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Topic: What would you do if
Amathyst2's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:16 PM
you had a crush on someone you knew you could never be with? But you still want to remain friends. What would you do to rid yourself of these feelings? :smile:

mry's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:17 PM
I would wash that man right out of my hair...:smile:

no photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:17 PM
I had no idea you felt that way towards me.

lilangel2's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:17 PM

you had a crush on someone you knew you could never be with? But you still want to remain friends. What would you do to rid yourself of these feelings? :smile:


Hard to remain friends in that case.

somewhatshy2's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:17 PM
you just learn to keep your feelings to yourself and keep the friendship.

BlndwBdge's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:19 PM

you had a crush on someone you knew you could never be with? But you still want to remain friends. What would you do to rid yourself of these feelings? :smile:


Hmmmmmmm....good question. Let me analyze this a moment...lol. What would be the reason you couldn't be with that person?

tngxl65's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:20 PM
My god, I can't even count the times.....

Be the friend and work on finding a new focus.

no photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:20 PM

you had a crush on someone you knew you could never be with? But you still want to remain friends. What would you do to rid yourself of these feelings? :smile:


which one of you is married?

moonlight_ride62's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:21 PM

you had a crush on someone you knew you could never be with? But you still want to remain friends. What would you do to rid yourself of these feelings? :smile:

I am there right with you girl...I just keep hanging on and give him space...he always comes back to me..maybe one day he will stay...

izzie's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:22 PM
try telling this person....

one of three things will happen....

they will feel awkward and friendship will be over....

they will feel the same way and friendship grows to more...

or last and most likely.. you tell them.. they dont feel the same.... but at least its out there and the friendship goes on....


PATSFAN's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:22 PM
I would take myself out of the situation.

Amathyst2's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:25 PM
Difficult situation to be in hey? lol Really think about this. I was in this position a long time ago. But I never knew if that could of been a great friendship because I couldn't get past the feelings. I'm just wonder if anyone has ever been through this and know some tricks to keep the friendship and let go of feelings that are never going to have a chance.

livelife68's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:31 PM
tough situation to be in. I think I would have to be able to accept the fact that we would never be more than friends. If I could do that the friendship could continue. If I couldn't my feelings would end up taking over and one way or anouther the relationship would eventually end.

Amathyst2's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:31 PM


you had a crush on someone you knew you could never be with? But you still want to remain friends. What would you do to rid yourself of these feelings? :smile:


Hmmmmmmm....good question. Let me analyze this a moment...lol. What would be the reason you couldn't be with that person?


Well they weren't married. But they were straight. They knew of the crush, but didn't feel the same. They still wanted to remain friends. You just cannot help who you like. This happened to me when I was up in Michigan about a year ago. It was crazy! lol

Amathyst2's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:38 PM
This person I am speaking of called me today and brought back some memories. lol I was just curious if anyone had ever been through this as well.

Amathyst2's photo
Fri 07/18/08 06:54 PM
Wow! Did I just stop everyone in their tracks or what? noway laugh One thing I do not understand is why this bothers people. It's like once someone figures out I'm gay, they run for the hills. That's sad. Because that could of been a missed opportunity for a great friendship. ohwell

brooke007's photo
Fri 07/18/08 07:52 PM
I have tried a few times to keep a freindship despite either myself or the guy developing one sided feelings.
it has never worked though.

seems sex is a big issue for some

no photo
Fri 07/18/08 07:55 PM

you had a crush on someone you knew you could never be with? But you still want to remain friends. What would you do to rid yourself of these feelings? :smile:


Go hit up other people to talk to and forget about it or get a long project hobby.

TheShadow's photo
Fri 07/18/08 07:56 PM

you had a crush on someone you knew you could never be with? But you still want to remain friends. What would you do to rid yourself of these feelings? :smile:


be a friend, simple as that. For me, i don't let my feeling run my life. I take it for what it is and go from there.

Syggie's photo
Fri 07/18/08 07:58 PM
I don't think I could remain being friends with someone I had a crush with and we couldn't be anything BUT friends... but i'm immature so, maybe that's why.

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