Sanjeev009

Hello friend! How's it?

What is this one thing that you see almost daily & every time you do, it reminds you of God's greatness?

With me:
Its pregency.
A thought of this little being incide a female body, eating what she eats, hearing her inner voice & breathing incide her.

That's just too amazing to me.

Your profile is short & straight to the point.

"I like a guy whose not shy about he's feelings"
Couldn't agree with you more,
Love it when a guy expresses he's feelings without holding back.

Your profile seems ok with me, simple general stuff that is to be known about you, suppose one will just have to ask you further information if needs clarity on detailed stuff.

All the best on your seach for a mate or friends!

Hello dear!

Must say I love the expression of your face on that pic,
You seems very friendly....

Love have no fomuler, at times it develops over time, at times its love at first side.

The only disadvantage about love at first side is that its often mistaken with lustfulness, therefore it should be give enough time, so there's clearity. Just as Sweetestgirl11 has said...

Glowlove

I fully agree with you, cause the after effects of divorce & separation hit more harder on innocent kids. I'm from a broken family, believe me its tough. It has somehow impacted on how I feel about relationships' & commitment.

I'm 29years but still undecided if I wanna be I a relationship, let alone commiting. I know that i'm the product of my past, like anyone else & i try very hard not to let my past affect my future in a negative way, though I must admit it does one way or the other.

Ask me anything else about my future plans, about career, education, investments etc, you'll get full answers about my current & future plans, but ask me about family & relationships, where i'm hitting to...? My mind just blocks, can't answer anything & find it very shameful that at my age, I don't know yet what do I really want when it comes to relationships.

Hardly even think about finding a partner. The only thing i'm sure of is that I desire no one to go through anything i've gone through, growing in a broken family. The after effects can turn to be hectic on kids. Think parents should really consider kids first when intending to separete

Tru that David it depends,
Though maturity goes without saying, that one I won't compromise for anything.

Hello dear!

I think you should rather try partaking in the chatt room so you can be recognized.

One other thing that I think impacts on you not getting repplies is your profile photo (take no offense please)
That's a beautiful picture you're having there,
Though people wanna see who do they interact with, I'm one of those who won't respond to a person i'm unable to see.

Your photo plays a big role here, since we don't really know one onother, there's more focus on how you look, people can then deside if they like what they see.

Best wishes on your seach for friends!!

Artlover9

Here's my openion, could be wrong though:

The nature of love is blind,since one misses all visible faults when still in love, however if love is not natured & given enough attantion through quality times but rather being niglacted, mistreated & abused, it somehow comes to an end.

First sign of an ending love is when one starts to note & see faults that were missed all this time even when those who care about were trying to warn you. (not nessesarily being jelous of you, but warning you on a sincere manner, since they're not inlove & therefore see things for what they really are)

Love does have an end, that's when the blindness fades away.

Sure it is especially if you have a lot in common with your partner, you compliment one onother than if you were too different.

Dating brings excitement & take ones' mind away from day to day issues. It just spices up ones' life.

Glowlove

That sounds personal & very true. Can't emphasis enough how our past impacts on our future, especially if issues are left undelt with.

That's a very sensitive topic you've touched, such are topics I personally think we should talk more about & help one onother.

Hi Wingka! Good to have you & welcome to Mingle2.
Hope you'll enjoy interacting with us...

You really are a blassing lady... I'm enjoying your compony.

"Make a list of contrete steps you can take that will realese you to live a more fulfilling life until your mate comes along"

My answer still begins with God.think its wise to consult with Him & find out what He has called you for.

1, Persue your calling.
2 , Self empowerment through education, investments, careers etc.
3, Seach & discover your self, then you'll do things that are more fulfilling to your being (doing your interests, finding out what are things about your self that are already good & can impact on others in a possible way, work on them so they can be improved from being good to being graet. Find out what are things about your self that can threaten your marriege & work on overcoming them, examples: short temper, impetience, pride etc)
4,Enjoy your freedom while you still can, in a sense of doing all the desired things that you know you not gonna do them as often as you'll desire when married, like going away on holiday, upgrading your car,doing shopping as you please etc... Some of those are not gonna be easaly done when married, you'll have to consult your partner first.

Great questions you asked here...

"What do you think will happen if you release your desire of marrying to God?"
My answer to this question will diviate a little from the asked question.

There's a passage in the bible (can't recall where is it exactly, its in the book of Isaiah somewhere) that says "Many are mens' plans but only my (God's) plans prevails"
The sooner we understand & acknowledge that it bigins with God & its about God, the reason why we're existing, the better for all of us, cause will spent our precious time persuing activities that are more inline with He's plan about our lives rather than investing energy on things are just not meant to take place in our lives.

