Topic: why do i just attract the crazy ones?
tearsofblood666's photo
Fri 05/02/08 10:46 PM
umm
I dont see anything that says you a crazy magnet

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 05/02/08 11:14 PM



what about me screams 'hey crazy guys...hit on me!' ????

i am sooo about to give up on dating!

thanks!

courtney


The honest truth as I see it as a Buckeye nutjob.... Your profile says it all. There's alot of baggage in there. When I see what a person does NOT want, I also see that as baggage from past relationships, and we all play a role in them. Change is an inside job, not just the other person's fault. The good news is that as an adult you can chose not to accept the unacceptable and possibly also see your part in what attracts you to what's familiar.


i dont see my situation as baggage. i have 2 daughters that come with me...we are a package. i do NOT want to deal with idiots, immature people and drunks. doesnt really have anything to do with past relationships, i just prefer to have positive non-jacked-up people around my kids since they are with me more often than we are apart.


I wasn't referring to your children as baggage. Baggage of past relationships, friendships, et al. Children are gifts, not baggage. You, like everyone else has the luxury of dealing with whoever you want to, both here and in real life. On a positive note, it's good that you consider your children in your involvements with adults, but you probably already knew that.

Totage's photo
Fri 05/02/08 11:16 PM

what about me screams 'hey crazy guys...hit on me!' ????

i am sooo about to give up on dating!

thanks!

courtney


It's always the pretty ones... flowerforyou

ElCid's photo
Sat 05/03/08 07:03 AM
Im new here but I gotta agree, your profile screams baggage. Not referring to your children.

"NO jerks, alcoholics, hard core druggies or maniacs/psychos
NO anger issues OR baby mama drama"

" I am a real person - not some bot or 'look at my cam girl' "

Thats prime example of baggage even though I can sympathize with the last quite abit.

Focus on positives that are exclusionary to the engatives you do not want. Eg, seeking a level headed/stable man for a rock solid femme! As opposed to, "babay mama dramas" lol

You did ask for advice, you can choose to disregard it or use it however you wish.

courtney_adkins05's photo
Sun 05/04/08 06:45 AM

Im new here but I gotta agree, your profile screams baggage. Not referring to your children.

"NO jerks, alcoholics, hard core druggies or maniacs/psychos
NO anger issues OR baby mama drama"

" I am a real person - not some bot or 'look at my cam girl' "

Thats prime example of baggage even though I can sympathize with the last quite abit.

Focus on positives that are exclusionary to the engatives you do not want. Eg, seeking a level headed/stable man for a rock solid femme! As opposed to, "babay mama dramas" lol

You did ask for advice, you can choose to disregard it or use it however you wish.


how is that baggage? i simply do not want to waste my time on jerks, alcoholics, hard core druggies or maniacs/psychos - nor - deal with anger issues OR baby mama drama. theres no history of any of that - just dont want that around my girls or me..

i've been asked several time if i was a cam girl - so i added pics of me and my kids & posted - I am a real person - not some bot or look at my cam girl

oldsage's photo
Sun 05/04/08 06:49 AM
Just screen em good & go slow dear.
Only trust when the trust is EARNED.
Otherwise, guard your heart well.
flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Sun 05/04/08 07:11 AM

what about me screams 'hey crazy guys...hit on me!' ????

i am sooo about to give up on dating!

thanks!

courtney


I tend to attract the creepy guys. Not much better than crazy :wink:.

A64WOODY's photo
Sun 05/04/08 07:15 AM

what about me screams 'hey crazy guys...hit on me!' ????

i am sooo about to give up on dating!

thanks!

courtney
Never give up! Keep pushing forward! Stay positive! Keep smiling! Always be Happy! Your dream guy will show up, probably when you least expect it!

Toddo73's photo
Sun 05/04/08 07:26 AM
A bit of advice. First, you have to realize that everyone is a bit crazy in there own way. Not that you have to put up with drunks or druggies but who's to say who is crazy or not. Yes, you can read all the books you want about the subject but that is one perspective. I do wish you luck in your quest. Hopefully you'll be rewarded.flowerforyou

adj4u's photo
Sun 05/04/08 08:54 AM
is this a birds of a feather thread

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sorry my bad

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courtney_adkins05's photo
Sun 05/04/08 10:13 AM

is this a birds of a feather thread

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sorry my bad

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?? huh?


thanks everyone else!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 05/04/08 11:02 AM
:heart: :heart: We were meant to be together.:heart: :heart:

chris1979's photo
Sun 05/04/08 11:05 AM

what about me screams 'hey crazy guys...hit on me!' ????

i am sooo about to give up on dating!

thanks!

courtney
hey sexy your so hott. im standing outside your house right now-look out your windowlaugh

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 05/04/08 11:06 AM
I think it's just some men.

I was just stalked by a fireman. Totally wasn't expecting that!

Some men act like crazy chicks!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 05/04/08 11:24 AM
:heart: Ive been digging thru your garbage:heart:

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 05/04/08 11:29 AM
OMGHI2U love love love love love Wanna make babies? I am completely sane I promise muahahahahahahahahahahahaha

adj4u's photo
Sun 05/04/08 11:42 AM


is this a birds of a feather thread

laugh laugh laugh laugh

sorry my bad

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


?? huh?


thanks everyone else!



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HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 05/04/08 01:43 PM

OMGHI2U love love love love love Wanna make babies? I am completely sane I promise muahahahahahahahahahahahaha


laugh laugh There is no way Single_Rob is sane.

He takes 10 hour trips in trucks and won't sleep till he's dead.

Try Engraven_Image. He's so-so sane from what I hear!laugh laugh

no photo
Sun 05/04/08 02:02 PM

what about me screams 'hey crazy guys...hit on me!' ????

i am sooo about to give up on dating!

thanks!

courtney

You are not the only one...I am beginning to think several are looney tunes

CBBRYANT's photo
Sun 05/04/08 03:36 PM

what about me screams 'hey crazy guys...hit on me!' ????

i am sooo about to give up on dating!

thanks!

courtney


You're probably a very nice honest person...which the bums in life unfortunately tend to gravitate towards.