I would suggest that anyone that goes to yahoo or other means of IM keep a record of all your e-mails. If in fact they are a scammer that alone can get you out of deep trouble if you get caught up in one...

Always play it safe regardless where you go....

I know how easy it is to think that love is only pain but it is sometimes exquisitely selfless and sweet and exists when people work to make it so.

I have friends that are still together after 58 years of what have not always been easy or blessed years but ones where they have continued to find comfort and hope in because of each other.

I encourage those dishearted by false promises to hang in there and keep open to the possibilities. My experience has been when you least expect it someone with true colors will float into your life and make you think that all the pain and suffering is small by comparison to the happiness you find.

Friendship is a gift...sometimes it lasts for a long time..sometimes, it was just magic! It happens. I cannot explain it any other way!

You are a very, very pretty Chinawoman. Don't run after him; there are a billion other Chinese guys who would be ecstatic to date you.

I never could understand why women who are exceedingly and exceptionally pretty have so much to complain about when it comes to relationships. All the guys want you; why do you pick someone who is not suitable? Pick someone who is.

This is not rocket science, lady. You are pretty; 99 percent of the men want you. If you were the opposite, only 1 percent of men would want you. So you have all these men to choose from, you are at the top of the game, and you still can't make a play that will land you a winner? You are not handicapped in the race, you are a favourite. Why complain then? It's not that you can't. It's not that you don't have the opportunity. Nature gave you the best opportunity it ever could have. Use it, do take advantage -- proper advanantage -- of your good situation, please!! Don't waste you life on losers who don't make you happy or are deceiving you.

Stay with a Chinese man, not with Aryans -- Aryans are a bunch of haughty stuck-up bstrds. To experience true respect, love, and adoration, from a man, pick an African, or an Asian -- south or east, no difference. Just stay away from the crazy white man.

Oh, I made a mistake - some of the south asians are white, inasmuch as they are Aryans or Caucasians. Such as Indians, pakistanis, the afgh, arabs and Jews. But you still have half the world to choose from, chinese, japanese, pilipino, malaysian, australoids, papua-new guineans, africans, which count at least fifty major langauage and distinct nationality groups.

So choose wisely. Don't fritter your love away on unswordsy white trash. If he was white. Was he?

Yeah, huck. I did not even think. I assumed he was white. Was he? Now I feel I've made a fool of myself. Please tell me he was white.

Why care if someone doesn't like who you are? . They do not get to choose what you will do for the rest of your life. It's all up to you how you live it. Society can think they get to dictate all they want, but trying to control someone else is pretty damn silly, imo. Society are not in charge of the law, so that's enough proof that they don't own you. You owe nobody nothing. Some people just need a reality check and see that you are what you are.