am too old to worry about it

^this....nice post KLC

A beautiful breezy day at the beach or woodland hike are among the finer things to me...a cozy Christmas with enough gifts to go around, front porch sittin' where the scenery is well...scenic :)

a quiet engine on a car that handles well (or a loud one if it's tuned well) lol

Get Well & Feel Better

hello, I would reference your reading comprehension and suggest rereading the WHOLE statement and suggest you try to ignore the temptation to look for something to argue about IamwhoIam.

that will tell whether you are really interested in a conversation or just picking an argument hunnie

in any case it matters not to me, I don't really care much for what others think and I am going back to bed. g'nite

I'm confused. free treatment? social worker and a physician? that's a Master's Degree and an M.D. maybe Oh...10 years of school....oil AND gas professional? doesn't make sense. and no one says dear, especially calls another man "dear." he lost me at that. lol

yes there is someone for everyone, but most likely more than one someone. some prefer to live alone or remain single, some are willing to overlook a few things, some not so flexible.

The one thing, in terms of criteria we set or expectations, is that no one is going to meet them all. it's important to prioritize these criteria and sort out maybe 2 or 3 that are absolute....the rest rate with a degree of high to low importance because if you cannot show some flexibility you are basically saying you prefer to stay single. you could be overlooking a wonderful person for a stupid reason like they are not Caucasian or they are not old/young enough w/e.....what is stupid to one person can be important to another. But justify why (to yourself) so you can prioritize.

me, I zoom in on the smoking. no can do. I could not live with a smoker for my own health reasons, nor an unhealthy eater nor a negative or destructive person (no drama). Out side of that I can be fairly flexible, but the requirement of someone who is reasonably positive and nondestructive is harder to find than you might think. people tend to be controlling when you let them get close to you.

I have had 2 recent messages telling me how pretty I am by men who have never seen me. Clearly it would take 2 seconds to discern that I do not have a photo on here.

How can such men think they will get a response, or complain when they do not get one? (sometimes I do respond just to mess with them) lol

mostly they are wasting their time and mine , though not mine to as great a degree. But the annoyance factor runs high and it's a good indication of a person who is selfish and won't be sensitive to the needs of their partner, inconsiderate - only caring about what they want.

not someone most women on here are going to encourage

TGIF is right.....it's almost here


Friday

Yes the Ukraine, Chechnyen and Chernobol are such sterling examples that have earned the Russians their bragging rights.


not to mention their own less than remarkable record in India Pakistan, and Asia Minor ...

I watched a movie last night called Life Of Crime with Jennifer Aniston and I think she was also one of the producers. It was good and a funny twist ending

I can't believe anyone would actually admit they do this to their own daughters. These people are sick...any sympathy I have for cultural relativism stops here.

Though we have to admit that there have been a couple of Drs in the states convicted of mutilation but for a different purpose. Whatever the purpose, no one should need an explanation as to why it is wrong to perform unwanted or unneeded surgeries of ANY kind

it is what it is. life goes on. treasure your memories, take all the time you need to grieve and enjoy all of the good wishes here and elsewhere from your friends. Best wishes

yes at 3 am for some emergency Nyquil maybe....with a coat over them lol

white purses and footwear in fall & winter, shoes that do not match either the hose or hemline for a dressy or business occasion. Overly short hemlines on gals whose legs do not warrant the privilege.

Other than that, whether it's preppy, emo, or euro I also think peeps should rock their own style

white purses and footwear in fall & winter, shoes that do not match either the hose or hemline for a dressy or business occasion. Overly short hemlines on gals whose legs do not warrant the privilege.

Other than that, whether it's preppy, emo, or euro I also think peeps should rock their own style

Just because you wonder about the intent of what he was saying doesn't mean you are insecure. (we all are to some degree anyway).

Have you asked him about what he means when he says that, asked him to explain?

I love bears and wine, and beer

hmmm..you aren't braggin' are you?

At the point when it is clearly consensual

no one is pressuring and no one is feeling pressured

it runs in the blood of many people of color as well.
this idea that only white people are capable of racism is nasty racism itself

Fortunately there are plenty of people of all races who realize that racism is wrong.