that's what keeps me safe. it's part of my stategery.


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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJlMNqKXs7Q&feature=related

the phantom of the opera - Me First and the Gimme Gimmes

i love the covers that these guys do.



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unfortunately, she's going to have to find me since i don't frequent those places.


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actually, i was being very sarcastic. i'm sure there are some out there. i haven't really been looking. i like to start slow; returning my email would be a good start. then, if i can get the woman to repeat that action a few times, i'll ask if she'd like to get something to eat some time. it's almost like getting a wild animal to trust you.

but to answer your question, as soon as i can find an attractive stripper who wants to marry me, we're off to vegas.


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he's not generalizing, it's completely true. there isn't a single woman, anywhere in the world, that values marriage and relationships any more. i've looked. i've interviewed them all and none of them are interested in either of those things. even the ones who say they are interested in those things are lying just so they can sucker the men who are looking for those things into marrying them and then giving them half of their money when they get divorced. it's a truly malevolent scheme devised to bring about the ruin of the male gender.


poor OP, so confused.


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that's just mean.

it's not like we men go and break all of the heals off of your pumps when you make us mad.


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32 years of friendship
it's obvious that you get along with each other. that's a big step right there.
but, is there attraction? does the thought of being with him in a physical sense disgust you or does it intrigue you?
clearly he has patience, but what has changed in his life to make him suddenly come forward?

i can't tell you what to do, but i think you should figure out how you feel about it. could you see yourself having a relationship with him?

it sux that you could lose out either way, but if it doesn't fail you win.
i always hear women say that they want a lover who's their best friend too.



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it's not like we all got together with the powers that be at the beginning of time and had a discussion regarding who would be the ones delivering the babies for the rest of eternity.



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no doubt, hide or delete this profiles please.



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i've seen stuff like this before and it blows my mind.


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for the guys that will **** anything that moves, i doubt there could ever be a platonic m/f relationship that they would be involved in.

for those of us who actually have some self control and standards, it's not so impossible.
i do believe that if the man has any desires toward the woman that there likely will be complications.



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i used to work with some women who welded. some were really good at it too. too bad they couldn't get any work done because all of the guys would stop and talk to them all night long. you'd think that these guys in the shop had never seen a woman before.


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i don't think it will matter, his drawer will still have the correct change in it.

it's as if you handed him the 43 and he handed you the 39. he still got the 4 dollars that was due.


now if he pocketed the money, his drawer would be 39 dollars short and that would be his fault.

since he gave you no money back, technically you have no responsibility. it's just a typing error.


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my best friend is a female and I have no desire for her at all. we're just friends. there's no attraction for either of us.
so, it is possible. I think it's rare.


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of course that's based on the idea that they're exposed. the ones that keep it concealed rarely learn from their mistakes and revel in their slyness.


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they seem to be doing just fine without me.


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not all, but the numbers are growing. and we all know that what we learn from experience teaches us more than what we learn from being told.

it's not like i'm depriving anybody by not approaching them.


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i won't stay with a cheater. cheating is a betrayal of trust and i have no capacity for forgiveness when it comes to betrayal.

they may learn from their mistake, but they won't have the opportunity to prove their loyalty to me. hopefully the next guy will benefit from their education.


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but, it's been my experience that many women don't have different preferences. on the sites that do allow you to state the body types you're looking for, more and more are stating that they're looking for someone athletic or thin.


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could be. i know what it is that i'm not attracted to, and think most would feel the same way.


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