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Topic: Just how soon...
Nursenell76's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:20 AM
How soon is too soon to move in with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Do you think time matters?

darkowl1's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:24 AM
i'm never doing it again. too many complications the more time, the better is what i say, but go with your gut instinct.

Goofball73's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:25 AM

How soon is too soon to move in with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Do you think time matters?


Within weeks or a few months (3 tops) of knowing one another is too soon.

Peccy's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:26 AM
Too soon to move in IMO is anything before 6 months, after moving in I suggest living with a person at least a year, preferably more, before even discussing marriage.

davidben1's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:26 AM
life is not about getting it right, rather about learning to trust oneself...........

no photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:27 AM
I think people should really get to know one another before making that step. Most people do it too soon and then kids get involved and blablablaaaaaaaaaaa it gets complicated!!noway noway noway noway noway

brooke007's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:29 AM
wouldnt live with somebody unless i was married.
four seasons...would be a good timeline AT LEAST!!!

livelife68's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:32 AM
I had one girlfriend move in after about a month of being together...big mistake.

davidben1's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:38 AM
decisions later regretted were ones that did not trsut doubt......


massachusetts's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:39 AM
your right davidben

Nursenell76's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:43 AM
Do you feel that relationship experience and understanding of expectations play a role in determining time?

davidben1's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:44 AM
to listen to the heart takes the greatest courage, as the mind whisper it is the thief, that steal from us what we want, when the mind be the robber that steal love while we are distracted........

davidben1's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:47 AM
there are so many variables in any one situation that the mind cannot percieve them all, but a heart that looks into itself and ask itself what it most wants, above all else, knows how to speak about all things in advance in any decision...........

Nursenell76's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:49 AM

to listen to the heart takes the greatest courage, as the mind whisper it is the thief, that steal from us what we want, when the mind be the robber that steal love while we are distracted........


I can agree with that. If you are determined to make a relationship work out of love for one another, the obstacles should seem smaller and less important.

davidben1's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:49 AM
what can sabatoge when all things are spoken aloud to all parties involved.........

davidben1's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:51 AM
Edited by davidben1 on Wed 07/30/08 01:53 AM


to listen to the heart takes the greatest courage, as the mind whisper it is the thief, that steal from us what we want, when the mind be the robber that steal love while we are distracted........


I can agree with that. If you are determined to make a relationship work out of love for one another, the obstacles should seem smaller and less important.


a relationship that will not fail cannot be had with one unless all things GOOD AND BAD can be spoken by both parties......

are all relationships meant to never fail......


no photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:52 AM
Im gun shy.......I like to watch people and learn......even if I have crazy love feelings for them.......

Is this a trust issue for them or myself??? Im thinking myself.....

ahuhalicious's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:55 AM

How soon is too soon to move in with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Do you think time matters?
well as soon as you have 3 months of zanax on hand then i gotta say, go for it :D

Nursenell76's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:57 AM


How soon is too soon to move in with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Do you think time matters?
well as soon as you have 3 months of zanax on hand then i gotta say, go for it :D


rofl rofl rofl rofl

davidben1's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:58 AM
what can be FREE in a relationship unless it be two parties doing as they want, without rules, and WANT pleases each other......

as soon as love is tried to be contained with expectations, it runs thru the fingers like water.........

true love accepts all the worst the mind whispers as potential danger, but still wants to love.......

who wishes true love really, as it is not recieving anything in return, and is still as blissful........




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