Topic: Big G.'s Advice thread (part two)
BigGlenn's photo
Wed 05/14/08 08:55 AM
Couldn't find the last one so we'll start from scratch.
Big G.'s advice thread is back. Just ask Dr. G. anything about everything and he'll try to guide you in the right direction.

DISCLAIMER:
Big G. is NOT a certified counselor, psychiatrist or psychologist. Any adfvise will be given from his perspective on his own experiences.

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:00 AM
Lol cool so I have this woman - my ex boyfriends ex wife that will not stop harrassing me , He does not want to be involved since they have children together he does not want me to file a restraining order but I am sick of her and sick of him not sticking up for what is right .. It seems like a lot of passive agressive bully type behavior what do you think ?

BigGlenn's photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:08 AM

Lol cool so I have this woman - my ex boyfriends ex wife that will not stop harrassing me , He does not want to be involved since they have children together he does not want me to file a restraining order but I am sick of her and sick of him not sticking up for what is right .. It seems like a lot of passive agressive bully type behavior what do you think ?


Ex-husband right? If he won't respect your right to peace of mind, What allegience do you have to him? Tell this bimbo that you'll be contacting the State Police the next time she harrasses you. Tell your ex that if he won't cowboy-up, You will.
When the order of protection is served, You can say,"I told ya so."

BigGlenn's photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:09 AM
Sorry, ex-boyfriend.
Doesn't matter, You have rights, Excorsise them.

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:18 AM
thank you I feel like he should have done something prior to it gettting this out of hand .. He likes to guilt people into making him seem like a victim that is why he is an ex and she should be a bad memory .. Sometimes when you are in the middle of crazy it seems like your own logic gets muddled appreciate your support

BigGlenn's photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:43 AM

thank you I feel like he should have done something prior to it gettting this out of hand .. He likes to guilt people into making him seem like a victim that is why he is an ex and she should be a bad memory .. Sometimes when you are in the middle of crazy it seems like your own logic gets muddled appreciate your support


You made the point perfectly.
He didn't do anything and let it get out of hand. You owe him nothing.
People who manipulate others feelings (guilting people into making him seem like a victim) have to be called on their actions.
Your concern is for yourself.
Good luck.

mzrightkris's photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:46 AM
I could use some advise....
I have been single for two years now. I go on dates all the time. It seems that after two or three dates I never hear from the guy again. What am I doing wrong?????

BigGlenn's photo
Wed 05/14/08 09:53 AM

I could use some advise....
I have been single for two years now. I go on dates all the time. It seems that after two or three dates I never hear from the guy again. What am I doing wrong?????


That's a tough one.
The fact that you make it past the first date is always a positive thing.
Does a certain subject come up that might scare them away?
I'll need some more info. to try to help. You look like a happy, pretty girl so I'll need more to go on.
If it's too personal, You can mail me.