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Sat 07/25/26 10:25 AM
Age is just a number ... of import.

Can't imagine a 30 something hottie coming at me, knowing that her 'life partner' (intended to match me) may have only a decade or less. Happens, although I don't know why.

The amount of beauty or youth, in my eyes, tells me they want something in exchange for their looks or age. Maybe, after discussion, I'll want what they offer, but keeping them in the thread means they discuss life properly. Most cannot.

Percentages of proper match when age is disparate, are very low chances, so age is quite important.

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Wed 05/06/26 11:13 PM
3 years, no meetup, foreign woman with little means. she was real,. Brooke off because administration fouled immigration.

I wasn't ok with never meeting, but it was all we had. She was 8 hours away at her work, lived 12 hours away when she returned to visit parents.

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Wed 05/06/26 11:08 PM
Off and on, 7 years, but just now posting in forum.

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Wed 05/06/26 11:07 PM
I've used many messaging apps, like telegram best so far. Signal messaging app looks the same as telegram.

I think, really, that messaging on a dating app or site is best for about a week of heavy messaging, then get a free text now burner number (can use it for messages, voice and video calls). If you can't get into heavy messaging in 2 weeks, closure is a good idea.