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Mon 07/18/11 06:32 PM
So Lex, do you think if someone did approach you irl, you would be just as picky as you are right now?

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Mon 07/18/11 06:31 PM

I prefer the term "selective," because it has more syllables.

And, yes, I consider myself selective (or picky!) when it comes to dating -- I don't want to waste anyone's time, and I don't want anybody wasting mine.

That's why I try to be very clear about what I'm looking for, and even clearer about what I'm NOT looking for.

I don't know if I'm pickier on line or in real life -- since I never meet anyone in real life anymore, I suppose it's not very relevant!

I find in real life when someone talks to me, unless it's just way far out there, I tend to be nicer and at least attempt a convo I may not have otherwise had with that person. Sometimes I'm glad I did. But online it's very very easy for me to find a reason to avoid you if I wanted to.

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Mon 07/18/11 06:20 PM
Do you consider yourself a picky person when dating? What's your biggest deal breaker?
I think it's easier to be picky online... you just simply don't have to respond the email or wink, nudge, whatever it is they send you.

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Mon 05/23/11 12:09 AM
Looks good flowerforyou Welcome flowerforyou

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Wed 05/18/11 07:45 PM

I know Im sorry distance does not bother me I just want to get to know a good person
there's a whole lot of good people here. flowerforyou

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Wed 05/18/11 07:36 PM
so very far away... ohwell

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Mon 04/04/11 05:56 PM
:thumbsup: looks good

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Mon 04/04/11 05:47 PM
it doesn't really matter what it is. Whatever you put up on your pic, people will comment on.
I once put a pic up of a panda bear and I started getting emails asking if that was me in a costume laugh

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Mon 04/04/11 05:45 PM
this reminds me of times I've been in women's bathrooms in a bar. just to see the women pushing up their boobs, lowering their shirt, just to complain that all he does is stare at her chest noway and won't look her in the eyes

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Mon 04/04/11 05:39 PM
flowerforyou hello and welcome flowerforyou

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Fri 03/18/11 06:06 AM
How did you mess it up?

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Wed 03/16/11 06:58 PM
and another thing to mention... I have found usually, not always of course, but USUALLY when you have 1 person that's jealous, paranoid, accusing of cheating of trying to cheat... it's USUALLY from a guilty conscience because that person is already cheating, so assumes that you are as well. JMO flowerforyou

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Wed 03/16/11 06:54 PM
And I checked out your profile, it says you're just looking for friends, you're pretty clear on that. Maybe you could add a sentence or 2, stating you are in relationship and you're really only looking to chat and friendship. That's what I did when I was in a relationship.
If she's doing things tho like having fake accounts to monitor what you're doing, that's pretty creepy and a big giant red flag.

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Wed 03/16/11 06:50 PM
I didn't cancel my account on here when I was dating someone, I was very open about it and he trusted me. Simply put, I won't date someone that puts restrictions on me because they don't trust me. This is a site you can chat with just friends. Now if you were on Match.com or Eharmony.com, something like that... where you're pursuing a relationship, that's an entirely different matter.
IMO, if she's paranoid about this, she will be paranoid about more things to come.

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Wed 03/09/11 03:25 PM
of course I judge. Everyone does at least to some extent. Everyone also compares others to themselves, their actions, way they dress, talk, etc etc.
Just like EVERYONE lies. I lied a few minutes ago when someone asked me how I am today, and I replied "great". That's when he probably lied and said said he was great too lol.

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Wed 03/09/11 03:23 PM


No, I don't judge people.


I judge that to be a Load of crap.



:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Sat 02/26/11 08:45 PM
same to you hot stuff!

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Sat 02/26/11 08:34 PM
What's up everyone?? flowerforyou waving Haven't been here in a lil while, I sure see lots of new faces which is good.

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Mon 01/24/11 05:12 PM
flowerforyou waving Welcome waving

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Wed 01/12/11 11:22 PM
well it's at least better than " I like to go out or stay in"

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