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I told a "friend" last night about my cat who was just diagnosed with cancer and he was really sweet about it. Just now, however, he felt it necessary to email me a link relating pet cancer to second hand smoke, like I was somehow to blame for my cat's condition.
I think that was a very mean and unnecessary thing for him to do. 
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I told a "friend" last night about my cat who was just diagnosed with cancer and he was really sweet about it. Just now, however, he felt it necessary to email me a link relating pet cancer to second hand smoke, like I was somehow to blame for my cat's condition. I think that was a very mean and unnecessary thing for him to do.  DANG
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I agree. But...he probably had no clue he was being a jerk.
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that's a little harsh. maybe he's trying to get you to quit for your benefit though
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Doesn't sound like a supportive friend. So sorry about your cat. When the vet told me our dog had cancer, I burst into tears.
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Awwwwwww dae
 it's not your fault....just ignore the rude comment..he is prolly clueless about how thoughtless that was of him to do!
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Maybe he just wanted you to be informed.
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tell him how you feel!
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I agree. But...he probably had no clue he was being a jerk. yea, seems about right. sometimes us guys do **** without thinking. |
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no two people ever see one thing the same way. I doubt he was trying to be cruel, he was probably just trying to show you the risk in case you decided to get another kitty. Sorry for your bad news
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tell him how you feel! |
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all he did is inform you,
Problem is guys and girls want support in different ways Girls want emotional: "aww i'm sorry sweety" Guys want ways to fix things or answer to why "i.e second hand smoke" He was just being a guy |
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I told a "friend" last night about my cat who was just diagnosed with cancer and he was really sweet about it. Just now, however, he felt it necessary to email me a link relating pet cancer to second hand smoke, like I was somehow to blame for my cat's condition. I think that was a very mean and unnecessary thing for him to do.
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My cat died of a large tumor in his abdomen. I didn't notice it until it was far too advanced. I think that it was my smoking that did it to him. It was one of things that made me quit. I still don't really forgive myself. My eyes are now tearing thing about him. We were together for so much of my life.
I found out about second hand smoke and pets on my own. It didn't help me feel any better when I found it. He sent it to you to help you quit, not to be malicious. |
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i don't think you can blame rudeness on the sex of a person....rudeness is just rudeness
Sorry for your loss!
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My cat died of a large tumor in his abdomen. I didn't notice it until it was far too advanced. I think that it was my smoking that did it to him. It was one of things that made me quit. I still don't really forgive myself. My eyes are now tearing thing about him. We were together for so much of my life. I found out about second hand smoke and pets on my own. It didn't help me feel any better when I found it. He sent it to you to help you quit, not to be malicious.
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i don't think you can blame rudeness on the sex of a person....rudeness is just rudeness Sorry for your loss! |
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if she thought it was rude..than that's what matters since she was on the other side of it
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all he did is inform you, Problem is guys and girls want support in different ways Girls want emotional: "aww i'm sorry sweety" Guys want ways to fix things or answer to why "i.e second hand smoke" He was just being a guy |
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