Its most likely the age bracket that your in! No one wants a nice girl, at that age! Wait till your older and say that!

awww..sorry you get the creeps!

seriously...not cool...i did meet someone off here that would possibly do that...i think that makes me want to close all the blinds!

thats a question i beleive you gotta figure out yourself... gl

I'm new, so forgive me if I'm missing the point of this forum. The point I've gathered is that you want to know what about your PROFILE is attracting the crazies... I sincerely doubt that it's something about YOU that is attracting the crazies -- well, with one exception. No matter the situation, there are things you can control and things completely outside your control.

First, the only thing about YOU that is attracting the crazy men is that you are a woman. It happens to us all honey. So that one is out of your control.

Your profile however -- since you asked... you do have control over and there are a couple of things that will draw crazies like flies to an open wound. You open with a statement about how sad it is that you are using this site to find a relationship. That screams "low self-esteem." This is apparently not true, so you might think about changing that.

Take a look at your blurb and find all the things that if a man said it you would react by saying "ew... no!" and use the delete button. Pretend you are your best friend and describe yourself the way he/she would do it.

Share what you bring to a relationship. For example... if you invited friends to a party, you wouldn't fill the invitation with a long list of what you DON'T want them to bring to the party... you would tell them what to bring. Right? "Wear a costume, bring a friend, bring a dish to share..." Your profile is an invitation. Share your hospitality... and since it is relatively anonymous, you can boot someone the minute they seem like they fit into your DO NOT WANT list without worrying about closing the blinds.

You are getting the crazy ones because I took down my real picture. Prior to that I was getting the crazy ones.

This is me hitting on you.

There. You now just had a normal guy hit on you.