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| Topic: Why are some JSH people so cruel? | |
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They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions. See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me. This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever. At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here? I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly. In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am. Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family. I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing. So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me. The world of cyber is a mask of many faces. Kat I see you how you describe yourself on here. I think you would be great fun. 
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They know they can get away with it because they are sitting behind a computer and in privacy where no one can hold them liable for their actions. See, that's what I am saying. It is too easy to be someone else behind this screen. I myself was tempted to be one way all the time. I just couldn't though. It wouldn't be me. This thing we sit behind is a cover up of sorts. We can be whatever we want to be...no accountance. No face to look at. No eyes to know how the words we say affect the reciever. At one time; I thought I could be completely nice or could say whatever bad thing or attack with no conscience. Well, that didn't work for me. I found I was'nt like that in real life, why would I want to be that way here? I feel the consequences on this side; same as I would in person. I want people to know me. The good, the bad, the ugly. In this way.....the only surprises in person would most likely be...how fun I actually am. Example; some here may think I would be a boring God talker. That would not be true. I am a fun loving, loud, out there kinda gal. Rough and ready, playful, kind, and a fierce protector of my friends and family. I think most of that I portray here. But, some only see one thing. So....I am accountable to myself. That matters to me. The world of cyber is a mask of many faces. Kat I see you how you describe yourself on here. I think you would be great fun. Awwww. Actually..that description is what people tell me in real life. Some call me a zaney wacko. They say not to ask me anything you don't really want me to answer. And that if one can't handle someone that words just fall off their tongue, then I am not for them. That is a bad thing about me I think. Because sometimes I wish my mouth wasn't faster than my brain. My foot does fit in my mouth. It's easy. Kat |
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Some people are just A*** thats all.
 
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Some are down right ignorant and others are so sweet.... It is because in any large group of people you are going to find all types, the rude/ignorant and the sweet/considerate. |
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Some people are just A*** thats all.
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Some people are just mean, and it makes them happy to make others feel rotten. Dont let it get ya down.
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I still wanna know why the supposed nice people keep bullying the supposed mean people on JSH... Who are the supposed nice people and who are they bullying? I don't think being nice means you have to let rude people say whatever they want to you. If standing up for oneself is bullying, then I guess I am guilty of it. |
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we are not rude, we are socially challenged  I thought THAT was called Asperger's Syndrome? Mornin' Rob! There was a girl with Asperger's on America's Next Top Model..she went pretty far ...top 4 or 5, I think..but public speaking was her downfall. |
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I still wanna know why the supposed nice people keep bullying the supposed mean people on JSH... Who are the supposed nice people and who are they bullying? I don't think being nice means you have to let rude people say whatever they want to you. If standing up for oneself is bullying, then I guess I am guilty of it. Me too. Oh, and don't forget having a sense of humor can make you mean as well, Hiker. |
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I still wanna know why the supposed nice people keep bullying the supposed mean people on JSH... Who are the supposed nice people and who are they bullying? I don't think being nice means you have to let rude people say whatever they want to you. If standing up for oneself is bullying, then I guess I am guilty of it. Guess that means I am too. Whoo Hoo, I'm in good company at least....
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On all of these dating sites you'll find rude inconsiderate, "cliquey" people. Just ignore them life's to short to play into their drama and additudes.
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Some people are just A*** thats all. True |
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Edited by
Winx
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Tue 06/17/08 12:28 PM
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Some people are just A*** thats all. Yeah, it's amazing how some people have never grown up and they are in adult bodies. |
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Some are down right ignorant and others are so sweet.... like in life there are a variety of personalities... take the good with the bad, take the good ignore the bad, take the bad ignore the good... like life, full of choices. hello, welcome and enjoy
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It is just like any other aspect of life. You'll meet all kinds out here...
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hiya water, see how ez that was
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its just like the real world you get the mix of both... hope nobody is being to mean though
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think it's pretty much even
cruel vs hypersensitive people
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Im with the cruel, right?
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was this made about me? I am mad now
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