Topic: Why is it
Mikecom21_angelfire's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:06 AM
Edited by Mikecom21_angelfire on Sat 06/28/08 09:07 AM

The one's we should feel resentment toward's are the one's that held back their love from us. And, let us make a fool of ourselve's with our blind love for them.

Ain't that the truth. tears

~angelfire

Mikecom21_angelfire's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:06 AM
Edited by Mikecom21_angelfire on Sat 06/28/08 09:07 AM
another duplicate post

No1sLove's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:10 AM


I agree with Apasserby about this, because I see the other side of this theory so it makes sense to me. I love to watch people in love because it reminds me of the wonderful times I've had in my past. I have not really had a bad ending relationship, but can see how others happiness might conjure resentments in those who have. I think it's very sad...love is a beautiful thing to behold...even when you're not the one beholding it. tongue2

Hmm...they always say that love/beauty is in the holder of the behind. Or something like that, hehe.
Or was the the tequila holder? :laughing:

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:20 AM
Bitter people are so incredibly hard to be around or engage in conversations .. just not good peeps to chat with frustrated

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:23 AM
My niece once said that she disliked that bumper sticker
"Mean People Suck".

She said, "mean people don't suck...they're just HURT"!


sad GULP....I'm not sure I've ever been so proud, touched, and enlightened at the same time.

DQ66's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:25 AM
In order to find the "love" that we are looking for, we have to let go of anger, resentment, and bitterness. I think you can't truely love while holding on to those negatives feelings.
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SunnyMcleod's photo
Sat 06/28/08 09:34 AM

My niece once said that she disliked that bumper sticker
"Mean People Suck".

She said, "mean people don't suck...they're just HURT"!


sad GULP....I'm not sure I've ever been so proud, touched, and enlightened at the same time.

Oh that's sweet! And so very true.

I know that after being hurt it takes some time to be ok around others who are in love but I've never resented them. Maybe a little envy but never resentment. Took some time for me but I love seeing people in love. Makes me smilebigsmile

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 12:03 PM


My niece once said that she disliked that bumper sticker
"Mean People Suck".

She said, "mean people don't suck...they're just HURT"!


sad GULP....I'm not sure I've ever been so proud, touched, and enlightened at the same time.

Oh that's sweet! And so very true.

I know that after being hurt it takes some time to be ok around others who are in love but I've never resented them. Maybe a little envy but never resentment. Took some time for me but I love seeing people in love. Makes me smilebigsmile



flowers Oh, I see you are one of those soft-hearted, sweet, and sentimental people...flowers

:thumbsup: That is why I like you so very muchsmile2

SunnyMcleod's photo
Sat 06/28/08 12:09 PM
I really am thoughlaugh I put off that rough and tumble tomboy attitude ( and I sure can be rough and tumble:wink: ) But I am just a romantic little girly, waiting for some charming fella to do some sweepinglaugh

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 06/28/08 12:37 PM

that some people who have little or no love in their life are bitter and resentful of those that love and are loved? Why do they not recognize that the bitterness and anger keep people away?


If I start from the perspective of, "What's in it for me", I've lost already. Bitterness of love not being received is actually caused by love not being given, freely. It takes some of us longer than others to learn that.

no photo
Sat 06/28/08 02:00 PM
misery loves company and without the strength of objective self examination it is far too easy to allow urge to overtake thought

No1sLove's photo
Sat 06/28/08 02:11 PM

misery loves company and without the strength of objective self examination it is far too easy to allow urge to overtake thought
I agree with this for sure! Well put! flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Sat 06/28/08 04:25 PM

that some people who have little or no love in their life are bitter and resentful of those that love and are loved? Why do they not recognize that the bitterness and anger keep people away?



It's called Jealousy my friend.

I have no idea why it isn't recognized. I guess sometimes it's easier to see things in others than in ourselves.

Christinacospgs's photo
Sat 06/28/08 04:26 PM


that some people who have little or no love in their life are bitter and resentful of those that love and are loved? Why do they not recognize that the bitterness and anger keep people away?



It's called Jealousy my friend.

I have no idea why it isn't recognized. I guess sometimes it's easier to see things in others than in ourselves.


Autumn! flowerforyou :heart:

YourLove1's photo
Sat 06/28/08 04:27 PM

I hate my ex, but I still love most women & ofcourse love Boobslove
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Christinacospgs's photo
Sat 06/28/08 04:28 PM


I hate my ex, but I still love most women & ofcourse love Boobslove
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


heya yourlove :smile:

auburngirl's photo
Sat 06/28/08 04:30 PM



that some people who have little or no love in their life are bitter and resentful of those that love and are loved? Why do they not recognize that the bitterness and anger keep people away?



It's called Jealousy my friend.

I have no idea why it isn't recognized. I guess sometimes it's easier to see things in others than in ourselves.


Autumn! flowerforyou :heart:



Hiya SWEETS!!!!:heart: flowerforyou

Christinacospgs's photo
Sat 06/28/08 04:30 PM

Hiya SWEETS!!!!:heart: flowerforyou


I've missed ya

hikerchick's photo
Sat 06/28/08 04:32 PM

The one's we should feel resentment toward's are the one's that held back their love from us. And, let us make a fool of ourselve's with our blind love for them.
I don't believe that we should feel resentment for anyone. We only hurt ourselves by hanging on to resentment.

Several people I know have found love lately and I could not be happier for them.

It gives one hope, you know?

auburngirl's photo
Sat 06/28/08 04:33 PM


Hiya SWEETS!!!!:heart: flowerforyou


I've missed ya


Thank you, nice to be missed! I've missed you too! flowers