Thoughts of a good single man.

1) Ahhhh, its a good day, I can get soooo much done.
2) (Next day) Ugh! I hate coming home to a empty apartment.
3) Sheesh, I really would like some great NSA sex.
4) Well, that ain't happ'nen. To much psychological aftermath.
5) (surfing dating sites or FB profiles) Hmmmm, sure would be nice to have nice girlfriend.
6) (!!!internal anxiety!!!) Naaah! Then I gotta check in every day, explain what im doing, sense of obligation, all that emotional work.....
7) Whats on YouTube?......
8 ) I think Ill go work on my car...
9) (11:30 pm) Hmmmm, I wonder what my kids are doing?
10) Do they think of me?
11) God I wish I had a normal home life.
12) Is there something wrong with me?
13) Am I not able to have a relationship with a woman?
14) (Laying diagonally in a king size bed) This is nice!
15) (morning) ..... ughhh.... this sucks waking up alone.....

Giving out candy to kiddos.

Welcome and Good Luck

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I joined site to find that special someone and think I may have found him. We will see how things go. I have made some really nice friends and will remain on site for the forums. It is possible to find someone just need to be patient.

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Still getting all kinds of error messages.

Laughed so hard almost peed myself. ️️️

Watching Gallagher performing at Opera House here in little Granbury Texas.

You have some nice pics but, I would suggest adding more to your profile in regards to your likes and dislikes. What you are looking for etc.

Good Luck and Welcome to Mingle

Tell us about yourself. What you like, don't like, what you seek in a partner. Give the ladies something to go.

Welcome and best of Luck young man.

I totally agree with River. If, someone judges you solely on appearance that is not right "IMO".
There are some very shallow and narrow minded people in this world. There are also others that are not. I personally try my very best to not judge what the eyes see but, rather try to see what's on the inside ones heart. I hope you find a person that can look beyond the physical aspects and see your heart.

No I have not forgotten the psychology of a man. Yes, men and women are wired differently no doubt.

Yes, a man can feel emasculated by a lack of performance. Yes, it can be a destroyer of ones soul but, it doesn't have to be.

Again I know men that have gone through this same thing in real life. They have been able to overcome and live very healthy sexual lives despite the fact that are unable to perform in certain way.

It is not a matter of who's right and who's wrong. It's not a matter of who's opinion is better, or even what the experts think and feel are accurate.

A man needs to provide and protect, to give, to please his girl and make her happy. That's how he gets his self-worth. There are alternative ways to making this happen is all I'm saying.

I have read the psychology on this matter more than once. To be very frank. I have a brother that has this very problem due to an injury he sustained while serving. So, having gone through this very thing with my brother. I feel that personal experience has given me a total different out look on the matter than others completely. It has been a topic of discussion in my family for a number of years.

"The statement that intercourse isn't important is BS", again this is an opinion.

An opinion I don't agree with because of the experiences I have gone through with my family personally. I have seen my brother overcome the feeling of emasculation and is in a thriving, Loving, and very sexually fulfilling relationship for him and his wife.

There are profiles out there without numbers as well that are fake or scammers. One just needs to use caution and common sense to figure out who's real and who's not. It is also important to report those who are scammers and block them from further contact.

Crystal, sorry your experience being less than you wanted or needed.
but, your comment below, is your personal opinion and feelings. Just because it is your belief does not make it right or wrong just your position on the matter.



Yes, I agree that chemistry and sexual attraction are part of a relationship.

However, Saying sex is a necessary part of a relationship and a relationship with out is BS/Bullcrap is your opinion.

That opinion is why men with ED are giving up on relationships because people have opinions and mind sets that if a man has an ED issue he can't satisfy a women. That is NOT ALWAYS true.

I understand it is not the ideal relationship and not a type of relationship everyone is capable of being happy in.

What is important to remember for everyone. Know what you are capable of accepting and know what your not.

Too many people confuse, sexual attraction, intimacy, chemistry and sexual relations (intercourse).

Everyone has sexual attraction, everyone wants intimacy and chemistry but, can still can not have a relationship with out sexual intercourse and be happy. I get that.

Some people don't know or are unwilling to have a meaningful, fulfilling, and Loving relationship without sexual intercourse.

There are all types of levels and understanding of what is acceptable to any one person. Just because one person feels a certain way does not make them right or wrong. It doesn't mean they are full of BS, it means they have a different opinion, understanding and acceptance level than someone else.

This topic has been one I have discussed with several of my veteran friends both male and female. It's not a topic of debate but rather understanding, acceptance and personal preferences as I learned from my friends.

What is good for one goose is not always good enough a gander.

Your right Tropical, it is giving is the true joy.

Well, I can personally say I have no problems sexually and never had.

Everyone has different levels of acceptance and tolerance based on their personal knowledge, experiences and growth and to judge someone is just flat wrong.

It is wrong also, to say someone has a sexual problem and you don't even know them. Your not there doctor, psychologist or therapist and being judgmental based on a persons ability to accept someone else whom has a disability is not right.


If, all I wanted in a relationship was sex, I would be seeking intimate encounters. I want more than just sex, I want and deserve a relationships
that is full of Love, Respect, Honor, Understanding and Intimacy.

Exactly

I think your the one being judgmental.

I am not saying that I don't want sex. I'm saying if I find the right person and they have a problem I'm okay with it.

I'm also saying that to have sex as the soul bases of why a person chooses to date or not date should not be the case.

There are other ways to be intimate with out actual sexual intercourse. And for someone to think that sexual intercourse is the only way is not entirely correct.

I know of several men that are perfectly capable of satisfying a women's sexual needs and desires even though, he himself is unable to rise to the challenge due to ED. They are happily married and have been for years.

You see some veterans out there are unable to have sexual relations because of physical injury they have sustained but, still manage to be intimate with their spouse, girl friend or significant other.

I don't judge a man by what he has in his pants or what he is or is not capable of doing in the bedroom. I accept a man for what he has inside his heart, his mind and soul. The ability to have sexual intercourse is a bonus, because I know there are other ways to have an intimate relationship that doesn't involve actual sexual intercourse. I don't confuse sex with intimacy which is vital to a relationship.

There is a big difference between being intimate/intimacy and sex.