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Topic: I need help!!!
jbrian323 Joined Fri 01/05/07 Posts: 5	Sat 02/24/07 07:43 PM
So I got drunk one night, made out with my best friend, now its totally akward between us. And if that wasnt enough, I think im starting to have feelings for that person. But by the kiss, it felt like they had feelings too, but when I asked, they said it was just a drunken kiss. What do I do?!?!? Can anyone help? I need feedback. Thanx ^_^

MoreBass Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 292	Sat 02/24/07 08:02 PM
every problem in the world can be traced back to the uneven distribution of wealth and/or a failure in communication. sit down with your best friend when you're both feeling fairly neutral, and have a calm discussion about it.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Sat 02/24/07 08:16 PM
wow bass mature for 21! u will do good in your life

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 02/24/07 08:18 PM
JB, Like More said here already, ya just need to ask them how do they feel about THAT kiss, REALLY? and if it wasn't wanted then WHY did you kiss me BACK?? Then you will know to try or to leave it at it was a DRUNKEN KISS! And THEY do HAPPEN,, and MOST don't like to talk about it , they would just like to forget it completely!

MoreBass Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 292	Sat 02/24/07 08:46 PM
believe me, i know from experience how delicate a situation this is. nobody can stress enough how important it is to be open with your friend. if i had been more open with my (ex)best friend, i might not have needed that semester of counseling...

jbrian323 Joined Fri 01/05/07 Posts: 5	Sat 02/24/07 09:33 PM
THANK YOU GUYZ!!!! Your advice really does help.

shadowdog Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 12773	Sat 02/24/07 09:36 PM
hey bra---welcome to jsh---

jbrian323 Joined Fri 01/05/07 Posts: 5	Sat 02/24/07 10:19 PM
Thanks!

jbrian323 Joined Fri 01/05/07 Posts: 5	Sun 02/25/07 02:06 AM
Does anyone else have advice for me?

dontbeajo Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 102	Sun 02/25/07 02:36 AM
I never met a bottle that had feelings I'm sorry.

fineporcelain Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 5745	Sun 02/25/07 01:54 PM
Don't be drinking so much that you "don't" know what your doing. Then you will not feel like this or you will not ruin a friendship

Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Sun 02/25/07 02:05 PM
JUST LET THINGS GO, IS THE PERSON DOES NOT FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO, THEN IS NO USE FOR YOU TO DUEL ON THIS ISSUE JUST REMEMBER IT WAS A DRUNKEN KISS, AND NOTHING MORE YOU CAN NOT EXPECT SOME ONE TO FEEL THE SAME YOU DO ALL THE TIME IF THE PERSON DON'T SO BE IT MAN,, MOVE ON TO THE NEXT DRUNKEN NIGHT, MAYBE THAT PERSON WILL SEE THE GOOD IN YOU

BigGlenn Joined Thu 11/30/06 Posts: 4877	Sun 02/25/07 02:09 PM
Morena's right. Don't freak about it. If time goes on those feelings either will or will not surface again.

Queenbee Joined Sat 01/13/07 Posts: 1746	Sun 02/25/07 02:10 PM
I'd say kiss your friend again....this time when you both are sober. Then talk about it and how it felt.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76391	Sun 02/25/07 02:14 PM
Hummm just make sure if it ever happens again that your not drunk then you will not have to ask if the kiss was for real or induced by liquor. A drunken stupor is not the way to be for that first kiss or in order to make love with someone the best kiss or making love is when you have a clear head and the only thing clounding it is the emontions you feel at the moment why ruin it with being drunk where you must ask why or was it real the next day?

MikeMontana Joined Wed 01/10/07 Posts: 623	Sun 02/25/07 08:30 PM
Hmmmmm..... Was your best friend attached to someone else? Is your best friend also a guy?

jbrian323 Joined Fri 01/05/07 Posts: 5	Wed 02/28/07 05:12 PM
Thanks to everyone. It helped me alot. and to mike, yeah it was a guy and no he wasnt attached. and i dropped it and moved on. he hasnt talked to me since. i kinda feel bad but better at the same time. idk.