100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
|
Topic:
My body
|
|
I'm not necessarily saying that my lack of luck on this site is because I'm so damned ugly, but the last time someone wanted me for my body I was filling out an organ donor card. for women its not so much what you look like, it's the ''vibes''you give off.....same for men looking for a woman .....body language for both gender's is important for attraction to happen......all good dating coach's now include body language in there courses......the courses are fun and everyone finds out how much they really know about the opposite sex.....money well spent..... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
i miss you too - he said...
|
|
SAD...... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
worlds apart
|
|
ONE LAST THING...IN YOUR PROFILE YOU SAID YOU WOULD LIKE A MAN VERSION OF YOURSELF......YOU WOULD LEARN TO HATE HIM REAL QUICK....
MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY, WE TAKE IN INFO DIFFERENTLY AND PROCESS DIFFERENTLY...NATURE GOT IT CORRECT THAT'S WHY HUMANS HAVE PROSPERED....MODERN HUMANS HAVE CHANGED ALL THE RULES...THEN ADDED A FEW WACKOS...WE HAVE MORE UNHAPPY PEOPLE, THEN IN THE PAST.....IT WOULD BE GOOD IF EVERYONE EDUCATED THEMSELVES ABOUT THE DIFFERENCES AND LEARN TO REALLY LISTEN TO EACH OTHER AND BE HONEST......IT ALL STARTED BY HOW WE WERE PARENTED BY OUR CARE GIVERS, FOR EXAMPLE IF AND HOW WE WERE NURTURED, CHILDREN NEED ATTUNED PARENTS.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
worlds apart
|
|
I love you... i still love you. Three and a half months... it's been that long and at the same time it feels like it was just yesterday. I am still missing you, i am still missing us. I miss calling you, "sexy gorgeous", "my handsome boyfriend", " my loves", and all the endearments i used to call you. At the same time, i miss your morning greetings, when you would call me, "hun", "sweetheart", or "darling". I miss losing myself just by loving you. I miss going to the heavens or just above the skies. I miss telling you how much i love you. I miss writing long letters desribing to you what i am feeling for you... my dreams about us. I miss sending morning greetings, wishing you good night, asking you how your day was. I miss hearing your stories, hearing your voice, your laughter. I miss lauging from your stories, your mean jokes. I miss your sexy stories and getting with them. Above all, i miss hearing or seeing you say, "i love you!" I miss being happy, being content, being in love... i miss the life we used to share... when we used to be one, when i was equally loved... when nothing is missing and all emptiness and voids are filled. I miss crying not because i am hurting losing you, i miss crying because i am so much in love with you and i feel so much loved by you. Every day, i am still missing you and i am still loving you beyond any words that can define love. My heart is still wishing you are mine... i still cry for you every day... i still ache for you every moment. You used to say, "We live in a different world..." and now i believe you because i feel we are now worlds apart... NO ONE IS ALL GOOD OR ALL BAD.......THIS CAN AND DOES COMPLICATE ONE'S VERSION REALITY....... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
love takes time...
|
|
love takes time,to heal when your hurting so much.couldn't that i was blind to let you go... NO ONE IS BLIND TO LET GO WHEN LOVE HURTS....REAL LOVE IS UNDERSTANDING AND SHARING THE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS OF ANOTHER PERSON... IF THAT CONNECTION IS NOT THERE ITS NOT REAL LOVE... I SEE A LOT OF COUPLES THAT THE CONNECTION IS NOT THERE....BOTH ARE RESPONSIBLE, IT TAKE'S A SENDER AND RECEIVER....... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
My profile
|
|
I am blunt and honest in my profile - if anyone suggests a way for me to say things in a softer but still blunt tone - let me know HOW'S THAT WORKING FOR YOU ??? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
LOL.... 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
To me, an open relationship is for people who don't want, or afraid of commitment. But, you do you. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO ARE GIVERS AND THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO ARE TAKER'S.....MOST OFTEN IT'S THE MALE WHO IS THE TAKER UNFORTUNATELY THE FEMALE FALLS FOR IT BECAUSE SHE BELIEVES SHE CAN NOT GET OR KEEP HIM IF SHE DOES NOT..... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
love is crazy
|
|
When you are deeply in love... Every word has meaning, every song, every quotes, just about everything... Simple words in general idea would not even associate with love but somehow, if you put deeper meaning to it, it would connect... Like the word, "pack"... I want to "pack" myself and ship myself right in front of your door so i can be with you all times...  "packing tape" wrap myself with it and let you carefully unwrap me, slowly not to damage the "goods" inside... Anticipation, frustration, then love     ♥
WRAP = FIRST STAGE = ROMANCE PHASE UNWRAP == SECOND STAGE = THE POWER STRUGGLE GOOD LUCK, I HOPE YOU PACKAGE ARRIVES AS SENT, CAREFUL, IT'S FRAGILE....... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
is it so wrong to imagine the most beautiful women wearing heels and short tight dresses and makeup,expressing their femininity down to the ends of their long hair.. [/quot YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO YOUR OWN DREAMS AND FANTASIES....ONE OF THE BIGGEST PROBLEMS IN RELATIONSHIPS IS WHEN ONE PERSON WANTS THE OTHER PERSON TO THINK AND FEEL LIKE THEY DO,....IT IS PERFECTLY O.K. TO HAVE A DIFFERENT VALUE SYSTEMS, THAT'S WHAT MAKES YOU WHO YOU ARE.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
First of all, upload a picture. Second of all, all women are beautiful! THEN WOULD YOU SAY ALL MEN ARE HANDSOME ???? LIKE ALICE COOPER SAID LIFE IS A FANTASY.......... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I know how to behave with a girl. I Just Need One. I am lonely, i want a woman. A pretty One. Maybe a beautiful One. I'll make her Happy. [/quote BE CAREFUL,,,BEAUTY IS SKIN DEEP,,, |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Looking for a future husband
|
|
Focus on making new friends first before deciding on a future husband 
great advice...work on getting to know yourself better..the one person most people know least about are themselves.....good luck.. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
True love,is it real?
