may hurt your feelings, but its common sense to prevent it in situations where more than 'feelings' are at stake driving a car is for the purpose of getting from a to b, people have to obtain them legally, they have to register them, they have to indicate they can drive safely,, or they are breaking the law the law has the right to take said car if certain pre requisites arent met to indicate the likelihood that the owner will use it safely that is all I am advocating for in terms of guns they are potentially dangerous, not just in a criminals hands, but in an emotionally unstable persons hands, an impulsive persons hands, an egotistical or bigoted persons hands,, etc I see no ill in using common sense prerequisites to at least ATTEMPT to see that those who own them are capable of using them RESPONSIBLY,, I believe that every state that allows Conceal Carry requires that you pass a CC course, so that is already in place. and I dont have an issue with that, it is good policy, along with a background check of previous VIOLENT criminal activity or mental instability,,, |
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I will just repeat that I believe RIGHTS are to be applied with common sense and not as absolutes,,,, so, even my right to free speech, requires common sense so that it doesnt infringe upon the rights of others,,, a tricky balance to figure out, and not at all the simplistic issue people try to make a 'right' out to be,,, I absolutely agree, your right to swing your fist ends at my nose. But if I were to walk around town with a loaded handgun, how am I infringing on your rights? The basis for limiting my right to carry a handgun, is an assumption that I will violate your rights. What other right is preemptively infringed upon? Do I have the right to prevent you from speaking, because you might say something to hurt my feelings? Do I have the right to take your house or car, because you might use them to commit a crime? If not, then what right does the Government have to prevent law abiding citizens from being armed? speaking doesnt kill people UNLESS it causes an environment that is unsafe like yelling 'fire' in a crowded theater so, no, you dont have a right to stop me because I may hurt your feelings, but its common sense to prevent it in situations where more than 'feelings' are at stake driving a car is for the purpose of getting from a to b, people have to obtain them legally, they have to register them, they have to indicate they can drive safely,, or they are breaking the law the law has the right to take said car if certain pre requisites arent met to indicate the likelihood that the owner will use it safely that is all I am advocating for in terms of guns they are potentially dangerous, not just in a criminals hands, but in an emotionally unstable persons hands, an impulsive persons hands, an egotistical or bigoted persons hands,, etc I see no ill in using common sense prerequisites to at least ATTEMPT to see that those who own them are capable of using them RESPONSIBLY,, |
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Excellent Topic
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I believe we do sell our young men short by not having a man involved. I felt I sold my daughter short by not having a woman involved to teach her about make-up and stuff. Thank goodness for pre-teen girlfriends and their moms!!! haaa,, the adopted moms and dads,, indeed a Godsend ![]() |
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This sounds like an angry desperate attempt to threaten and intimidate using God. "God will deal with you about your erroneous teaching on here. God will not allow you to continue to mock His Word forever." Really?? I don't think so. Hell fire and damnation preachers I don't like to listen to. I can't take that seriously. This may be why I'm so vocal now? ...now? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Another School Shooting
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I dont think there are absolute rights, just as there is a common sense element to the freedom of speech that doesnt allow people to yell fire in a crowded theater there is common sense application to all 'rights' our forefathers had a totally different reference point for what 'arms' were when they wrote the constitution That is true, but what was the point of allowing people to own guns? It was for protection, right? Doesn't that mean that our right to bear arms is a sliding scale? In other words, we have the right to own the prevailing arms of the time? What good is a single shot black powder rifle vs a Glock 9? Do you also feel that your right to free speech should be limited to print, since the Internet, TV and Radio didn't exist when the Constitution was written? Or does the right to free speech expand to encompass new forms of media? I will just repeat that I believe RIGHTS are to be applied with common sense and not as absolutes,,,, so, even my right to free speech, requires common sense so that it doesnt infringe upon the rights of others,,, a tricky balance to figure out, and not at all the simplistic issue people try to make a 'right' out to be,,, |
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Another School Shooting
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noone is advocating for people to not have a right to own a weapon,
Your right there is a failure, but its not communication, its comprehension.
