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Sat 06/29/13 08:11 PM
Zoology

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Sat 06/29/13 08:10 PM
Inflorescence

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Sat 06/29/13 08:08 PM
I think the winner's circle is over here... :tongue:

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Sat 06/29/13 08:06 PM
Noosphere

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Sat 06/29/13 08:04 PM
Once, I think.


Have you ever been way down yonder on the Chattahoochee where it gets hotter than a hoochie coochie?

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Sat 06/29/13 08:01 PM
Schism

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Sat 06/29/13 07:30 PM




Well you're not going to get two bits then! rant


Sounds like the ole shave and a haircut.


noway A hippie with a shave and a haircut?
What next, cats and dogs sleeping together?


Human sacrifice, dogs and cats living together... mass hysteria!

laugh

*runs in circles*

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Sat 06/29/13 07:29 PM
Edited by ViaMusica on Sat 06/29/13 07:29 PM
Babylon, NY

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Sat 06/29/13 07:28 PM

the stupidity of the inbreed lowbrow masses, who are basically animals.

I think that tells us all we need to know about the motivation behind a thread like this... huh

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Sat 06/29/13 07:24 PM

I don't mean to sound sour or against marriage. To be honest, I'm the marrying kind. I like idea of being married. I like the "two of us together" part of it. I like having someone to come home to. Heck, Someone that gives me a reason to come home.

But, I just don't think it's ever gonna happen for me again. And it's mostly because of what I learned while married. I learned how a marriage "shouldn't" be. Here is the part that sounds ugly. It's just the truth. It took me 5 yrs to start dating again after my divorce. I was a mess from what I was put through.

After I started dating again it seems all I can find are women with some of the same qualities as my X. And I mean the bad qualities. One woman would have this quality. Another one would have that one. Each one would have at least one quality my X had that drove me batty. Which made me run away. (A child once burned learns not to play with fire")

I don't know, Maybe it's just the part of the world I'm in? All I do know for sure is, It's gonna take a special kind of woman to put a hook in me again. She is gonna have to be an open book. Someone I can see for who she really is. Someone who doesn't hide who they really are. And not be someone who "springs" it on me all the bad things they are after they think they have me hooked.

I have to ask this:

Did each of these women have only ONE of the negative qualities your ex had? I guess what I'm getting at is that there isn't anyone, male or female, who is without some negative quality of some sort. Nobody's perfect, so if what you need is a perfect mate, then you're right, you probably won't ever find a woman who meets that need.

If, on the other hand, you can handle certain negatives in isolation (rather than several concentrated in one person), you might find a woman who has so many wonderful and positive qualities that they overshadow the one negative quality.

I wish you success in finding someone like that.

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Sat 06/29/13 07:20 PM
Oh, yes. drinker


Have you ever fallen asleep despite massive caffeine intake?

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Sat 06/29/13 07:18 PM
Finial

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Sat 06/29/13 07:17 PM
I'll just stand over here in the winner's circle.

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Sat 06/29/13 07:12 PM
"The Invisible Ray" (1936 Boris Karloff - Bela Lugosi scifi melodrama)



(Svengoolie FTW!)

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Sat 06/29/13 07:02 PM
lemon butter

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Sat 06/29/13 07:01 PM
spock

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Sat 06/29/13 06:59 PM
Edited by ViaMusica on Sat 06/29/13 06:59 PM
Quibble

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Sat 06/29/13 06:58 PM
Fine, so it's only my 3122nd. Pick on the new girl.. grumble

laugh

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Sat 06/29/13 06:56 PM
Yes


Have you ever stayed up for over 24 hours at a stretch?

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Sat 06/29/13 06:55 PM
Mandible

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