Topic: To post a pic or not
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Fri 08/17/07 09:00 PM
laugh wow sorry

shortizpapi's photo
Fri 08/17/07 10:43 PM
i postt like every sinqlee on of mi picss

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Fri 08/17/07 10:51 PM

Sorry to hear about this. There will always be the shallow types out there, but such is the way of life, both online and off. The 1 or 2 friends who stick around in the end make it worth all the grief.

Do whatever makes you feel comfortable. And remember...it's a reflection of them and NOT of you! flowerforyou

Good luck!

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Sat 08/18/07 10:29 PM
true

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Sun 08/19/07 11:47 AM
What about the people who say,"No picture...don't bother writing, I won't write back". Then you look at THEIR profile....no pic of themselves, just some cartoons or animals.

Makes me want to shake my headnoway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

As for me. I don't put a pic of me up by choice. If that turns anyone off, too bad. If anyone asks, I'll be more that happy to send them a picture to their e-mail address. I've done this several times. Some of us do like to enjoy a bit of privacy.

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Sun 08/19/07 12:06 PM
i don't see the big deal either way.

hotandspicey's photo
Sun 08/19/07 06:38 PM
dontbeajo, Why were you deactivated?

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Tue 08/21/07 11:18 AM
U have a nice belt there Hotnspicey

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Tue 08/21/07 11:52 AM
Wal-mart special!

alexiateigra's photo
Tue 08/21/07 08:32 PM
Nicely stated dontbeajo!bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

GG2's photo
Tue 08/21/07 08:53 PM
One must remember, physicality is the first thing you notice about a person. Everyone has different taste, why would you want to spend time chatting with someone who you wouldn't be physically attracted to? It's just a fact.

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Tue 08/21/07 09:06 PM
This is a personal choice. I wasn't comfortable putting a pic up at all at first. Then I didn't spend any time on the site so it was just as well. When I began to check it out, I realized I should download a picture to share if people were curious. Fair is fair, I want to know what people look like too. My choice was to not have a pic as my "main" pic as you can see but I do have a few pictures if you click on my profile.
So there's my 2 cents...:smile:

GG2's photo
Tue 08/21/07 09:12 PM
Well I belong to some band forums so I guess it was second nature to just put up a piccie. Doesn't matter to me...

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Tue 08/21/07 09:18 PM
i think it nice to know the person who you are talking to and what they look like without having to always have to ask to question so what do you look lik eand how do we know if its really what they look like

GG2's photo
Tue 08/21/07 09:29 PM
Exactly, foxxy!

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Wed 08/22/07 06:51 AM
I feel the same as kingbreeze

Either way, whatever..

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Fri 08/24/07 10:49 AM
Nice thread. Yes!

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Sat 08/25/07 11:37 AM
laugh laugh

celticricket's photo
Sat 08/25/07 11:46 AM
it's not always a matter of being attracted to the pic of the person i talk to, i just like to KNOW who im talking to, even if it's just a face pic. it makes things a little more real than just talking to a blue box.

but if you dont want to post a pic up, that's fine too; as long as we have good conversation and you're within my age requirements. then maybe if i get to know you better, you'll feel more comfortable about sending me a pic of you privately.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 08/25/07 11:50 AM
I wonder if e-bay would work??? laugh :wink:

I kind of like looking at whom I am reading the posts of- or
something in the box that shows their personality...

Maybe I should be thinking out of the box...ohwell