Jillybean31


Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:38 PM Topic: I need my love to be........
quick-witted

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:37 PM Topic: I need my love to be........
passionate

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:37 PM Topic: I need my love to be........
open

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:36 PM Topic: I need my love to be........
mine...all mine...hehehe

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:35 PM Topic: I need my love to be........
kind

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:34 PM Topic: I need my love to be........
hilarious thats me I know cause a you kwackin me up

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:32 PM Topic: I need my love to be........ Edited by Jillybean31 on Sun 03/30/08 02:33 PM
hilarious

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:28 PM Topic: am i needy, clingy, normal?
I understand what your saying Jillybean...as much as I do like her, I also don't think I really want to be in a relationship as confusing as this one is...again. Honestly, I don't think I really want to be in any relationship, they are just to hurtful, especially in the beginning, when you think you have fallen for her and not really sure how she feels...she told me the other day she loves me after I told her I am in love with her for the first time, but I think she means she loves me, not that she is in love with me. You have to do what's right for you, certainly. But please don't make future decisions based on this experience. You have to remain hopeful that you'll find something with meaning...but just don't let it mean EVERYTHING until it's proven to be what you want. I'll add that I'm most certainly no authority on relationships...hehehe...but am just a firm believer that being in one should make both people happy.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:19 PM Topic: am i needy, clingy, normal?
I understand what your saying Jillybean...as much as I do like her, I also don't think I really want to be in a relationship as confusing as this one is...again. Honestly, I don't think I really want to be in any relationship, they are just to hurtful, especially in the beginning, when you think you have fallen for her and not really sure how she feels...she told me the other day she loves me after I told her I am in love with her for the first time, but I think she means she loves me, not that she is in love with me. You have to do what's right for you, certainly. But please don't make future decisions based on this experience. You have to remain hopeful that you'll find something with meaning...but just don't let it mean EVERYTHING until it's proven to be what you want.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:14 PM Topic: confidence or innocence?
Why TRY to be anything for anyone? Just BE! It's the easiest thing to do. Then there's that added bonus of knowing that they really like YOU!

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:09 PM Topic: New Here Edited by Jillybean31 on Sun 03/30/08 02:10 PM
Look out Salt Lake gals!

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:05 PM Topic: am i needy, clingy, normal?
Everyone has different personal space requirements...if you don't know hers, you might be invading it. Maybe you could ask her? I've had guys ask me if I mind how often they call...and sometimes was really glad they had. I did ask her last night, i wanted to understand, I told her that she never explained to me how much space she requires. I told her that we need to communicate things in order for this to work out, and I let her know that I will give her as much space as she needs for this relationship. Just ask yourself if you're really ok with the amount of space she needs and you're not accommodating her just to pacify the situation. It's not ok for someone to make all the demands and not care about your needs too.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 02:01 PM Topic: am i needy, clingy, normal?
she said that's the way she is, she doesn't like to spend a lot of time with her boyfriends, it is a turn off to her. She said she doesn't want to be like her best friend who spends a lot of time with her boyfriend. Well, that's fine, but I am trying to be in a real relationship where we spend some time together to get to know each other I wasn't seeing the whole picture before. Honey, if your looking for a lasting relationship and she doesn't want to be your best friend...maybe you're not on the same page. If she doesn't want to be too close, how will you build a relationship? Unless that's just me?

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 01:52 PM Topic: am i needy, clingy, normal?
Everyone has different personal space requirements...if you don't know hers, you might be invading it. Maybe you could ask her? I've had guys ask me if I mind how often they call...and sometimes was really glad they had.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 01:35 PM Topic: when do u know
I can't pinpoint it...think it's different each time.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 01:17 PM Topic: How does mutual match work?
I believe if you choose them, then they are shown your profile on theirs...then if they choose you also...mutual match.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 01:14 PM Topic: how much
Probably quite a bit, as long as it doesn't infringe on my moral fiber....it's the most important part of my breakfast!

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 01:10 PM Topic: Yeah Baby!
So long as it's not also the next day and the next day and the next day

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 12:59 PM Topic: Good Afternoon JSH Family!!! :)
Helllllloooooo!

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Sun 03/30/08 12:56 PM Topic: I need a real women from A to Z.
What do you want her to try?

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