I had never been so all alone as when I was married. Now, I live alone
(with Zoe) and am far from lonely - OnALark

you said it...and that is what i mean. you can be lonely in a crowd, but
if you truly love yourself, you will not feel lonely even when you are
by yoursel

**bow**

yes, yes it is

hell no, enjoy it while love is there...then move on

9 Things I Hate About People

1. People who point at their wrist while asking for the time. I know
where my watch is pal, where the **** is yours? Do I point at my crotch
when I ask where the ****ing toilet is?

2. People who are willing to get off their ass to search the entire room
for the TV remote because they refuse to walk to the TV and change the
channel manually.

3. When people say "Oh you just want to have your cake and eat it too".
****ing right! What good is a cake if you can't ****ing well eat it?

4. When people say "it's always the last place you look". Of course it
is. Why the **** would you keep looking after you've found it? Do people
do this? Who and where are they?

5. When people say while watching a film "did you see that?" No *******,
I paid $10 to come to the cinema and stare at the ****ing floor.

6. People who ask "Can I ask you a question?" Didn't really give me a
choice there, did you sunshine?

7. When people say "life is short." What the ****?? Life is the longest
damn thing anyone ever ****ing does!! What the **** can you do that's
longer?

8. When you are waiting for the bus and someone asks “Has the bus come
yet?” If the bus came would I be ****ing standing here?!

9. When something is 'New and improved!'. Which is it? If its new, then
there has never been anything before it. If its an improvement, then
there must have been something before it

younger men are not afraid to date older women, unfourtunately, older
women do not hold up in the looks department (i know, i know....blah
blah blah..."i am a beautiul older women"...blah blah blah) If a forty
year old women mantained the beauty of an 18-20 year old, she would have
absolutely no problem. but at least older women make up for it in sex
drive...HORRAY for older women sex drives!

sage, i also respect your opinion, but it is not my own. I would not lay
my life down for anyone if i had the time to think about it. Instinct is
another thing, but if you use rationality, you come down to the
knowledge that what makes a person who loves themself the happiest...is
pursuing more happiness. And i dont believe in scripture. i believe you
have one life to live, and you must live it to the fullest

OnALark, and how many unhappy relationships do you know because the DOES
NOT happen. like i said, the most important person in your life should
be you. Just like the most important person in my life is me. If your
partner can't, or wont give you what you need, he/she is not right for
you. One thing you gotta realize...PEOPLE DONT CHANGE. they may for a
day, week, or month. But in the end, they will revert to the person they
were prior to meeting you.

Laura, he got what he wanted...to get into your pants. then he got
bored. it's simple like that

hi, im sleepy....

true, but still...knowing about love doesnt make me stupid about it. I
live alone now, had wife once. been in love many times and it's the
greatest, but irrational thinking got me to where i am now. And it will
not happen again. The most important person to me....now....is me. I
LOVE ME and because of that, i can love others yet not allow them to
stop loving myself.

Love is a feeling that gets you all flustered, excited, and thinking
irrationally. It's like the high you get from winning a big race,
performing in front of 100's of people and getting a standing ovation,
or getting that licking from your dog after you have been away for a
month.
It's is everything that feels good rolled into one, yet it lasts longer
than any of the other aformentioned feelings. Yet, like all the others,
it is also ...just a feeling. And feelings (hate, love, happiness,
sadness, fear) are fickle, they come and go. Some last long, some dont.
But in the end, they all end.
What i would love for you to understand, but i'm almost sure everyone
here will disagree, is that like all feelings. you should allow them to
run their course, but dont let them run your life. You don't let fear
from letting you follow your dreams, right? Don't let love do it either.
Allow yourself to fall in and out of love, but keep your head on
straight...don't allow your dreams get squashed because u may think "he
is the one". Chances are he is not.
So date him, love him, and at the first sign that you are unhappy with
him, dump him. Compromise is only for losers. Think of yourself first
and foremost.

i used to get goldstars for coloring within the lines....ahh the good ol
days

when i was a younger(15yrs old), much thinner lad...I was very popular
with the girls. to make a long story short. I had a girl that stalked
me. no matter what i tried she would not go away. the creepiest day was
when i was hiking with some friends, she caught up to me and showed me
her hand. they were pretty bloody. she told me that she had wrapped her
hands around some barbed wire because i would not pay attention to her.
then she told me that if i continue to ignore she would jump off the
ledge we were walking next to ( i would say that the bottom of the ledge
was probably about 30 ft below us). But since i was trying to get some
other tail, i ran up to a girl i was trying to hook up with and began
hitting on her. luckly the stalker didnt jump. but she was a freak.

black n tan please

grade-egg

there is no real criteria, just someone that catches my eye or my mind.
i 've got one of each at the moment.

well kids, i think it's time for me to hit the sack. goodnight all

gnight

<<lions>> i take it back, u r a very bad speller...lol i believe u
meant to say sarcasm....and no it was a TRUE compliment.