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Topic: I met a guy...
Lucky781 Joined Mon 04/28/08 Posts: 24	Thu 07/10/08 06:42 PM
And after dating for a couple of months, found out he's engaged and his fiancee is pregnant...I guess I'm just wondering why some men feel the need to lie and be dirtbags instead of being open and honest? Is anyone willing to enlighten me here?

ccindyct Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 703	Thu 07/10/08 06:44 PM
If you find the answer to that question...let me know!

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Thu 07/10/08 06:44 PM
I have nothing to shed any light on this, but it sucks - sorry you're having to deal with it.

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Thu 07/10/08 06:44 PM


Tankk Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 1450	Thu 07/10/08 06:44 PM
Liars have no conscience...so as long as they get what they want that's the bottom line as far as they are concerned. Think about it, if he said Hi, I'm engaged and my gf is preggo...You'd have run the other way!

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Thu 07/10/08 06:45 PM
same reason some ladies do the same thing, I presume..self centered and need more than one partner to build their self esteem

kriesybear Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 508	Thu 07/10/08 06:45 PM
Sadly its the way some people are. you should let her know.

ccindyct Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 703	Thu 07/10/08 06:46 PM
same reason some ladies do the same thing, I presume..self centered and need more than one partner to build their self esteem You're right, this issue goes both ways, but it still sucks that people have to do it.

BobbyJ Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 1368	Thu 07/10/08 06:47 PM
What a jerk, to say the least. It was not only bad what he pulled with you, but imagine being his pregnant fiancee.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 07/10/08 06:47 PM
same reason some ladies do the same thing, I presume..self centered and need more than one partner to build their self esteem I agree goes both ways

ccindyct Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 703	Thu 07/10/08 06:47 PM
What a jerk, to say the least. It was not only bad what he pulled with you, but imagine being his pregnant fiancee. And I agree with kriesybear said...tell the fiance.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Thu 07/10/08 06:49 PM
oh man thats one hecuva lie!! thats not even right.

Lucky781 Joined Mon 04/28/08 Posts: 24	Thu 07/10/08 06:50 PM
Yeah, I hacked his cell and called her...Apparently she knew he was cheating, but didn't have the nerve to tell him to get lost. I feel bad for her...What a loser. Why is it so hard to find a good guy?!

sweetfaith79 Joined Wed 03/26/08 Posts: 3	Thu 07/10/08 06:51 PM
I think that men and women lie about things like this because they think it makes them feel important or it boosts their ego to have more than one relationship going on. I can say that not all men are like that...it took me five years to find a really sweet and honest guy and I met him on this site. I know there is another sweet and honest guy for u as well. Take care:)

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Thu 07/10/08 06:52 PM
Sorry you had to deal with a total jacka** ....But you are pretty and I know you will find someone worthy

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Thu 07/10/08 06:53 PM
not really a man or woman thing, it's a human thing and it sucks. sorry you had to go through that

me2g Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 1285	Thu 07/10/08 06:54 PM
guys are dogs.... start looking for a real man...

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 07/10/08 06:55 PM
Yeah, I hacked his cell and called her...Apparently she knew he was cheating, but didn't have the nerve to tell him to get lost. I feel bad for her...What a loser. Why is it so hard to find a good guy?! I feel bad for her. On a side note why is it so hard to find a girl / woman to make it really easy to speak to and easy going etc. So I guess what I am trying to say is why is it so hard to find a girl to speak to that doesn't play all the head games and so much more.

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Thu 07/10/08 06:55 PM
I second the dirt bag thing!!!!!!

Lucky781 Joined Mon 04/28/08 Posts: 24	Thu 07/10/08 07:16 PM
Sorry you had to deal with a total jacka** ....But you are pretty and I know you will find someone worthy Thank you! For once I'm grateful I'm cynical and trusted my instincts...I knew there was something 'off' with him. It's alright, karma's got his #!