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^^^^^^^^^^^ Beauties!!! 
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hey
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It's been soooo long since I have posted on here. So many people I don't recognize but I would sure like.
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hey
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stoppin in to Just say hi. I mean to Mingle. Oh yea, well you know what I mean.
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Rate me??
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I
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pending Angel's agreement. But I'm 41, is it too late?  But then again, we don't know and love you for your sanity  Do what's right for you and Angel, as a couple and as parents. Who cares what anyone else thinks. Though, I'd go for the goat if it was me... much cheaper and doesn't need to go to college. Just sayin... |
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long time...
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awww thanks everyone
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long time...
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Now Fear, you know where I've been
 facebook duh. 
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long time...
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Don't know ya yet......but hi there.....How are ya? |
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long time...
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no chat. What's up everyone??
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Need some advice...help
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my ex is engaged. he and his fiancee have been together bout 3 years. when i first met her a couple of years ago, i tried to let her know how he really was. she didnt want to hear it. so i kept my mouth shut. saw them a couple of weeks ago, she didnt seem as happy. kinda withdrawn. guess she's seeing his true colors now. feel bad for her but still glad that he is her problem and not mine. sorry OP, went a lil off topic
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Need some advice...help
Edited by
Jill298
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Thu 04/29/10 02:30 AM
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yes because i suspected that he was cheating. when i would ask him about the details of where he had been he always accused me of cheating. which i wasn't. if someone told me that they had saw him or their friend had been with him, i wouldnt have wanted to believe it even tho i knew it was true. only because it meant that my husband who said that he wants only me, was lying. its hell to find out that the one you are commited too is a b@stard. |
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Need some advice...help
Edited by
Jill298
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Thu 04/29/10 01:52 AM
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there's such a large scenario of things that can happen. I think she will eventually find out. But I'm starting to feel that it shouldn't come from me. I'm just to uninformed about her side of the situation.
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Need some advice...help
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my exhusband cheated on me when we were together. didn't know for sure till we were separated for different reasons. course after i left him, i heard all these stories bout him with other girls. IF i had heard these stories while we were together, i probably would have denied it even tho they rang true to what i was thinking. i would have left him a lot sooner. i say tell the wife. |
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Need some advice...help
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This is exactly why I asked for advice. I really needed some unbiased opinions and thoughts from people who are not involved what so ever. Thank you You're welcome Jill, and God bless you, I hope that you weigh all that was said here tonight, and what you know in your heart is the right thing to do. Maybe even pray about it, I'm sure you either have the answer now, or you will soon when you wake up tomorrow. But there are alot of people that care about your problem here and do want to give you the best advice, even if there are differing opinions. But in the end, you will decide what is right, and I hope that somehow some or most or all of our advice may prove useful to you in this. See, I knew I came to the right place 
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Need some advice...help
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This is exactly why I asked for advice.
I really needed some unbiased opinions and thoughts from people who are not involved what so ever. Thank you
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Need some advice...help
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Jill what will happen if wife kicks him out he'll go to your friend.Some people are very good in manipulation and i bet he has both these women convinced he loves them.He loves himself.He's using your friend and keeping his options open I guess I felt like if I was "barb" I would want to be told. But I can't seem to justify contacting her and stirring up all these problems. I feel like I would be causing even more drama and problems to an already bad situation. I just feel guilty for "barb". For all I know right now, she's innocent in this... but maybe she's not. I just don't know. I do believe that all cheaters will eventually get caught. Maybe I should wait it out and let him get caught up on his own. |
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Need some advice...help
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<---- wants to go back to farmville and quiet afternoons. I hate drama. There's been so much drama, just from the people around me lately, I just wanna hide in my house and never come out
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Need some advice...help
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You go to the wife…she kicks him out…your friend is going to take him back.( By the way, she is not without guilt.) Can you not see the writing on the wall here? “He has nowhere else to go” “he still cares about me” “I still care about him”… She was ok with him living there and she justified it by repeating his lies, “sleeps on the couch” yeah right! She knew, she just decided to put up with it in the hopes that he would leave his wife. Your friend just found this out, but she still has some contact with him so that tells me she is still attached. He will go to her because he knows this and she will now be able to say he left his wife. So she will take him back. Then he will work on getting you (the one who told on him and the one person who could ruin this relationship as well) out of his way. The cycle of revenge will just keep going until you have lost your friend. After all is said and done, she will side with the man she is sleeping with over you… I absolutly agree my friend has plenty of fault here, and LOTS of denial to justify her actions. I have never agreed with this whole situation with her from day one. But she's my friend since we were in the 3rd grade and I love her. I love her enough to tell her when she's wrong, just like she would do to me. My "hope" was if the wife threw him out over this, he would be to mad at "sandy" to even try to go back to her. But, who knows... such a messed up situation. |
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Need some advice...help
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e-mailing a spy report would be pretty bad or even useless. It would have to be a phone call or face to face. But since you are not able to do that, it would seem that the best thing is to turn the heat up on your friend, until she relents and releases this wretch she's cheating with. |
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