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Topic: a good fight
Jill298's photo
Sun 06/22/08 09:58 AM
a friend of mine the other day mentioned that her and her husband had not had a "good fight" in a long time, so it's due. She says she thinks fights are healthy for a marriage. Do you agree?

ljcc1964's photo
Sun 06/22/08 09:59 AM
Well I suppose it would make for some good make-up sex.

Brandon24721's photo
Sun 06/22/08 09:59 AM
i agree i like being mad sometimes! lol

bigsullivan54's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:00 AM

a friend of mine the other day mentioned that her and her husband had not had a "good fight" in a long time, so it's due. She says she thinks fights are healthy for a marriage. Do you agree?

uh...NO

jonny63's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:01 AM
Angy sex is awesome!!!flowerforyou devil flowerforyou

Grizzly52's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:01 AM

Well I suppose it would make for some good make-up sex.


makeup sex is great

kkKen's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:01 AM
Hell yeah,as long as they don't go overboard.You've gotta clear the air every now and again.I knew a couple and for 5 years they never fought once.But things got so built up between them,that one night after his birthday she ran off with one of his friends.we all lived in the same building so i saw it first hand

Queene123's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:03 AM
im not sure if i agree
my nephew has been with his fiance for almost 3yrs and they have never had a argument... shocking huh

Jill298's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:03 AM
I personally don't like to fight, I've done my share of it in the past. If something is bothering me or pissing me off, I will usually just bring it up right then and there and get it out.

rainysky39's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:05 AM
I hate arguing. My experience, it has led to me getting abused so yeah it has went overboard. I mostly keep things bottled up and stay to myself.

Peccy's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:06 AM
Depends on her definition of "good fight"

kkKen's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:07 AM
Stick em both in an octagon and ring the belllaugh laugh laugh

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Sun 06/22/08 10:08 AM
If there is good communication there shouldnt be a need to have a big fight!!!noway

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Sun 06/22/08 10:08 AM
make-up sex is greatdevil

bigsullivan54's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:08 AM
arguing is lame and over-rated
disagreeing is ok but yelling and **** is for the birds
i dont yell, i just say... ur right im sorryflowerforyou

robert1652's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:08 AM
Many of my relationships have gone because of no fight despite that I don't like fighting; it eats at me, and if a relationship has to go well then C'est la Vie

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Sun 06/22/08 10:09 AM
Edited by SKPCG on Sun 06/22/08 10:12 AM

Angy sex is awesome!!!flowerforyou devil flowerforyou


Soooooooooooo, John, will you let me piss you off sometime???? LMAO!!! laugh :wink: laugh :wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Seriously, I don't like fights. I am non-confrontational. I don't mind banter and arguing, but I've also been on the bad end of the stick with verbal and physical abuse. I like to discuss, hear and be heard. I admit sometimes I bottle up stuff for too long and then spew like Mount Etna once in a blue moon, but it's nothing lethal. Just steam.

Totage's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:10 AM

a friend of mine the other day mentioned that her and her husband had not had a "good fight" in a long time, so it's due. She says she thinks fights are healthy for a marriage. Do you agree?


No, but communication is key. Fighting is alright IF it leads to good communication, if you fight and get nothing accomplished, it destroys the relationship.

bigsullivan54's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:10 AM

Many of my relationships have gone because of no fight despite that I don't like fighting; it eats at me, and if a relationship has to go well then C'est la Vie

oh yea ive lost a few because of my lack of "fight"
or some bull**** like that
i can talk about some problems but when a voice gets loud i zone out...
i got yelled at as a child far to much so now i just zone yelling out completely

jonny63's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:12 AM
I really don't argue about things. In my last relationship, that lasted 7 years, I know I raised my voice 2 times. Just to be heard.

That 7 years was a record for me and we just didn't really fight. So I'm inclined to say argueing is not good for a relationship.flowerforyou

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