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Fri 12/26/08 12:27 PM
Fake pics are dumb...

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Fri 12/26/08 12:25 PM
sexy and smart. Hardworking, and career oriented.

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Fri 12/26/08 12:24 PM
Havent found a good woman that is attractive and doesnt drink every night.

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Fri 12/26/08 01:08 AM
Maybe he is trying to get a headstart for next christmas.

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Fri 12/26/08 12:58 AM
I believe you may be a deranged cat person....maybe just obsessive?

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Fri 12/26/08 12:54 AM
Edited by sloughr1 on Fri 12/26/08 12:55 AM




usually there is a real pic somewhere in the profile
sometimes there's not.

who cares?


I care, as well as a lot of other people. This is to everyone: If it's a picture of a car or some other non-offensive object, creature or famous person, that's fine. But posting a fake (human, of course) picture of yourself, trying to pass that picture off as you is completely shady and dishonest. As much as personality matters, so does physical attraction. I'm not going to fault anyone for meeting someone in person and then running the other way when it turns out that that person looks nothing like their picture.

It's not just the physical aspect of it, but the honesty aspect. Letting someone think you look one way just to get that person to date you and then say, "Hey, I guess you never really cared about me if you are going to let a little thing like what I look like break us up" when that person wants to back out is hardly any different than a woman trying to trap a man by saying she's pregnant when she's really not. If it's as simple as not caring about looks, then that person would not have presented a fake picture in the first place and would have trusted his or her personality to see them through.

Talking with someone over the Internet is not that much different than talking with someone in person. Imagine that in-person person suddenly having a different face the next day. It would be an extremely weird and difficult situation. You would feel as though you are talking with a stranger, no matter how much in common that person has with you as did "the previous person." When I think of my loved ones, the first thing I think of is their faces. I'm pretty sure all people do. We do not simply love the personality but the package the personality comes in as well -- the face.

To the poster of this thread, if you mean any of this, I completely see where you are coming from.


Well If thats the case then I'm screwed.

Or not. sad frustrated


LOL. No, you're okay.

And, s1owhand, I know what you mean, of course. I have no problem with fun pictures like you and others in this thread described/display.

To everyone else who complimented my post, thank you. All of you seem like great people. Maybe I will start to post more often, at the suggestion of one in this thread.

Take care, everyone.

~Forbes~



Forbes, you have brains along with beauty, it is hard enough to find one or the other, let alone both; So it would be a pleasure to talk with you again.

sl

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Fri 12/26/08 12:49 AM
It took four pages of bullsh*t, and hazing to get a good answer.....WOW

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Fri 12/26/08 12:48 AM
And the older gentleman looks better than I do, good job.

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Fri 12/26/08 12:47 AM
Agreed to a point, but if someone looks hideous, or has no teeth, how are you really supposed to get past that?

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Fri 12/26/08 12:46 AM

I like the generation gap!!! It separates the smart people from the stupid people!!!!


GO GAP!! GO GAP!!:banana: drinker :banana:

So you get stupid as you get older? Is that what your trying to say?

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Fri 12/26/08 12:45 AM
lol

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Fri 12/26/08 12:42 AM
Getting you ppl stirred up is kinda fun... Like watchin pirhannas eat a goldfish...

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Fri 12/26/08 12:36 AM


usually there is a real pic somewhere in the profile
sometimes there's not.

who cares?


I care, as well as a lot of other people. This is to everyone: If it's a picture of a car or some other non-offensive object, creature or famous person, that's fine. But posting a fake (human, of course) picture of yourself, trying to pass that picture off as you is completely shady and dishonest. As much as personality matters, so does physical attraction. I'm not going to fault anyone for meeting someone in person and then running the other way when it turns out that that person looks nothing like their picture.

It's not just the physical aspect of it, but the honesty aspect. Letting someone think you look one way just to get that person to date you and then say, "Hey, I guess you never really cared about me if you are going to let a little thing like what I look like break us up" when that person wants to back out is hardly any different than a woman trying to trap a man by saying she's pregnant when she's really not. If it's as simple as not caring about looks, then that person would not have presented a fake picture in the first place and would have trusted his or her personality to see them through.

Talking with someone over the Internet is not that much different than talking with someone in person. Imagine that in-person person suddenly having a different face the next day. It would be an extremely weird and difficult situation. You would feel as though you are talking with a stranger, no matter how much in common that person has with you as did "the previous person." When I think of my loved ones, the first thing I think of is their faces. I'm pretty sure all people do. We do not simply love the personality but the package the personality comes in as well -- the face.

To the poster of this thread, if you mean any of this, I completely see where you are coming from.

Damn I just fell in love, and didnt look at the picture.....

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Fri 12/26/08 12:34 AM
Wow, You guys just flipped on this one, hat cant take being called old?
And as far as the real poster, I get what you mean, it is really hard to find somebody to talk to on here that has any clue what you are talking about because there is usually a generational gap........LMFAO

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Fri 12/26/08 12:27 AM
toothbrushes?

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Fri 12/26/08 12:13 AM
lmao

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Fri 12/26/08 12:03 AM
And im not all that good looking if you ask me, thanx though.

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Fri 12/26/08 12:02 AM
I do understand that much, and that is cool, but I dont c the whole fake body thing.

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Fri 12/26/08 12:00 AM
Guess nobody sees my point that if you are not willing to present yourself accurately on a web site, how are you really going to do it in person?

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Thu 12/25/08 11:58 PM
Just the only picture that is recent that I have, I dont take pictures of myself. And going to the gun range with my friends is one of my favorite activities.