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Okay men, needing some input on your view points!
I am a very independant women, I have a great job, a house, car, I take care of my two older teens. I dont complain, I dont like drama or BS, I guess you can say I have a pretty stong personality but a good balance. I dont need to call a man everyday, I dont need to see him all the time and I dont mind it when he goes out with his friends, but I do make sure he knows he is important and I never forget the small things. Here is my question... Men say they want a independant, non clingy women but when they find that, then they have a hard time when we dont call all the time or beg for their time, why is this? |
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Because some men are subconsciously duplicitous.
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I gotta hear this... cuz im same way as you... and when i dont call or want them stuck to my ass... then they have a problem with that
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you wouldn't hear me complain.
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because guys normally want their space and freedoms, but when a woman gives it to them they are enamored and become attached, almost drawn to this woman. What i am saying is that we know a good thing when we see it and sometimes don't want to let it get away.
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you wouldn't hear me complain. Hell I want a woman who want's most of my time. 
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i give my women all the space and trust they need, and i expect the same in return.
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my answer, your fishin in the bottom, try puttin a bobber on the line and going for the top!
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because guys normally want their space and freedoms, but when a woman gives it to them they are enamored and become attached, almost drawn to this woman. What i am saying is that we know a good thing when we see it and sometimes don't want to let it get away. Awwwww!!! That's SWEET!!!!
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because guys normally want their space and freedoms, but when a woman gives it to them they are enamored and become attached, almost drawn to this woman. What i am saying is that we know a good thing when we see it and sometimes don't want to let it get away. Awwwww!!! That's SWEET!!!! ssshhhh!! it is a guy secret...wasn't supposed to tell you all 
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because guys normally want their space and freedoms, but when a woman gives it to them they are enamored and become attached, almost drawn to this woman. What i am saying is that we know a good thing when we see it and sometimes don't want to let it get away. Awwwww!!! That's SWEET!!!! ssshhhh!! it is a guy secret...wasn't supposed to tell you all
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Edited by
bastet126
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Mon 07/14/08 05:32 PM
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i think independence for both is important, each have their time and space and then the together time is even better. missing someone you will see later is a wonderful feeling. when you have two people who are on the same page with this and secure in the relationship they have together, you will find that what you speak of goes away. JMO
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I believe you meant " Some Men"
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Takes a certain type of man, to stay with a strong woman. We have been taught, WE are supposed to be the strong side of a relationship.
Many can't understand a strong woman. Hang in there, the right kind of guy will come along. |
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I believe you meant " Some Men" obviously that is what i meant...no one man is like another |
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because guys normally want their space and freedoms, but when a woman gives it to them they are enamored and become attached, almost drawn to this woman. What i am saying is that we know a good thing when we see it and sometimes don't want to let it get away. i think for some guys what you say is true....but not for me.... independent successful balanced non-clingy treats a man with dignity remembers the little things knows her own mind *now that is an enticing resume...* I'll take one of those any day of the week.... |
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because guys normally want their space and freedoms, but when a woman gives it to them they are enamored and become attached, almost drawn to this woman. What i am saying is that we know a good thing when we see it and sometimes don't want to let it get away. i think for some guys what you say is true....but not for me.... independent successful balanced non-clingy treats a man with dignity remembers the little things knows her own mind *now that is an enticing resume...* I'll take one of those any day of the week.... yes, but all that i was saying was that when you find that woman then you will want to keep her |
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because guys normally want their space and freedoms, but when a woman gives it to them they are enamored and become attached, almost drawn to this woman. What i am saying is that we know a good thing when we see it and sometimes don't want to let it get away. i think for some guys what you say is true....but not for me.... independent successful balanced non-clingy treats a man with dignity remembers the little things knows her own mind *now that is an enticing resume...* I'll take one of those any day of the week.... yes, but all that i was saying was that when you find that woman then you will want to keep her Yes you make excellent points....
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because guys normally want their space and freedoms, but when a woman gives it to them they are enamored and become attached, almost drawn to this woman. What i am saying is that we know a good thing when we see it and sometimes don't want to let it get away. i think for some guys what you say is true....but not for me.... independent successful balanced non-clingy treats a man with dignity remembers the little things knows her own mind *now that is an enticing resume...* I'll take one of those any day of the week.... yes, but all that i was saying was that when you find that woman then you will want to keep her Yes you make excellent points.... thank you sir.... 
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