in a relationship? i think after a year that butterfly feeling starts to
fade.

i don't know, my last serious relationship was a few years and the
relationship was a whole lot more than lust but every time i got near
her i just want to grab her. it was one of those things where i could
just be there for hours touching her body and holding her.

for me it's when I start dating other women behind my lover's back.

LOL..yeah..i think you found eternal lust man, it never ends you just
transfer it to fresh meat.

The lust should never end in a relationship. That's what keeps the fire
burning.

absolutely i agree. It keeps them together. So many things are a
comprimise in a relationship. When one has a need and a desire the part
where people that are married is they give themselves to one another, so
when one flame is lit, then let the other person light your flame and
fire also. You will be a couple forever as long as everything else is
done out of mutual respect and mutual self sacrifice filled by the other
with out being overly needy or demanding and high maintenance. She has a
great head on her shoulders. Sex is also communicating needs and desires
and roles and fun and entertainment and making babies lol. it is a huge
part in the relationship.

With my marriage it just keeps getting better and I hope that it stays
that way.

That depends on who you are with. I've had a long relationship before
with a guy for over 3 years. I had butterflys straight thru. We split
up and it is now 10 years later and I still get butterflys thinking
about him.

Then you have others where you've been with them for a year or so and
are just not into it anymore.

I think it definitely should get better with time. Isn't that what a
successful relationship is all about?

when does the lust end? i wouldn't know the guys i date always have
lower libidos than me. personally i find it easy to maintain a certain
amount of chemistry it just takes some creativity. i think people get
lazy as they start to take their mate for granted rather than do the
little things they did in the beginning that gave it the fire necessary
to become a blazing love affair. i tend to think the person gets sexier
the longer i know them because i really am starting to know them and how
to meet their needs. i have never experienced a lost of lust but knock
on wood i hope i never get to know what it feels like.

yeah hopefully it doesnt end

It should never end. Even after I left my husband, I still wanted him.
Se sere married 25 years and my lust never ended, his did.

ABOUT 3 MONTHES.

WHEN I DONT GET IT UP I GUESS.

i don't think it ever has to if you are still into the person

they fade after a year os so.. give or take a few monthes!!

Damn why are you messing with this old thread dude....?

Now, now Ontario. Not your fault bears only get in the mood once a year.

lmao again Karma

cute dude...whats up...!