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Because of the situation and knowing its the best thing to do. how do you stop talking or being friends( better word distance yourself) with someone you truly love and care about.
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Because of the situation and knowing its the best thing to do. how do you stop talking or being friends( better word distance yourself) with someone you truly love and care about. I am in the same situation. Just tell the person how you feel, and you need to take your time for yourself. So far, it has been working for me. But I miss them very much. 
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Join the witness protection program!
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I find straight honesty to be the best solution since simply avoiding makes hurt feelings last longer and misunderstandings unavoidable.
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Because of the situation and knowing its the best thing to do. how do you stop talking or being friends( better word distance yourself) with someone you truly love and care about. If its the best thing to go, you have to move on, keep yourself really busy all the time. |
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Edited by
1socialbutterfly
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Thu 04/10/08 04:54 PM
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Be honest with them. If the respect you and value you as a friend they will understand. But if not you have to do what's right for you.
It's hard but you always have people you can talk to here! |
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I was in that situation... I just simply stopped talking... I ended up moving anyway (for my job) but we just had sooo many differences in things. I had told her how I felt. I told her that I will help her as long as she helped herself. She didn't and wouldn't... so for my own sanity, I ended it.
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Because of the situation and knowing its the best thing to do. how do you stop talking or being friends( better word distance yourself) with someone you truly love and care about. Please let me know when you figure it out. |
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Edited by
lalalove
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Thu 04/10/08 04:57 PM
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witness protection lol.
its nothing like that. im set in the fact i have to do this im just asking suggestions on how to do it. and also he has my cat so that would mean i cant see him either  . he would be cool with whatever i told him we have good communication and are great friends(which is the problem) i just dont know how to occupy my mind and feelings about it. whatever its all frustrating ill just eat and get fat
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Edited by
Jill298
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Thu 04/10/08 04:57 PM
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witness protection lol. its nothing like that. im set in the fact i have to do this im just asking suggestions on how to do it. and also he has my cat so that would mean i cant see him either . he would be cool with whatever i told him we have good communication and are great friends(which is the problem) i just dont know how to occupy my mind and feelings about it. whatever its all frustrating ill just eat and get fat except maybe obesity
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Because of the situation and knowing its the best thing to do. how do you stop talking or being friends( better word distance yourself) with someone you truly love and care about. Sorry can't advise you on this one. The way I see it if there was true love and caring for this other person then there would be no reason to end the friendship. Best of luck on that one!
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Edited by
lalalove
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Thu 04/10/08 04:59 PM
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witness protection lol. its nothing like that. im set in the fact i have to do this im just asking suggestions on how to do it. and also he has my cat so that would mean i cant see him either . he would be cool with whatever i told him we have good communication and are great friends(which is the problem) i just dont know how to occupy my mind and feelings about it. whatever its all frustrating ill just eat and get fat except maybe obesity true(about the chocolate) its just a tough thing i wish i didnt need to do. i just needed to vent and see what other people have done in similar situations.
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witness protection lol. its nothing like that. im set in the fact i have to do this im just asking suggestions on how to do it. and also he has my cat so that would mean i cant see him either . he would be cool with whatever i told him we have good communication and are great friends(which is the problem) i just dont know how to occupy my mind and feelings about it. whatever its all frustrating ill just eat and get fat except maybe obesity true(about the chocolate) its just a tough thing i wish i didnt need to do. i just needed to vent and see what other people have done in similar situations. |
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your makingg this too big of a deal, were born alone, we die alone, no use messing up in the middle by THINKING you have any kind of friends, its just an act anyway  
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Because of the situation and knowing its the best thing to do. how do you stop talking or being friends( better word distance yourself) with someone you truly love and care about. The best thing is to just let them know what you want to do. Nobody deserves having to hold something inside or feel helpless to any situation. |
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your makingg this too big of a deal, were born alone, we die alone, no use messing up in the middle by THINKING you have any kind of friends, its just an act anyway 
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Because of the situation and knowing its the best thing to do. how do you stop talking or being friends( better word distance yourself) with someone you truly love and care about. |
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your makingg this too big of a deal, were born alone, we die alone, no use messing up in the middle by THINKING you have any kind of friends, its just an act anyway um ok..wow now i feel like i need to kill myself (j/k) geeze that was depressing. |
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your makingg this too big of a deal, were born alone, we die alone, no use messing up in the middle by THINKING you have any kind of friends, its just an act anyway Being a friend is better than having friends. |
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your makingg this too big of a deal, were born alone, we die alone, no use messing up in the middle by THINKING you have any kind of friends, its just an act anyway Being a friend is better than having friends.
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