when i read womens profiles, a lot of women put down that they want someone who dosnt play games or cheat , but then they go out and seek out people who play games and cheat over people who dont play games and cheat,it seems like they say one thing and do another , is it just me imagining this??.how do yall all think about this

great 1st post

No....unfortunately there is this little thing that DOES exist homie called the "Twighlight Zone".......just let me know if you meet Rod Serling....I'll be there in a hert beat.

no....seriously though....you are right though.They do and I don't know why but we....the one's they supposedly ask for.....are STILL no matter what going to be the ones to get hurt bro.I think god punished us good men that way. We're cursed and doomed.....but I feel one day....he will give us our reward for being so strong and just .......so just keep your chin up.

Thats the duplicity of women. Learn to deal with it

Hmmmm good man alert

Nice. You got our # dude

the answer is simple. the guys who they say that they don't want turn out to me the most attractive, and i'm talking about personality. they know how to have fun, they bring the energy level up, and people just want to be around them. unfortunately, some of them do have a dark side, and people get burned because of it.

LOL Fade.....such a smart ass but so beautiful while you're at it!

What women say and what they actually respond to can be very different things. This is because most people aren't fully self-aware.

We men are the same way in many regards. Think about it, would you like to have a million dollars just handed to you every day?

OF COURSE!!!

Think again. If you were to have a million dollars handed to you every day, it would turn you into an ungrateful, scornful, miserable, bratty old man in no time. It would become a lot harder for you to see the true value of things. It would be harder for you to have a deeper appreciation for anything. You'd be unhappy.

However, if you rightfully EARNED a million dollars a day with genuine hard work, I guarantee you you'd be one of the happiest men alive. In that same sense, a woman has to feel like she's earned affection and attention from a man to really appreciate it. That's why they are drawn to men who play "games."

As for cheating, fvck that sh!t.

I think it is because, in the end, the game players know how to come across as charming and sincere and seemingly honest. Otherwise, they wouldn't be so successful at getting girl after girl after girl. OR guy after guy, since it goes both ways. And sometimes, the game player honestly doesn't have any idea he or she is one. The person totally believes he or she is up front. And that usually comes across and it takes a while to find the game player hidden underneath.

They may be looking for a challenge; to overcome it; to change some one. Pity they do not realize the only one that they can change is themselves. Also, people are often drawn to what they know, what they are familiar with, whether that is in their family of origin, past relationships, or even what they recognize in themselves. Like often attracts like.

So play games with them and cheat, whats the problem

We like bad boys. Maybe the challenge, the chase. Heck I don't know....
(spoken like a true woman )

They say that men want to go to bed with a whore and wake up with a virgin.

Women want to go to bed with a badass and wake up with a gentleman?

I think guys and gals are both guilty on this front. I find it funny when people put down the "normal" stuff as to what type of person they are looking for. You always see the following....

"Someone who is funny."
"Someone who is not a jealous person."
"Someone who will treat me right."
"Someone who is nice"

These are just a few examples, but my point here is that people say these things and then, more often than people admit, they go for the complete opposite. My theory is that this is something that has so many possible answers, but one common answer you always hear is, "Well, he/she seemed liked a nice person...at first.".

Now. Why do women do this? Lord if you can find the one true aswer on this then please let me know.

Yep, you got it

why read profiles??????????

the pic's are much more entertaining!!!!!!!!!

woman want a guy who will stick by them but also are the bad boy type

In general both men and women list all of these personality characteristics that they supposedly value in the opposite sex and then pick their partners based solely on looks.

That's why.


I don't mean all men or women..just many.

I will not stay in this part of the "we" because for me, if a realtionship does not form as naturally and uncomplicated as a good friendship then the realtionship will not last. Why bother playing games when you should be getting to know one another?