No it was his laptop...so that is too bad, oh well

Yep...you are all right...this is so good for me! It hurts...really really bad. And I've treated this man like gold...I'm not just saying that. He tows and he works horrible hours, I cook for him even at odd hours of the night, do his laundry, help run errands...I work full time and am a single mom of 2 boys that I need to take care of as well. I mean, he's done a lot for us too...all kinds of special day trips, fixed a lot of things, etc...but this I feel is still so wrong. He's in my home, while I'm sleeping in my bed. I accepted him for everything he ever was...he had a really bad past. I just am shocked, and I don't honestly know why...but I am shocked that people are out there that do these things. I would like to believe everyone deserves to be trusted...I don't want to be one of THOSE people who don't trust anyone.

lol

absolutely...that is very hurtful!

Thank you sooooo much...this is actually helping me a lot! Definitely good hearing from both men and women...but when a guy agrees it's wrong...it's gotta be wrong, lol.

Just curious on both male and female opinions...

Let's say someone has been living with you for about 7 months. You are both very close...involved in each others families, children, church, etc. And you wake up one night and see that person chatting online with someone of the opposite sex.

How would you feel?
Is it right or wrong? You don't know what the conversation was.

Just curious...Thanks ;-)

definitely takin a nap today zzzzzzzzzzzz

"porn star"...heehee...that was funny. I agree, I think better with the shirt. Otherwise...I like your profile very much.

I understand...believe me. Co-parenting is very hard at times.

I'm sorry...I wish I had a solution or better advice. The best thing you can probably do at this point is talk to her, not at her. She may just get more defensive and resist any kind of change if you handle it any other way.

have the kids expressed to her how they can't stand it? maybe that would make a bigger impact for her? It's so easy to just have a cigarette outside and keep it away from them.

wow...i am surprised she would deny it hurting the kids. maybe the childrens pediatrician could be of help?

lolllllllll...omg...another good one ;-)

lollllll...that's great

canadian bacon, pineapple & cherries...yum!

wow, hang in there...that is awful! my biggest challenge in life is "co-parenting" or lack thereof. However you want to look at it.

lol sweetiepie...too funny! you are NOT an old hag!

i would love to vegas...but my all time would be Greece or Italy

haha...that's where i day trip mdl

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