Serious though, it does depend on your partner. Some are not willing to explore.

Can bad sex make or break a relationship? Or is there room for improvement?

Can bad sex make or break a relationship? Or is there room for improvement?

your welcome;-) that's great you are going to meet a potential girlfriend, I hope things go well,

try keep it positive and talk about positive things:-) do you think you have things in common?

like does she have kids? or of the same culture maybee?

just make sure you meet the first time in a public spot, always take precautions, NEVER trust

a guy that says he's there to meet you on her behalf!! not even if you talk to a woman!

safety first

yes that sounds nice,I dont have a wife at home that means its all good, how old is your
daughter? elementary school age? have a nice time
jamie (pony)

the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my third post to you? lol ...ok then, friends first

the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my third post to you? lol ...ok then, friends first

the guy thought the post above was funny, which it was

LMAO- Laughing my azz off
fyi- for your information
if that was what was confusing you beside kic

or maybee it was the fact that someone found shy girls British humor funny
I love it! I better! I'm born there..lol

so ((((N2000)))) you don't live very far from me, say we meet in the middle its like six hours each and i'll take you for a nice pony ride to make you feel better, its customary in our country
or am I been a little to forward, this is my three post it you? lol ...ok then, friends first

LMAO!!

you said you want more opinions from men,
well your in luck! I have 57 personality, one been
a lesbian stuck in a man's body.
your just going to have to wait a bit.

a good point is brought up, it seems odd that
he's been deprived for 25 years and yet he
needs time? that may be reasonable if
the rejection, he says he's facing have been accruing
in the last two years.
she just may have bad libido, I've talked to many woman,
it just came up in conversation and they would have NO
REASON to say it other than its the truth.

I don't know why one could be so pro, one way or another!
there's many reasons.

to be so convienced that you were played and should
run down and support the psychiatric profession:-(

you said it best, time will tell all
there may be a day coming soon that you will need to
admit to yourself that you never had what you think you
had.
I know i've done it once for every relationship I've been in.
and the best way to do that is stop glorifying the good times
that's not healthy at this moment either as you may be best
not to sit idle,setting youself up for a bigger fall.
ten years cellulite, you say...no dout he's "g_d" in bed..lol
Having said that cherish the good times, in time as there's been
no real bad history,
because its better to love and have lost than never have loved at all
and that advice dosent cost $130 an hour.

"the preasure is to play, it make no difference that they say"

We don't born with vows my friend. What will happened the other party not corporate with the other. Who wants to live like a dead body. Unless they have mental problems. .

For me i will say is not good to have sex out side marriage just think wen your find out dat ur wife or ur husband is chating on ur hw u feel just remember d vow u both took for better or worst that u both will stick 2gether so no need of seekn alternative wen problem cmes up u av to endure till death do u apart as u vowed

{{{ I agree with twatstrat }}

until you've walked a mile in one's shoes!

my friends dad had a head injury when he was a teen, and was on strong medication

for many years, leaving him impotent at an early age with no sexual desires.

his mother was very acractive and admitted not have a sex life for 10 years and eventually took

on a boyfriend that did move inn, in the end. As her husband's health deteriorated rapidly in
his late 40s.
she honored " til Death shall we part", after years of frustuation and unfulfillment, she looked after herself.
she's entitled to a full life as well!

her husbands passed, but she has been with the boyfriend for almost 20 years.

were only human and we're subject to change!

people change, the times change, situations change

{{{♥ his name's odd Rod ~ not dead rod ♥ }}} no pun intented to the story~ or was there

i believe there is nothing wrong in having sex ,because if you dont you will be sexually frustrated and you will not be happy nor you can keep you wife happy so just dont let anyone know about this at least your wife

I don't know. If she now only knows you as her carer and doesn't think of you as her husband it's hard to see how it could possibly bother her. What do you think she would want you to do? I mean, when she was still the woman you married, if you had a conversation about whether it would be alright if this happened to her, what do you think she would have said? Would she have wanted you to be happy and would it make you happy to be with another woman?

A sexless marriage is kind of a marriage in name only.

I think you should set sn appointment with a psychologist asap. If you cannot understand that he is lying about only having had sex 5 times in 25 years there is no way you will get through the trauma of realizing you have been used. Your kids need you. Please get advise from a professional.
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Ok I mean Two times sex at a time. mean two times at one night. But he told me they have sex once a month or once two months. That is also normal sex not excitement or cuddling or romance. Hay still I am ok.no need a psychologist. He might lying but I still love him deep in my heart. What can I do. I am trying