Not voting for Hillary..... No way.

Nothing wrong with being cautious, but do not let FEAR make your decision for you.

This is all true. The other thing to consider is whether you are doing this to prove something to yourself, or more so...to your ex... as you indicated your ex is sleeping around all over the place. Clearly, you are not ready to get involved with anyone, and that will take time.

Your post is a little confusing. Sounds like he is taking his frustration at his ex-wife out on you. That was hateful behavior. I'd think twice about a guy who was so upset over supporting his children. She can't just "tap" into his account, but maybe the courts CAN. Maybe he was behind or not paying his support and the court went after him to get the money. In either case, something isn't right with the situation. Think twice about dating someone who is so hateful to you.

Hi All.

Interesting.

They do make a good match, don't they? Congrats to both of you.

Not necessarily true. Sometimes, for the sake of curiosity and indulging oneself, and if an opportunity arises, people have destroyed relationships they were happy in. Not everyone cheats because they are "unhappy" in their relationship. Unfortunately, this is one "mistake" that can't be taken back or undone.

I agree with above. I also believe there is a very intense connection on a spiritual level as well as mental and emotional.I believe you feel this connection on all levels, and it is not forced or contrived, but comes very naturally. You also understand each other on many different levels.

Unless it leads to an actual face to face meeting, and amounts to more than exchanging emails... it is not a real dating relationship. There has to be up close and "live" interaction......

I agree Hellcat. Those things are very annoying.......and I really can't take it when they use text messaging shorthand...... drives me nuts...

Well put.

My God, Current Events has gotten so depressing......... such negativity. Yes, there is much to think about in the world around us. Why is it that we are drawn to those events and stories of a darker nature? Why is it that so much of the news today is focused on the negative? Why do WE focus on subjects that do not uplift us... even if it may enlighten us?
We have become like the onlookers on a busy highway, who when passing a horrific automobile accident .....pause and slow down to get a closer look at the carnage....to observe how badly mangled a car, or whether anyone was hurt.... WE ooh and ahh over it.... sometimes forgetting to be grateful it was not us in the mangled car.

It is one thing to have intelligent discourse and debate on topics of mutual interest to us all; it is another when we choose to discuss such overwhelmingly negative, inflammatory material....and then everyone wonders why tempers flare, ....

Are we so drawn to controversy that we can not find something positive to bring to the table now and then?
Yes, we are gearing up for an election, politics is in the air.... there is tragedy all over the world and in our own back yard.... but we all need to stop and smell the roses once in a while!
Of course, we should not ignore what is going on in our world... we SHOULD stay informed and discuss topics of interest.... it is just that nearly every opening post begins with a negative connotation........ I don't know. JMO. Had to get it off my chest.

Matchmaker!

b. Carnal Pleasures for sure.......

Would have to be love there...or why bother?

Oh, I don't know. I kind of like solid ground beneath my feet.... Can't run anywhere in an earthquake....

Boy, am I glad we don't have earthquakes here....... just the thought scares me.

We're all screwed no matter what happens.............

I definitely know what you mean. You should keep in mind, though, that the special one could be right around the corner, and to read something worthwhile about you, could pique her interest. I agree about the distance thing. It is much easier when you can meet with someone face to face, and have access to them if you hit it off...