Since mostly everyone out there has been at this much longer than I, let me know if the changes I made to my profile are a step in the right direction. I can only describe me.

Thanks everyone.

Sounds good to me!

I fell in love with you after reading that excellent profile

Honestly? It seemed a bit on the fence to me. In that I can't decide if it was overly negative. It seemed more negative than positive though. Lots of judgments and what you don't want.

Hi GreatGuy, new to the site, so take my opinions with a grain of salt, okay? I'll just give you what were my honest, first impressions as I was reading your profile:

Leave out the stuff you're NOT looking for - just focus on really key POSITIVE things that you'd like to find and show us the best things you've got to offer in return. I don't think anyone is LOOKING for someone who is addicted, unstable, etc., so we can all leave that part out. Keep it light, keep it simple, show us what sets you apart in this world - what makes you a 'great guy'.

In my opinion, sincerity, warmth and the ability to laugh at yourself go a long way ... we draw to us what we put out there. That's the theory I'm banking on, anyway!

Best of luck with your search!

<----lighting a smoke

me too, then i saw about the cats and dogs...and wouldn't ya know it...I have 51 cats and 22 and a half dogs...dammitttitalllll...


p.s....why don't you dress up on Halloween??

I dressed up on Halloween. My son was Batman Forever and I wore pink bat wings and a bat witch hat. I got to eat some candy too!

So there.... OP. You should dress up. It's fun.