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Topic: Long Distance Romance
enderra Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1719	Thu 05/29/08 06:53 PM
How do you cope?

marky84 Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 1057	Thu 05/29/08 06:54 PM
my advice is not to, its helll

marky84 Joined Mon 07/23/07 Posts: 1057	Thu 05/29/08 06:54 PM
but u could focus on the day wen its not LDR

pili Joined Mon 02/18/08 Posts: 408	Thu 05/29/08 06:54 PM
How do you cope? Hard

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Thu 05/29/08 06:55 PM
I've asked this very question. Most ppl say...it just wont work. Im always willing to try tho. Dont give up.

enderra Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1719	Thu 05/29/08 06:56 PM
do you commit or hang loose until you can truly be together?

StellaBellaLuna Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 61	Thu 05/29/08 06:56 PM
I've been in one for like 5 days. It's been the worst and best of my life. But, I'm at my breaking point. He'll not call for days and I want to kill him, and I get depressed and then out of the blue he'll finally answer his phone or call and it's like I'm a schoolgirl again. I feel stupid. My advice- don't do it.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Thu 05/29/08 06:57 PM
Its very hard on both parties and you have to have alot of trust.

harleyfan15 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 682	Thu 05/29/08 06:57 PM
How do you cope? lots of phone calls. just try to get through the week till the weekend. waiting for the day it won't be long distance.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Thu 05/29/08 06:57 PM
You just do.

harleyfan15 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 682	Thu 05/29/08 06:57 PM
do you commit or hang loose until you can truly be together? commit

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 05/29/08 06:59 PM
I don't... my baby lives an hour away, thats far enough

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Thu 05/29/08 07:00 PM
no such thing or try masturbation

polypeasant Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 1319	Thu 05/29/08 07:00 PM
Sounds difficult....but what about eileena9 and the captain....Idaho and East Coast meet, and now are engaged!!!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 05/29/08 07:03 PM
I'm a very physcial person... I need to touch, feel, have the real life person around me

enderra Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1719	Thu 05/29/08 07:03 PM
Sounds difficult....but what about eileena9 and the captain....Idaho and East Coast meet, and now are engaged!!! How long did you correspond before meeting in person?

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Thu 05/29/08 07:06 PM
its hard but not impossible at all I had a couple and they have worked out.......heck in one of them i was even engaged.once.......its all a matter of trying the guy that really i ahd the best relationship with tha t realy made it work well he used too write me letters every single week......... sometimes i would get... like three letters on one day.. he would mail me burned cds and teddy bears roses.so worth we would only........... talk on phone on weekends it was hard.....but so worth it whenever we did hang out.it was totaly worth it..... we missed each other even more...... oh well sight he was a control freak........after too much.......but other then that perfect........

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Thu 05/29/08 07:06 PM
right on.... have to see their aura..... I'm a very physcial person... I need to touch, feel, have the real life person around me

Max_Darkling Joined Sat 03/29/08 Posts: 1166	Thu 05/29/08 07:07 PM
I've been in one for like 5 days. It's been the worst and best of my life. But, I'm at my breaking point. He'll not call for days and I want to kill him, and I get depressed and then out of the blue he'll finally answer his phone or call and it's like I'm a schoolgirl again. I feel stupid. My advice- don't do it. what you are so cute he is a fool not to call you every day

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Thu 05/29/08 07:08 PM
Honestly sweetheart,I have about as much faith in a LDR as I do in Mutual Match.Nope!not a pessimist,just a realist.