Topic: if..........
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Wed 05/14/08 11:21 AM




No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money


I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you?

If they were not working, then who is supporting them?



another disabled people are worthless thought




can you explain that again please, and are you talking to me?? thanks flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 05/14/08 11:21 AM



you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


as long as they didnt have a false body part...false body parts freak me out...bigsmile


i think they are cool.....i want to start collecting them


whatever ..weirdo..huh bigsmile

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Wed 05/14/08 11:21 AM


been there done that,and as long as they didn't sit around on the couch all day everyday and actually went out and did something then sure.flowerforyou


what if with his medical condition, he had to lie down a lot??


Thats where the problem is..i'm an active,go out and do things type person..so I have to have someone who is the same and if they can't do alot of the things I can,then i'd be evaluating why i was with that person..Yes I can love someone and be with them with that condition for a while..but eventually..it wouldn't last...Im an up and go type..and can't settle for a lay down and watch t.v. all the time type!

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Wed 05/14/08 11:21 AM

Well, if they had an income and did not work, then I'd say yes. It would depend on the disability, though, as I would not want to walk into a terminal situation.


i understand. flowerforyou

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Wed 05/14/08 11:22 AM

you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


Do they have a trust fund?

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Wed 05/14/08 11:22 AM




No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money


I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you?

If they were not working, then who is supporting them?
in this country you get finacial help from government for disability or prolonged illness



social security disability is not help from the govt

social security disability is insurance that you have paid for

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Wed 05/14/08 11:22 AM




you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


as long as they didnt have a false body part...false body parts freak me out...bigsmile


i think they are cool.....i want to start collecting them
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

whatever ..weirdo..huh bigsmile

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Wed 05/14/08 11:23 AM
yes, have done that :smile:

adj4u's photo
Wed 05/14/08 11:23 AM





No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money


I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you?

If they were not working, then who is supporting them?



another disabled people are worthless thought




can you explain that again please, and are you talking to me?? thanks flowerforyou flowerforyou


no deb i was not reffering to you

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Wed 05/14/08 11:24 AM


you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


Do they have a trust fund?


here, the goverment gives us benefits

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Wed 05/14/08 11:24 AM
sure

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Wed 05/14/08 11:24 AM
you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question

why do you feel you would have to support them



very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page grumble

I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise)

We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that.



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Wed 05/14/08 11:25 AM






No.

I am not in a position to support anyone else financially.

Period.


i dont need anyone to support me financially, i get plenty money


I thought this was just a general question? Who is talking about you?

If they were not working, then who is supporting them?



another disabled people are worthless thought




can you explain that again please, and are you talking to me?? thanks flowerforyou flowerforyou


no deb i was not reffering to you


thanks for clarifying, who did you say thought disabled people are worthless??:cry: :cry:

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Wed 05/14/08 11:26 AM

you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question

why do you feel you would have to support them



very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page grumble

I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise)

We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that.





i didnt put support, because i dont need finacial help, all i want is love, NOT moneyflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 05/14/08 11:28 AM

you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question

why do you feel you would have to support them



very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page grumble

I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise)

We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that.





We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that.




what do you mean by this???

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Wed 05/14/08 11:28 AM
above is to franshade

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Wed 05/14/08 11:29 AM


you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question

why do you feel you would have to support them




very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page grumble

I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise)

We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that.





i didnt put support, because i dont need finacial help, all i want is love, NOT moneyflowerforyou flowerforyou


flowerforyou wish you all the love you can get flowerforyou

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Wed 05/14/08 11:29 AM
i am not reffering to anyone by name

just the way some of the post seem to come across

am not going to personally attack anyone

but to assume because they are unable to provide for themselves
because they are disabled is like saying they are worthless

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Wed 05/14/08 11:31 AM



you met someone, and they couldnt work due to medical reasons, would you still date him/her?? :smile:


i did not see the would support in the opening post asking the question

why do you feel you would have to support them




very true, I retract my last statement, re support. Thats what happens when you only read from last page grumble

I truly doubt I could date someone who was unable to work regardless of the reasons why (medical/otherwise)

We all have something to give (time/attention/etc) so I dont see how I would date someone that didnt see that.





i didnt put support, because i dont need finacial help, all i want is love, NOT moneyflowerforyou flowerforyou


flowerforyou wish you all the love you can get flowerforyou


thanks sweety flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 05/14/08 11:31 AM

i am not reffering to anyone by name

just the way some of the post seem to come across

am not going to personally attack anyone

but to assume because they are unable to provide for themselves
because they are disabled is like saying they are worthless


i asked because i didnt understand your post, so basically i was just asking you to clarify it, so i could understand.