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is it wrong?
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my question is one that has been concerning me for some time.... im a married women and active on this site because my hubby says that i can have a girlfriend. he says that he understands that i have needs he cant always fill so he wants me to get a gf..... is this wrong? and if not, whi in there right mind is going to date a married women.... just askin from the subjective perception of 'wrong' if your husband really means what he says, and you are both convinced that this would be a 'need', as opposed to a mere desire its only as wrong as it makes you or he feel,,,,, (from my own perspective, being married should bar any other romantic relationships, regardless of gender) |
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Do you think you can get to know people well by talking in the forums? Are there people in the forums that you've never talked to outside of the forums that you feel you know? Or, do you feel contact outside of the forums is needed to establish friendship? I dont speak intimately with anyone outside the forum, I have done so in other venues and gotten to know people very well, but you have to be observant and pay attention and communicate with them over a period of time and a diversity of situaitons , in my opinion "msharmony"...I've always admired your personality in the forums ![]() Just thought you should know ![]() ![]() thank you,, the feeling is mutual,,,, |
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with all due respect
statements that begin with 'all' <insert group label here> are seldom correct I personally believe christian is a way we live, and much more complex than what we believe or what our traditions are,,,, Jesus never said he was seperate from God, but he never said he was God either,, at least not in what is included in our modern bible those interpretations are not enough to discern someone 'christian' or not ,,, in my opinion I dont think we should divide ourselves in such a way,,, |
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Banker Leaves 1% Tip
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Did you ever think maybe he got bad service? Tips are optional and by the way the top 1% pay 47% of all the taxes in this country. thats what I was thinking too,, when it comes to tips, a photo just doesnt tell the whole story,.,,,, That may be true, but even the worst waitress(er) works hard and deserves some payment more than 1% Ive been a waitress, and I Dont agree I have seen waitresses that do little more than take an order and bring out the meal,,, without checking on the customers, refilling drinks, etc,,,,, even a minimum wage fast food place includes that kind of service in the price of the food a waitress/waiter, should be doing just a little more than that So did I and haven't met one that didn't work hard....or at least try I have I have seen some have a bad day and take it out on their customer throw food at the table, instead of placing it on top,,,,,things like that,, |
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Do you think you can get to know people well by talking in the forums? Are there people in the forums that you've never talked to outside of the forums that you feel you know? Or, do you feel contact outside of the forums is needed to establish friendship? I dont speak intimately with anyone outside the forum, I have done so in other venues and gotten to know people very well, but you have to be observant and pay attention and communicate with them over a period of time and a diversity of situaitons , in my opinion |
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Banker Leaves 1% Tip
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Did you ever think maybe he got bad service? Tips are optional and by the way the top 1% pay 47% of all the taxes in this country. thats what I was thinking too,, when it comes to tips, a photo just doesnt tell the whole story,.,,,, That may be true, but even the worst waitress(er) works hard and deserves some payment more than 1% They get their hourly. If the waiter or waitress is a tool or an a$$ they don't need or deserve a large tip. at 2.10 an hour.......that is it....the tips makeup the wages...and they put up with azzhole customers too thats true, they do but they get paid for the quality of their service, and if they have poor quality,, they havent really 'earned' the tip |
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Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.
