i've discovered than online is a great way to meet new people you would
have never met otherwise in your offline, day to day routine. i noticed
if you state your intentions up front and just kinda go with the flow
and be friendly, relationships seem to develop naturally whatever they
may be.

1. Go to google.com.

2. Click on Maps.

3. Click on Get Directions.

4. From: New York, New York.

5. To: Paris, France.

6. Then, read line #23.

7. Laugh.

8. Repost

are they in the northern ca area? LOL

being an oreo veteran i am a 5 & 6 simultaneously because i twist, lick
the middle and then dunk the cookie part in milk. call me crazy. its a
cute lil analysis tho.

oh this is so great i gotta copy it and use it as a myspace bulletin for
my girlfriends who bitch and moan about there being a lack of good guys
out there. snacky you are on target. luckily i always liked the good
nice guy. and yea, most of the good nice guys get treated like crap.
its the retarded women's fault. sometimes i really don't understand
women and being a woman that's pretty sad. lol.

from one chocolate lover to another....I TOTALLY AGREE. my favorite
line about chocolate in the movies is from the devils advocate where al
pacino tells keanu reeves "love? what about it? love is no different
biochemically than eating large quantities of chocolate." chocolate
might clog your arteries but it doesn't break your heart.

my top 5 in order of importance:

1. integrity-a man with integrity is already honest through his action
AND his word so trust builds naturally
2. self expression-a man who can communicate and express his needs and
desires effectively within the context of a relationship
3. loyal-someone you can count on to be there for you and be committed
to the relationship
3. responsibility-a man who can be accountable for his actions and who
takes responsibilty for his life (economical, social, etc)
5. humour-a man who can enjoy life and know that life is not always
meant to be taken seriously

that is my criteria...i had a phase when i lowered my standards and that
was just all bad. i can do bad by myself.

happy hour? always could use more friends

what makes a woman a slut? a slut can be labeled many things. she can
be sexually promiscuous. she can be sexually ambivalent. she can be
careless when it comes to safe sex. she can have children with
different baby daddys. she can be someone insecure. i mean the list of
labels that one uses to define slut can be endless. i think the real
issue here is that there seems to be a double standard that men can
screw anything and still be considered a man whereas a woman screws the
wrong man or enjoys her sexuality and is forever labeled a slut. what
if the woman is safe? what if the woman is successful, healthy and
overall a great person who is simply liberal with her affections? what
then? is she still a slut? these are the things i wonder.

i think it depends on how long you have been talking to each other and
how much trust and respect you have in the relationship. i wasn in a
long distance relationship he was in so cal i am a nor cal gal. it was
an 7 hour drive or a 45 minute flight depending on how you worked it
out. with communication and maturity it could work. one peice of
advice that i have always listened to was this: love is NEVER confusing.
hope that helps.

i fell in love with my second love online. it wasn't through a dating
site we were in a yahoo chat room and then we just kept chatting all the
time and it eventually led to numbers being exchanged, visiting, etc.
it can work. i've done it and i'd do it again (hence being here).

LOL. sad but true. i don't do that to nice guys coz i actually like
the nice guys. i've only dated one "bad boy" and he was drivin me nuts.
hell, the only reason i even dated him was because he was fine as hell.
my problem is that i usually meet a nice guy, get those damn butterflies
in my stomach, get all guy shy and heaven forbid the nice guy i like is
shy. then we end up being "just friends" rather than something more.
i've often done the sheep in wolfs clothing before and acted like the
bad girl to nab a good guy. coz good guys don't initially like good
girls. if that was the case the world would make sense.

that it is ok to let your guard down to let someone love you. that was
the first love. the second love taught me what i truly value in a
relationship and its trust and communication. i think with each
relationship you end up learning more about yourself rather than them.
i have a better idea of what it is i want out of a relationship.

when does the lust end? i wouldn't know the guys i date always have
lower libidos than me. personally i find it easy to maintain a certain
amount of chemistry it just takes some creativity. i think people get
lazy as they start to take their mate for granted rather than do the
little things they did in the beginning that gave it the fire necessary
to become a blazing love affair. i tend to think the person gets sexier
the longer i know them because i really am starting to know them and how
to meet their needs. i have never experienced a lost of lust but knock
on wood i hope i never get to know what it feels like.

i used to i don't have cable anymore. i miss my buddy. we made
beautiful cuisine together. (sniff...pout)