My main answer to your question is that, i'll first want to find out from God if its in He's plan to get me married someday? Then take it from there...
I personally believe (could be wrong though) that marriage (if one is a born again) is a ministry that not everyone is called for, hense there's a highest rate of divorce in the body of Christ than any where else.

Reason why I state that if one is a born again, marriege becomes a ministry, its because if one is not saved, that person lives he's/her life as it pleases him/her, but when it comes to being saved, one lives or rather should live to please God, who layed the life that we should live through Christ Jesus.Instructions of how to go about living life in marriage are in He's word, which is far different from our idea & our human expactations of what marriege is.

We human are more concerned about things that God who created marriege is not even worried about, examples: we weman worry more about our body size in marrieges, if we're as prittier as we were before being married, (which is totally not wrong) we stress too much if unable to give our husbands babies etc

The list goes on & on... But God is more concerned about our inner most being, than our physical beauty that we often stress about. He's more interested in our services to our husbands than being able to mantain your body size that will sure differ after you've had kids. (i'm totally not against weman looking after them selves, I too believe in looking good) though somethongs turn to be beyond us to a point of divorce, which God doesn't approve, just cause there's more focus on physical things that fulfill our pleasures that He's expactations.

The wife's glory is through her husband. When reading Proverbs 31 when the bible speaks about a wife's duty, that's when you'll see that not everyone is called for that. The bible speaks more about her services than her looks & her body size, when we worry too much about that & even getting pressure from the husband who turned your body to that size when he left he's seed on your womb, that turned to be a human being, who brought changes to your body.

Great questions you asked here...

"What do you think will happen if you release your desire of marrying to God?"
My answer to this question will diviate a little from the asked question.

There's a passage in the bible (can't recall where is it exactly, its in the book of Isaiah somewhere) that says "Many are mens' plans but only my (God's) plans prevails"
The sooner we understand & acknowledge that it bigins with God & its about God, the reason why we're existing, the better for all of us, cause will spent our precious time persuing activities that are more inline with He's plan about our lives rather than investing energy on things are just not meant to take place in our lives.

My main answer to your question is that, i'll first want to find out from God if its in He's plan to get me married someday? Then take it from there...
I personally believe (could be wrong though) that marriage (if one is a born again) is a ministry that not everyone is called for, hense there's a highest rate of divorce in the body of Christ than any where else.

Reason why I state that if one is a born again, marriege becomes a ministry, its because if one is not saved, that person lives he's/her life as it pleases him/her, but when it comes to being saved, one lives or rather should live to please God, who layed the life that we should live through Christ Jesus.Instructions of how to go about living life in marriage are in He's word, which is far different from our idea & our human expactations of what marriege is.

We human are more concerned about things that God who created marriege is not even worried about, examples: we weman worry more about our body size in marrieges, if we're as prittier as we were before being married, (which is totally not wrong) we stress too much if unable to give our husbands babies etc

The list goes on & on... But God is more concerned about our inner most being, than our physical beauty that we often stress about. He's more interested in our services to our husbands than being able to mantain your body size that will sure differ after you've had kids. (i'm totally not against weman looking after them selves, I too believe in looking good) though somethongs turn to be beyond us to a point of divorce, which God doesn't approve, just cause there's more focus on physical things that fulfill our pleasures that He's expactations.

The wife's glory is through her husband. When reading Proverbs 31 when the bible speaks about a wife's duty, that's when you'll see that not everyone is called for that. The bible speaks more about her services than her looks & her body size, when we worry too much about that & even getting pressure from the husband who turned your body to that size when he left he's seed on your womb, that turned to be a human being, who brought changes to your body.

Ofcause you will be loved someday, just mingle with us until someone recognizes you in the chatt room & send you an email.

Do you believe in a lady initiating...?

Sure why not...

If one can write a book about relationships/marriages & how to live a balanced life (being progressive & indipendant without threatening the relationship) I'd defenately buy that book & read it with my partner, so both parties benefit from it.

You will know who the one is, inspite of what we may all be telling you right now. This begins with you not him or them (the 5guys you interact with now)
You have to know your story, your values & requirements, what you willing to offer, your interntions, what you hoping for in a relationship, stufff you just won't put up with etc

It is then you can tell among the 5guys, who seems to meet your requirements.

I'd say for now just enjoy the attention & have fun, the right person will eventually come along, he may not be among the 5right now.