|
|
yep, its out for those willing to do the work.....in other words it's for those willing to participate... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Good relationships
Edited by
cleve
on
Sun 11/07/21 03:56 PM
|
|
I would say we all have an agenda, whether we realize it or not. Bad or good, we all want something out of a relationship. Especially if we've had a history of bad relationships, or we attract narcissists etc. We always tell people the good side of us to attract them, but not the not so good side. Maybe we are the bad guy but we don't even know it. I was probably the cause of why my previous relationships failed but I never realized. You often don't see your own flaws, but others do. you are becoming wise beyond your years.......most people DO NOT take ownership of there part in there relationships....WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US.....HOW??? GLAD YOU ASKED....BY WHAT WE WILL EXCEPT, WHAT WE WILL NOT EXCEPT, AND WHAT WE REINFORCE.....ALL OF US ARE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE WHO WILL SUPPORT OUR FAVORITE FEELINGS, VALIDATE OUR BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS.....THE PROBLEMS PEOPLE HAVE IN RELATIONSHIPS ARE JUST SURFACE NOISE....PROBLEMS ARE CREATED BY HOW WE BEHAVE TOWARDS OTHERS...YOU CAN NOT FIX A PROBLEM BY FOCUSING ON THE NOISE....WE NEED TO REALLY LISTEN TO OTHERS IN A WAY THAT THEY KNOW WE HEARD THEM, IT GO'S A LONG WAY TO BUILD TRUST, SAFETY, AND EMPATHY.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Self Love
|
|
Be you in a dating site but always remember one thing loving yourself comes first...if you know your self worth.people will automatically follow you with respect & dignity..so have fun but maintaing your self esteem.
yep...then we believe we are o.k., we must believe others are o.k..then we must communicate in a way others can take in what we send.....first is by reflective listening, repeating back in your own words what you heard....then ask is there more....its important that the other person knows you heard then correctly....look for feelings when they spoke, let know you took in the feelings by acknowledging them.....how we listen is the most important of communication......it's seeing the sense the other person makes to themselves. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
a little piece of happiness
Edited by
cleve
on
Sat 11/06/21 05:56 AM
|
|
YEP,,,''HAPPINESS IS A INSIDE JOB''......THE ONE COMPONENT OF LOVE IS EMPATHY ''THE ABILITY TO UNDERSTAND AND SHARE THE FEELINGS OF ANOTHER'' ....TO GET TO THAT POINT WE ALSO NEED SELF EMPATHY...''TO FEEL AND UNDERSTAND OUR OWN FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS''.....WE ARE NEVER WRONG BECAUSE WHAT WE BELIEVE BECOMES OR REALITY.... OUR BELIEFS ARE WHO WE ARE AS A PERSON AND THEY TAKE US WERE WE ARE GOING IN LIFE....CHANGE A BELIEF,CHANGE YOU LIFE..... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Partner
|
|
Why is it so hard to find a honest and truthful woman. Are there real ones out there? The site is getting boring. I SUGGEST READING ''MEN ARE FROM MARS-WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS''...NEXT ''THE SECRET'' BY RHONDA BYRNE....SHOULD YOU HELP FIND THEM....MOST WOMEN WILL UNCONSCIOUSLY TEST US TO SEE IF WE ARE WHAT WE SAY WE ARE AND THAT ALONE CAN CAUSE PROBLEMS....GOOD LUCK...P.S. YOU WILL FIND MOST WOMEN HAVE BEEN WOUNDED AND SOME WOUNDS TAKE A VERY LONG TIME TO HEAL IF EVER..... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
i am new
|
|
I just want to know if there are lot of decent guys here?Like people who actually want a real relationship DAM, YOU JUST MISSED HIM BY 5 MINUTES......GOOD LUCK.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Topic:
Empowered women
|
|
ITS NOT FEAR...  WOMEN FOR THE MOST PART KNOW AS MUCH
ABOUT MEN AS MEN KNOW ABOUT WOMEN,,,NEXT TO NOTHING.!!!!!!!!!! THEY NEED TO SET DOWN SHUT UP AND REALLY LISTEN TO EACH OTHERS THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS..BOTH SIDES ONLY HEAR THE VOICES IN THERE OWN HEADS WHILE THE OTHER IS TALKING..... |
|
|
|
|
Previous
