So…where does a very shy, single 40 something woman (widow), who is
pretty much a recluse go to meet people? Oh and for those of you who
don’t know, I am extremely hard of hearing. I’m not using that as an
excuse to not meet people, but it does have to be taken into
consideration. I’ve found very few people that I have much in common
with. Most of the people I know are married or attached have kids (I
don’t), work (I’m not working right now, but won’t date anyone I work
with anyway). Suggestions anyone? LOL

join the club thats why we are here to meet ppl. its hard for women our
age esp when u dont hang out at bars. its hard for me because i work at
night but i do have weekends off. if you go to church thats a good place
to start and let your friends know you are available so they can be on
the lookout for good men, and like they usually say dont look so hard
and then you will find someone...... of course im still waitin on mine
but i can give advice that doesnt mean i always follow it.....

I had been thinking a lot about this very same question up until about
three weeks ago. Last year, after my divorce, I moved here because a
friend told me this was a nice quiet town where I could work on my book
without interruption. She was right about that part, but the people
here are about as friendly as scorpions in a frying pan.

I've been told that the only real way to meet people here is in a bar or
a church, but those aren't very good options for a non-drinking atheist.

All of my used-to-be-single female friends are now 32 and married and
have kids, and all of their used-to-be-single female friends are now 32
and married and have kids. Sometimes I get, "Why don't you let me fix
you up with _______, she's PROBABLY going to get divorced...." No
thanks, I don't do "probably."

I guess that's how I wound up on the computer....

Bars & Church's aren't really an option for a non-drinking Wiccan
either. My friends already know better than to try to fix me up
too...

My children,,,,,,PLEASE,,,,,GO TO CHURCH!!!!!





Unless YOU, are not into GOD???


Then, You could join a web site for singles, and try to meet
some men on it that will TREAT you nice and want your number then clall
you and talk sweet to you, then ,,,,,,,,,

SOME HOW "NEVER" HEAR FROM THEM AGAIN!!!!!















or, YOU COULD JOIN THE :BEST INTERNET SITE ON THIS PLANET!!!!

YOU COULD JOIN THIS SITE,,,,YES "THATS" RIGHT, JUST-SAY-HI,
THIS IS THE "ONLY" SITE WHERE YOU CAN REALLY MEET AND FIND GOOD GUYS AND
TRUE FRIENDS!!!!!

RIGHT HERE, YOUNG LADY,,THIS IS THE SPOT FOR "YOUR" MR. RIGHT!

Just do what your doing HERE, "NOW", post some threads and seek
to meet and "THEY" will find ya......smile dear!!!

You are being "seen" and felt as I speak to you now.....
Many eyes here are checking you out and you might get an email anytime
now from one of the guys on this post?????

Just be "YOU", be "REAL", and be NICE,,,the rest "JUST HAPPENS"
Peace, love, and be happy!!!!!
Good luck!!!!!!!!!

I very much believe in God, but as I'm deaf I have a very hard time
hearing...so I quit going to church years ago (I don't believe in
organized religion's either). I can only be who I am, I don't try to
come across as someone I'm not. Its like the saying "what you see is
what you get" with me....like it or not....and I'm here aren't I??

YES, YOU ARE,,,lol
And IM CRAZY!!!!! But YOU will find that out here,,wink,wink,
You are fine Miss Ghost, and im just funnin with ya....
But I am REAL, about this site, and the good bunch of people we have on
here....And you will make friends with some here and YOU might even meet
your other half???
But the bottom line is this,,
YOU WILL MEET GOOD MEN HERE, AND YOU WON'T NEED TO "HEAR" THEM,,,,JUST
"READ THEM",,,wink,wink,lol
Have fun and share your smiles.....

Get active in some public affairs. If you are passionate about ANYTHING
in politics, there is always some committe or advocacy group looking for
help. Or if you prefer something quieter, try volunteering, even twice
a month. You may not meet THAT person right away, but getting out
there, making connections, networking, is the best way, AND your are
doing something you can feel good about at the same time. And there's
the fact that if you are involved and meet poeple of like mind, you are
more likely to meet THAT person without looking, you will already have
something in common.

Hey girl! why not check into volunteer work with special needs wee ones?
Lots of single dads can also be found at Chucky Cheese. LOL

I do belong to the Patriot Guard (Bikers who do escorts for Military
personnel during funerals) Thats the only group I belong to at this
time.

@ Chucky Cheeses

go to a library. very little background noise, and you can tell a lot
about a person by what books they check out.

as spring is coming and the weather is better, try biking walking
skateboarding outdoor stuff we have been puttingoff all winter! lets
get out and really meet each other! no more indoor voices let it all out
at the top of your lungs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

HMMMM...WOULDNT IT BE NICE TO JUST GO INTO 7-11 AND BUY A SLURPEE AND
MEET A HOT...NICE...HONEST GUY???...I GUESS THATD BE TOO EASY..SHEESH..I
HAVE THREE KIDS SO I KNOW HOW HARD IT IS...I BELIEVE GOD HAS A PLAN FOR
ALL OF US..I GOTTA JUST STEP OUTTA HIS WAY..IVE BEEN TOLD MY PICKER IS
BROKE TOO..I PICK THE MEAN ONES..LOL..BUT MABE WITH SOME FAITH? I THINK
HE'LL BE PUT IN UR LIFE AT THE RIGHT TIME..A FRIEND TOLD ME TODAY TO
FOLLOW MY HEART...LETS SEE IF THAT WORKS....

Roxx they say good things come to those who wait and they will show up
at the time you least expect it. They could be someone your
already talking to just have to open your mind and heart and really see
what is right in front of our eyes at time.

right here on just say hi

Thank u...i hope u r right! Never know...i think all of us need
faith...

Faith is what's kept me going the past couple of years

FAITH IS ALL WE HAVE..AND WATS HELPED ME RAISE MY THREE KIDS SO
FAR...JUST KEEP IT UP AND BE POSITIVE..I WILL TOO! MABE WE SHOULD BOTH
GO GET SLURPEES...LOL...THE HOTT GUYS MIGHT BE THERE!

hey roxxxie are u afraid to talk with me????????????

There are a lot of people to meet and a lot of us are not as outgoing
as some of us but what it all comes down to is
Just Say Hi. that's all don't be afraid to take the first step and say
hello to somebody it's not going to hurt. They may be just as
afraid as you are but somebody has to take that chance, somebody has to
make the move. Don't be afraid