I get people guessing I'm in my 30's all the time so I guess I don't really look my age, but some days I sure feel it! Most of the time though it still freaks me out when I realize I am 43!!

G'Mornin sweetie!

AMEN!!!

Yeah I'm thinking his hair is the least of his worries!!!

Now THAT is love!

I would think it was awesome and very sweet! There is nothing better than knowing someone is thinking of you, no matter what time of day!

I've had both types of relationships. My first marriage was a "together yet alone" situation. My second marriage was a very close relationship. So close that at first, I rebeled against the spending every waking minute together thing because I felt smothered. I eventually got used to it, but when it ended, wished I hadn't because then I didn't know what to do with myself when he was gone. Also, spending that much time with someone, you eventually find yourself becoming someone you aren't just to please the other person and keep the "closeness" going. So neither type is healthy if you ask me. Ideally my perfect relationship would be a mixture of both. Two individuals who are comfortable with who the other is as a person, close enough in ideals and hobbies to be able to spend large amounts of time together but also just as comfortable spending time apart pursuing individual passions. A best friend that you are comfortable telling all to and not have to worry that they will hold it against you or judge you. Someone who loves not only who you are, but who you were and who you will become. That one person who no matter what time of day or what is going on, you think of them and it makes you smile. You can't wait to be together after being apart, can't wait to see them after a long day at work and they are the first person you think of to tell when you have exciting news.

OP, I would have to agree with Venusenvy...RUN!!! Fast and far!!!

Things are all good right now but understand that no matter what you do or say, you cannot make up for all the wrongs done her by your fellow man and once she realizes this, you will be no better than the rest of "your kind"! It appears that these are things that she is not going to just "get over" or she probably would have already? Do you really want to live your life walking on eggshells around her, all the while she is just waiting on you to **** up and become just like every other man? No one can live with that kind of stress for long!!!

Cut your losses now and move on hun....

Hmmmmmm I'm a lover not a fighter!

One of the girls that work for me brought me in a cinnamon cluster from Chik-Fil-A for no reason other than she says I am the best boss she ever had!

No it doesn't bother me...I prefer younger for the most part anyway. As do most of the men in my age group it seems...lol. Who can blame them though?

I prefer men that want me naked!!!

I was looking through my mom's catalogs a while back and they advertised that they now had "Goddess sizes"!!! LMAO! I think I like that one!!! I am a GODDESS!!!!

I've never been skinny (never would want to be....lol) and I have no problems meeting and attracting men? It's all in the personality hun!!! That and finding guys that are attracted to cushy women!!!

Oh...and welcome to Mingle!!!

What a great name! My Max is Maximus Copper because he is a copper brindle color. And he thinks he is a lap dog just like Jazzy! Always trying to get up in my lap when I sit down!! Just a big BABY!

I love....(not necessarily in order)

Long, slow, deep, wet kisses that last for days!

The coolness and stillness of early morning when I can stay in bed.

The smell of my baby girl (Jazzy) when she's fresh from the groomer.

Hearing Jazzy on the other side of the front door when I get home and she is so excited to get to me that she can't contain herself till I can get the door unlocked. And then she can't wait for me to put my stuff down so she can give me kisses!

My family and friends!

The feeling of accomplishment for a job well done.

Sweet texts at odd hours to let me know someone is thinking of me and missing me.

The first cold night with soft flannel sheets on the bed!

I really could go on....

Giving up their individualism...forgetting who they are to be what their partner wants them to be.

The grass ain't always greener!

It is a shame that the entire breed (and their owners) have to pay the consequences for those that chose to mistreat their pitbulls and trained them to be so agressive. My boyfriend has always had pitbulls and actually had two of his shot because people (one of them was a cop) assumed that they were going to attack them when all they were doing was protecting their house and people they loved. These days it is very difficult to even get a pitbull due to all the regulations and extra fees associated with the breed. He misses his terribly. We now have a bull mastiff but it's just not the same for him. Course Maximus is just a big 'ole 80 pound baby though!!!

No way!