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Topic: Where do I stand? What do i do? lol
Tuck4x4 Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 1077	Wed 05/07/08 07:50 PM
Ok, Ive changed cities after a very tumultuous relationship and after a month and a half away Ive met someone I like very much. Our first date we sat and talked, then went to a movie, then talked on the way to take her home. As soon as we pulled up, she told me good night, said to call her, and ran upstairs. Yesterday we met again and she showed me around Austin. We hiked and climbed for a few hours, then went to Whole Foods, bought some wine and cheese, and sat on the patio talking. I dropped her off, and she gave me a quick peck on the cheek and went in. We are going Kayaking tomorrow. Now heres the deal. Im a bit confused. Every woman ive seen since my break up has moved very quickly. This lady isnt. Does she like me?

justmenoel Joined Thu 08/02/07 Posts: 3137	Wed 05/07/08 07:50 PM
Ok, Ive changed cities after a very tumultuous relationship and after a month and a half away Ive met someone I like very much. Our first date we sat and talked, then went to a movie, then talked on the way to take her home. As soon as we pulled up, she told me good night, said to call her, and ran upstairs. Yesterday we met again and she showed me around Austin. We hiked and climbed for a few hours, then went to Whole Foods, bought some wine and cheese, and sat on the patio talking. I dropped her off, and she gave me a quick peck on the cheek and went in. We are going Kayaking tomorrow. Now heres the deal. Im a bit confused. Every woman ive seen since my break up has moved very quickly. This lady isnt. Does she like me? yup

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 05/07/08 07:51 PM
she likes you a lot...thats why she's goin slow. She wants it to count

barefootbaby78 Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 2693	Wed 05/07/08 07:51 PM
count yourself lucky...aint all gurls hos or wanting to move quickly cause they want the real deal...she sounds like a keeper...dont scare her off

msdestinbooty Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 1915	Wed 05/07/08 07:51 PM
If she didnt she wouldnt be going too all those places with you. She seems like a nice person just by what you said about her not going to fast. So I say yes she likes you

kecromer Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13	Wed 05/07/08 07:53 PM
This is a good thing...trust me! No need to rush!

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Wed 05/07/08 07:53 PM
if it doesn't...do you have to change cities again?

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 05/07/08 07:55 PM
things that comes easily are seldom worth the effort

Tuck4x4 Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 1077	Wed 05/07/08 07:56 PM
if it doesn't...do you have to change cities again? Ahhh, well the lady i moved away from was diagnosed as having Narcissistic Personality Disorder and possibly Borderline. I had ample reason.

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Wed 05/07/08 07:56 PM
The more I like someone and the more I'm attracted to them, the more reserved I tend to be -- like a nervous school girl ... so my guess would be that she likes you very, very much and after she runs into her apt. she gushes like a teenager about how ga-ga she is over you! Lucky boy ... hope it works out for both of you!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/07/08 07:57 PM
Tuck, are you trying to break my heart here? Kidding doll, yes, she likes you ALOT.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Wed 05/07/08 07:57 PM
if it doesn't...do you have to change cities again? Ahhh, well the lady i moved away from was diagnosed as having Narcissistic Personality Disorder and possibly Borderline. I had ample reason. good luck this time around!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/07/08 07:58 PM
if it doesn't...do you have to change cities again? Ahhh, well the lady i moved away from was diagnosed as having Narcissistic Personality Disorder and possibly Borderline. I had ample reason. I told you about her didn't I???

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Wed 05/07/08 07:59 PM
i'd say yes it is a good thing good luck

NYC4you Joined Tue 05/06/08 Posts: 27	Wed 05/07/08 08:04 PM
Take it slow, try not to rush anything.

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Wed 05/07/08 08:11 PM
sounds like shes worth the effort..

Christinacospgs Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 6376	Wed 05/07/08 09:21 PM
Awww.. that's so sweet!

Drivinmenutz Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 4290	Wed 05/07/08 10:05 PM
yeah dude, it's still on. She is enjoying spending time with you, and although it is slow, she is still making progressive physical contact with you. Just keep doing what you are doing cuz it appears to be working.

rtaylor74 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 1188	Wed 05/07/08 10:47 PM
Beware... The Friend Zone approacheth... I kid I kid... You never know bout women. Honestly, why worry? Enjoy your time with her, if it works, great. If not, then there are 6 billion people on Earth. You're odds are pretty good.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Thu 05/08/08 03:40 AM
I'd say she likes you very much.