IN THE WORLD OF RELATIONSHIPS, IS THERE A QUOTA? ARE WE ONLY ALOTTED A
NUMBER OF PEOPLE THAT WE POSSIBLY CAN MAKE A LASTING CONNECTION WITH,
AND ONCE WE GONE THROUGH THAT ALOTTMENT, THAT THERE IS NO MORE?

? to much thinking for me lol

Definatly too deep for someone on their second cup of coffee.

what a sad thought! I doubt it. Just because someone finds
themselves alone doesn't mean that it's a permanent fixture. Jeewizz.

No.

give me a few days to think about this one

well that is a tough one...because...first of all.....every relationship
is a learnin prcess and a steppin stone for the next...lesson learned is
knowledge earned...you can be the sweetest person and believe your doin
everythin right in a relationship...but what is your other halfs
motives?...you can be in it for all the right reasons...but there
deceitfulness can lead to your emotional demise...makin you less
vulnerable to hurt...and when that happens...you tend to shut a door for
the next person that you might end up with...restarting the cycle that
once started with your relationship before...for the next person your
with will be wonderin why your holding back...believeing your not givin
your all...and when that happens...it leads to mistrust and so on...i
believe that when one is true to him or herself...and both parties are
patient...than all would go well...people tend to get confused between
lust and love...LUST is the desire of ones flesh...and LOVE is the
desire of ones heart...long lasting love really isnt just about an
emotional feeling...its a commitment...sometimes when people get too
emotional its more pity than anything...and until you are commited
completely to that one person...than LOVE has found you my friend...and
yes there is always gonna be that one question...but is he or she really
commited to me as i am towards them...let not those questions get in the
way of your commitment...for if your going to be thinkin that way...your
commitment is likely to be in vein...have faith...n JAH+HEAVEN will rain
down his blessings.......

ISLANDKING,

THANK YOU FOR YOUR THOUGHTS, HOWEVER WHAT YOU HAVE SAID ON APPLIES IF
YOU ARE DATING SOMEONE, OR ANYONE. THE PROBLEM HERE IS, THAT THERE IS NO
ONE. NO DATES, AND NO ONE INTERESTED AT ALL. IT HAS BEEN THIS WAY FOR A
LONG TIME NOW, AND THERE ISN'T ANYONE KNOCKING AT THE DOOR.

No, but I have two dimes and a nickel.

what i said can go both wayz...maybe nobody is knockin because they dont
feel welcome and the door is locked...many people tend to question if
there is somethin wrong with them...leading to no answers in seeking
that special someone...while trying to figure out what it is that maybe
wrong with you...go out n test the waters....for it is then you will
know...

WELL, I'LL PUT IT THIS WAY.......EVERYONE TELLS ME THAT I AM A REALLY
NICE GUY, AND THAT I WILL MAKE SOMEONE VERY HAPPY SOME DAY. IF EVERYONE
TELLS ME THAT I WILL MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY SOMEDAY, THEN THERE IS NO
ONE LEFT FOR ME.......I GUESS ITS TRUE " NICE GUYS DO FINISH LAST "

I GUESS ITS TRUE " NICE GUYS DO FINISH LAST "


"SO TRUE"

Awww Tigerman one thing I have learned from this site is to NEVER give
up. There is so many people out in the world. You are bound to find your
partner. When I was wanting to leave you were right there telling not to
give up. She is out there hun. Please always remember that.

THANKS WHISPER

Hummm well if there is a quota or a certain amount of people that will
make us happy and you have not found that one yet guess you just have
not run into that special one yet. Don't mean that we will be alone the
rest of our lives just that we have not meet them as of yet. So seems if
your still alone then you have not hit your quota yet or you would not
be alone.

lol if there is I think I surpassed mine a long time ago,sorry If I got
your share too there buddy.

I agree with Txsgal..and people come into our lives for a reason then
leave and it can suck sometimes.but that special someone is out there
for u, tiger..I just know it..Just have patience and keep your chin up
darlin..it will happen..