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Fri 10/22/10 11:09 PM


The truth is ugly...but it can be so liberating, and beautiful.....:smile:


The truth comes in different forms but then so does ugly.......smokin


I love Ugly. It's the 1 Thing I know...will never go out of style!laugh smokin laugh happy

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Fri 10/22/10 11:07 PM

You're not the first one , you won't be the last one


You are funny.laugh

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Fri 10/22/10 11:07 PM
I am laughing so hard.....laugh falling off my chair...

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Fri 10/22/10 11:05 PM
The truth is ugly...but it can be so liberating, and beautiful.....:smile:

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Fri 10/22/10 11:04 PM

wow. northerncalifgirl, you know your ****. that was a totally awesome reply. can i have your autograph.


Heh heh...laugh

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Fri 10/22/10 10:58 PM
Nobody has gotten out of this Planet alive!

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Fri 10/22/10 10:47 PM

I fired a woman tonight. She's in her 40's, has a 17 yr. old daughter, which she is raising on her own.

With out going into all the details, shortly after I hired her 6 months ago, her life went to hell. I risked my life AND loaned her over 2 grand to help her out. Because that's what you do when you see someone in need that you can help.

Tonight, I got proof that she was stealing from me. Selling merchandise under the counter. I don't know how much, yet. At least $800 so far. I won't know the full extent of her treachery until I do a full inventory. Which will cost me even more money.

I'm not helping people any more.
Instead, I think I'll just drink alot. It hurts less and never really disappoints.

Fnord.
(and I'm damn glad I have a backspace button. typing drunk is hard)


While I'm totally empathetic to your personal and financial losses.....I think you need to step back and ask yourself.....

What did I hope to gain by helping her?
Was this friendship driven...or was it merely "fiendship"?
Nobody...with all due respect "helps" anyone unless they feel some greater reward in doing so.....
What was yours?

No need to throw the baby out with the bath water. This will pass. I have been "burned" for much more. Because....in the end, it's not where you start...it's where you end. and nobody gets out of this place ALIVE.
W

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Fri 10/22/10 10:17 PM

Close call between two. One was cleaning commercial chemical spills in 100 degree weather while wearing a taped up plastic suit and 'fireman' type boots. Even more fun the time a 50,000 gallon tank of tar decided to puke it's guts out. Imagine walking through a volcano filled with molten bubble gum while carrying 150 pounds of crap. Then there was the job where I was tearing down houses. REAL fun doing it with nothing more than hammers, prybars and a chainsaw in the middle of summer while sweating your a$$ off and getting fiberglass insulation all over you.


You're funny. I feel guilty about my "minor" complaint...laugh

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Fri 10/22/10 10:10 PM
heh heh....laugh ::smile: laugh drinker

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Fri 10/22/10 10:03 PM
smokin midnite toker.

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Mon 10/18/10 03:17 PM

im new here!
im totally single very very genuine honest kind caring thoughtful
respectable respectful towards all women 100million% allways!!
have great respect for you ladies ! im looking for romance and not
looking for a quicky or short fling etc im looking for someone to
settle with im single and been single a very long time because ive
been hurt by 1-2 women in past ive not dated anyone for 20yrs approx
because i needed to be alone and i just couldnt trust anyone again!
but now ive had enough of being alone and very lonely so lonely!!
over the years ive seen couples together walking or in stores and it
gets to me there so damn lucky !! to have someone ! also another
reason why ive been single is ive been ill with lung-cancer 8yrs
but luckilly been in remission 3yrs now and ive been thinking over
them years who's gonna want me? if im ill like this!!??
im also looking for someone who's understanding im unemployed
because ive been so ill ,but im not looking for simpathy or attention etc etc i dont want you feeling bad for me ! i dont want
to be a burden to anyone thats another reason why ive been single
so damn long because ive been scared if i find a woman that she might
cheat on me !it might happen again ! im a one woman man !!only!!
im not a cheat or will never ever play-away ! im a little over-wieght
15st.5ft-10tall hazel eyes brown hair,capricorn!
im very very easy to get on with so so friendly and totally
non-violent !! im a now non-smoker 8yrs since i got diagnosed with
lung-cancer!! so im looking for a non-smoker only!
well ladies if anyone is interested in me please contact me!feel free
to say hello ok !im sad/very-lonely need someone to talk to!
very kindest regards...sexypauliedude1....

Hi and Welcome Aboard the Good Ship Mingle 2. Hope you enjoy the ride...:smile:
rebecca






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Sun 10/17/10 06:54 PM

rkisit

that brings up something else.
if woman are always saying they are looking for a nice guy, then why do they cheat with an *** hole?

i have been cheated on before, not getting into that, but i have also been an ******* before and got a girl to cheat on her nice boyfriend. when the trust was there, well atleast for me; im not to sure about the other girl and her man. whats your thoughts


I love nice guys. Unfortunately, they only pretended to be nice-then they showed what they were made of...and it wasn't much. Cheating is for people who have a low self-esteem or don't know how to express emotions.

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Sun 10/17/10 04:37 PM
I think it's cute when a guy takes a picture of himself rolling in piles of money.happy

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Sun 10/17/10 04:32 PM
Believe it or not, I've had 5 dates within the past 7 days. The guys who asked me out live in my town. Plus, they are listed on another "Personal/Romance" site...free to post an ad.

Best way to get a 'real" date is to list on your local site and here. You will have to weed through a lot of deadwood, scammers, etc. But the end it better to go out for lunch than type your life away. If anything, it will really boost your confidence.

Good luck.:smile:

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Fri 10/08/10 12:17 AM
I mean, have you connected with someone and gone out on an actual date? If so, was the outcome positive for you and the other person? Thanks for your responses!

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Thu 10/07/10 11:33 PM
Edited by NorthernCalifGirl on Thu 10/07/10 11:34 PM
Hi, everyone. I'm new to mingle 2. Anybody actually go on a Real, Live Date around here? Just curious.

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