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Topic: Do you find it hard to...
No1sLove's photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:18 PM
I can't remember ever having to...but I've never dated that much.

lilangel2's photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:26 PM
Yes, I do...I have a rich man in another town that is very interested in me...I am not in him that way...he's just a nice person...not dating material...anyways..once I mentioned I am bad at directions, he said, "Let me buy you a garmin"...All I could think of to say was, "Then , I would never learn how to recognize landmarks" LOL I was at a loss what to say...another time I said I had to go out in garage and see about my riding mower because it wouldn't crank. He said, "let me add you to our lawn care account" noway noway noway

Jim519's photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:30 PM
Edited by Jim519 on Sun 05/04/08 12:30 PM

Yes, I do...I have a rich man in another town that is very interested in me...I am not in him that way...he's just a nice person...not dating material...anyways..once I mentioned I am bad at directions, he said, "Let me buy you a garmin"...All I could think of to say was, "Then , I would never learn how to recognize landmarks" LOL I was at a loss what to say...another time I said I had to go out in garage and see about my riding mower because it wouldn't crank. He said, "let me add you to our lawn care account" noway noway noway



What a nice guy to wanting to help out in trimming bushes drinker laugh

unsure's photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:33 PM
Nope, I think honesty is always best!! :wink:

SometingDifrent's photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:34 PM
I don't find it hard to do, I would much rather get a note to that effect than have no reply at all. Silence is just rude IMO


James

no photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:36 PM
No if you just met the person it should be easy to say yes or no be honest,

lilangel2's photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:39 PM


Yes, I do...I have a rich man in another town that is very interested in me...I am not in him that way...he's just a nice person...not dating material...anyways..once I mentioned I am bad at directions, he said, "Let me buy you a garmin"...All I could think of to say was, "Then , I would never learn how to recognize landmarks" LOL I was at a loss what to say...another time I said I had to go out in garage and see about my riding mower because it wouldn't crank. He said, "let me add you to our lawn care account" noway noway noway



What a nice guy to wanting to help out in trimming bushes drinker laugh


Yeah, I just don't want that kind of trimmin'...well, not from him bigsmile

no photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:45 PM

just say "sorry - not interested?"




Not really. However, I find things get a little more difficult when the offending party just won't get the hint.

This actually happened to me one time- I told this one lady that I wasn't interested (I just got some weird vibe from her for some reason), and she just wouldn't stop following me.

She seemed like a nice person, so I didn't want to start being curt with her. And I didn't want to hurt her feelings, as I sorta gathered she was one of those "fragile ego" types.

But I had to put my foot down at one point and tell her to get lost (not literally) at one point.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 05/04/08 12:49 PM
No, you'll know if I'm not interested.smokin

I own an island, I mean come on!

grizz11952001's photo
Sun 05/04/08 03:09 PM
nope

WhoIAm's photo
Sun 05/04/08 03:22 PM

just say "sorry - not interested?"




I don't usually use those words, but I'll put it out there in a nice way.

TheShadow's photo
Sun 05/04/08 03:24 PM

just say "sorry - not interested?"




NOPE, because i'm so used to it laugh




























































JKdrinker But it's not that hard for me, but i do it with respect.

CBBRYANT's photo
Sun 05/04/08 03:30 PM
Never have to say it

hikerchick's photo
Sun 05/04/08 03:52 PM
I will let you know if anyone is ever interested in me.

wickedlluccy's photo
Sun 05/04/08 04:17 PM


....nope...I'm kindly diplomatic , informative and frank...no shame sayin no here, would rather hear it straight myself too !!!

:heart:~wicked~:heart:

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