I advocate common sense REGULATION of weapons in our society There is not a regulation in existence that is not preventing someone from access to something. When a tool is regulated what the government is saying is you are not allowed to have this tool without permission. in countries where guns are more restricted, often times, you find far lower numbers of gun crimes
This is not true across the board.
so its not an absolute that arming more people will keep people safer,,,it just will make more bullets available to hit targets (whether the target is intentional or not) The countries that have lower crime rates, had lower crime BEFORE the gun bans took place. In every single case an armed population saw reductions in violent crime. The examples of countries with low crime AND a gun ban had few guns before the ban, and low crime before the ban. There is not a single example of a gun ban in a country with hi crime and large quantities of weapons reducing crime. This include regulation which just makes guns hard or expensive to get. Gun regulation just makes protection unaffordable, or illusive. Do you really want the rich, or the determined to be the only groups with the means? There is just no logic on the regulation side. It defies the constitution and all in the name of emotional appeals to the illusion of safety. we will agree to disagree, both sides have their points, and there are no absolutes there is no absolute correlation between higher gun ownership and lower gun crime anymore than there is an absoltue correlation between lower gun ownership and lower gun crime our home has a gun, we are not rich, and we obtained it LEGALLY,,, |
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Another School Shooting
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Its fundamental msharmony. In order for you as a person to protect yourself from another person who may be armed requires you to be prepared. The second you allow a government to lay claim to who gets the right to defend themselves and who doesn't you have tossed away your liberty and pursuit of happiness for the concept of safety. You are not more safe, but if it makes you feel safe that is enough for you. My best friend being murdered showed me that no one is safe. She was murdered in broad day light in a pet store. She was beat in the head with a fire extinguisher, she was raped, she had her life taken from her, and if she had been prepared she may still be alive. This is true of ~12-20K people every year, this makes it more than personal. It makes it a fact of the environment. Ignoring these facts does not make you safer. Yes it is a personal decision to carry a firearm, one that many people do despite the government telling them its illegal. I just regret that my friend was not one of them, she didn't want to carry a concealed gun illegally, and she kept putting off getting her permit. So you can wishful think yourself into feeling safe, but understand that you live in a dangerous environment where violent offenders can find you in the best of neighborhoods and the police are minutes away when you have seconds to live. If you do nothing else know that is true. there is a failure to communicate here noone is advocating for people to not have a right to own a weapon, I advocate common sense REGULATION of weapons in our society I am sorry for what happened to your friend, (I have been assaulted twice in my life though not to the point of dying) had your friend been caught off guard, it would matter not what weapon she had had she wanted a weapon, she could have gotten one if her life was the factor she was considering, going through a process would have been worth the safety,, I would i magine in countries where guns are more restricted, often times, you find far lower numbers of gun crimes so its not an absolute that arming more people will keep people safer,,,it just will make more bullets available to hit targets (whether the target is intentional or not) |
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Another School Shooting
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its personal to you, so the debate is futile I still believe they are too dangerous a tool to hand out indiscriminately The way your mind works is interesting. You automatically assume that the Government has the right to decide who can or cannot own a weapon, despite the second amendment protecting our right to arms. I dont think there are absolute rights, just as there is a common sense element to the freedom of speech that doesnt allow people to yell fire in a crowded theater there is common sense application to all 'rights' our forefathers had a totally different reference point for what 'arms' were when they wrote the constitution |
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Banker Leaves 1% Tip
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Its a perfect example of PROPAGANDA by an anonymous person. What could be the motive? Political ploy to get people to hate greedy bankers? I think we already do. ![]() ![]() I think people just need attention and this is the age where its easier than ever to get it from MILLIONS at a time,,,without any particular talent or effort,,, You are not going to get any attention posting an anonymous blog. not personal attention but plenty of attention just the same |
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Banker Leaves 1% Tip
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Its a perfect example of PROPAGANDA by an anonymous person. What could be the motive? Political ploy to get people to hate greedy bankers? I think we already do. ![]() ![]() I think people just need attention and this is the age where its easier than ever to get it from MILLIONS at a time,,,without any particular talent or effort,,, |
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