ok,, in this example, what law was congress passing? |
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the 'trinity' is similar to cowboys belief
it is also considered 'christian' some believe in one creator who embodies the father , the son, and the holy ghost others believe in seperate entities,, I dont think either belief makes one more or less christian I think its more about how we live and love the lord which makes us christian |
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I dont think the issue is handing out the water , the issue is WHERE the water is handed out
they can do it in their church,but not on my front lawn,,,for example,,,, |
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Banker Leaves 1% Tip
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Did you ever think maybe he got bad service? Tips are optional and by the way the top 1% pay 47% of all the taxes in this country. thats what I was thinking too,, when it comes to tips, a photo just doesnt tell the whole story,.,,,, That may be true, but even the worst waitress(er) works hard and deserves some payment more than 1% Ive been a waitress, and I Dont agree I have seen waitresses that do little more than take an order and bring out the meal,,, without checking on the customers, refilling drinks, etc,,,,, even a minimum wage fast food place includes that kind of service in the price of the food a waitress/waiter, should be doing just a little more than that |
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If you have a bad Experience why take the chance of repeating that same experience. I will Not get married again... living without taking risk is just existing many things I havent gotten right the very first time, that I have tried again fear of failure doesnt have to stop us in our tracks,,, |
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Another School Shooting
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Yeah just strap a gun on everybody. That is such bullchit. I agree on protecting your home but I don't want a bunch out on the streets with them. People can't act right without a gun. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't know how to act right with one...... ![]() my thoughts exactly,,,,, |
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Disgusting
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It's time for a witch-hunt! Who needs facts? Its more fun to accuse people, hate people, demonize people based on allegations. We have nothing here except the allegations of bereaved parents. true as well that is why I said there was not enough information but culturally, if it happened in a place where locking a door in a room that has a child in it is deplorable,, no more information would be needed,,, Oh, you are talking about the question of whether or not its okay to lock a child in a room, or a bathroom. I was talking about the accusation that the school is somehow responsible for his death. You are right, in both cases we should have facts before making accusations. But re: cause of death, I think the need for caution before making accusations is even greater, and there is even less evidence. She too means that accusation of school is obvious. Fact is that the child is no more & he was been punished & during punishment he fall incautious. The real question is,why shall they punish the children so hard?? has it been proven that he 'fell incautious' during that punishment? the question is subjective as different people have different standards of what 'harsh' is,,,, |
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Good post, many valid points and espesially about our need to maintain liberty and freedom by taking as much responsibility for it and likewise allowing others to be just responsible.
I would love for someone against choice to try to take these points head on, they never do, they always come from an emotional perspective of protecting babies.
There are just some things that should never be in the control of government and how we attend to the matter of procreation is one of them. They never deal with the inconsistency of the law as it respects rights as it pertains to their position. They never deal with the real science that shows that fetal development of the brain comes late, in fact the brain continues to develop well after birth. This makes brain development not a dividing line but a continuum were the only basis for graduation MUST come from function, which mirrors the law in EVERY other respect. They never deal with the end results of the law, they never ask the question of what a world without abortion would really look like. I will take on this point 'The law and rights are dependent on the ability to understand right from wrong, and until a person can do these things there rights and legal authority is displaced to a guardian' a one month old baby doesnt 'understand' right from wrong, and they are under the responsibility of a guardian, but that does not extend the right of the guardian to terminate its life,,,, |
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Banker Leaves 1% Tip
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Did you ever think maybe he got bad service? Tips are optional and by the way the top 1% pay 47% of all the taxes in this country. thats what I was thinking too,, when it comes to tips, a photo just doesnt tell the whole story,.,,,, |
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fathers.
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Could be she's insane. As long as he's supporting the child he may come around to certain facts and/or opportunities. People conceive babies by acting stupid and it's not fair to say the father is not a real man when the mother is most likely not a real woman. Real women are smart enough to not get punked. and everyone is not a natural parent, but those who arent are more than capable of learning through experience like we as humans have the capacity to do with just about anything,,, |
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its called 'personal' for a reason , its not to be generally applied to 'explain' anything MsHarmony...you claim that you "personally experienced God" not that it was personal...if it was personal then you wouldn't have even brought it up ...you teaser you no teasing,, I have no indication that others reading the posts are having a problem understanding it,,,, |
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the creator
I experience the presence when I look at a beautiful landscape I experience the presencewhen I watch my child sleeping I experience him when I pray |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Sun 02/26/12 06:06 PM
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its called 'personal' for a reason
, its not to be generally applied to 'explain' anything |
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fathers.
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why do you think some fathers distance themselves from their pregnant partner or the child after it's born? Some people are incapable of being a parent, even though their body is able to produce children, they lack the mentality, maturity, and emotional capacity to be a responsible adult, and a parent. There's all kinds of reasons why one would be this way. And boys feel like sex is a freebie and they don't want to take responsibility for the life they created. girls too,,,,but boys dont have abortion as an option Boys think if they get a girl pg, she can just abort. I heard that is very psychologically draining on a to-be mom to abort her baby! I know I would not. |
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