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Topic: How quickly
auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Thu 06/26/08 02:14 PM
do you know whether or not you have chemistry with someone? Does it take you several dates, several hours, minutes? If you've met them on line and been talking for a while, how fast do you know if it's there in person?

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Thu 06/26/08 02:16 PM
It's like a song.

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Thu 06/26/08 02:17 PM
It depends on the person. It's never the same twice.

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Thu 06/26/08 02:17 PM
in person it don't take long, if the first look don't cut it, that's probably the end, but no longer than 5 minutes otherwise.

discoafternoon Joined Fri 04/11/08 Posts: 2977	Thu 06/26/08 02:18 PM
Depends on the person, but it doesn't take that long.

MiamiQ Joined Wed 06/18/08 Posts: 132	Thu 06/26/08 02:18 PM
It took me 2 1/2 years to find out I didn't have chemistry with my ex-husband. So what is chemistry really? I have guy friends I've adored for as long as 10 or 15 years..but I wouldn't go to bed with them. Any thoughts?

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Thu 06/26/08 02:19 PM
Au Contraire. Sometimes the person just isn't paying attention.

Naugachomp Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 936	Thu 06/26/08 02:19 PM
1 year 2 months 23 days 7 hours 19 seconds

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Thu 06/26/08 02:19 PM
I don't think it takes that long either. I think it is either there or it isn't.

forever_fifites Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1092	Thu 06/26/08 02:21 PM
Well, if she makes the chemicals in my "test tube" light up......

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 06/26/08 02:21 PM
I was never sure & judging by a failed marriage , I was rite

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Thu 06/26/08 02:22 PM
Chemistry is a myth. Like the female g-spot.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Thu 06/26/08 02:23 PM
Chemistry is a myth. Like the female g-spot. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I'm ducking NOW!!!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 06/26/08 02:23 PM
it all depends on how alike the two people are on certain issues.

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Thu 06/26/08 02:24 PM
it all depends on how alike the two people are on certain issues. Except for that whole "opposites attract" thing, you're probably right.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 06/26/08 02:25 PM
Chemistry is a myth. Like the female g-spot. oh you'll know it if you find it

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 06/26/08 02:26 PM
it all depends on how alike the two people are on certain issues. Except for that whole "opposites attract" thing, you're probably right. total opposites never attract unless you're magnets

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Thu 06/26/08 02:26 PM
I think most of us know fairly quickly if there's chemistry to continue forward, but I wouldn't write someone off just because I didn't feel it initially, I'd give it chance. There are so many variables that can effect this when you first meet someone.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Thu 06/26/08 02:26 PM
Well, I wasn't really speaking about issues and such. If you've been speaking to someone you likely have gotten that part covered for the most part. I meant romantic chemistry.

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Thu 06/26/08 02:27 PM
Well in that case... is there liquor in the room? Oh come on... you were thinking it!