I am completely happy when I'm not being reminded of how everyone else has the things I dream about...

it's depressing sometimes, but you should be happy for others. Share in the joy and then surprizing things happen. I have never known love to come in the direction you want when your looking for it.

just because i'm married and happy with it doesn't mean i'm looking here.
like i said before, i was asked to come here, i tend to the forums only and i look for the friends that have kept me company over the past 3 years.
i've actually asked a mod that i know if they could change the site a bit to include a 'friends community' as well as a dating site.
i really do love this place, i just wanted opinions on whether anyone else felt sort of out of place.
but please don't condemn me for having a good marriage.
i'm sorry if you think i'm budging in on some place i don't belong. *frowns*

I know this sounds terrible...lol, but I'm tired of being happy for others for getting married, having kids and all that stuff that I want more than anything. I want to be happy for ME on that front, which has never happened and probably never will. I gave up on "looking for it" a long time ago...lol, I just don't want to hear how "happy" everyone else is so that I don't have to really think about it. Yes, I have a profile on here. I have it up on the off chance there IS someone paying attention. However, if you weigh more than 110lbs and dont' look like a perfect model the likelihood of actually finding someone is SLIM.

ok i'm not too keen on the mail restrictions...i tried to email you...but i couldn't
i wanted to tell you this:

luv....
you are 23 and cute as hell....
please don't ever think you won't find true love!
omg
when i read your post in my thread it made me think...but i really don't think you should worry.
if i were 23 again...i'd be living it up.
honestly being married isn't all glory. there are tie downs, sacrifices, things a single woman couldn't do. i sometimes cry when i'm here alone. i'm not going to pour my crap on you...i just wanted to let you know how i felt luv.
i only come here for good company.

Im in a relationship and I dont find nothing wrong in being on this site..................its a freakin free country damn it.............do what you want to do........................

Of course the option so many people tend to overlook "here for friends"...this is a social site, not strictly a dating site...if it were a dating site, the odds are against it.

although it may seem that others have what you want there are alot of others that have less than you.. try to find happiness within yourself and know that no matter what GOD loves you and he wants you to be happy .....you come into this world with nothing and you will leave with only the impression you have made on others ...LOVE..

I did all the "early 20's livin it up" thing when I was like 15....lol. I grew up very quickly, and already feel like I'm behind on where I wanted to be at this point in my life. MY idea of "living it up" now would be to be a mother and a wife. Life period has its ups and downs, but it'd be a lot easier to deal with if I had someone to call me "Mommy" or "Wife" to come home to.

i understand jayme...
know what?
stop looking...
he'll fall into your lap

im sorry if i come across in the wrong way in saying this.. but i have EANED my happiness..
i have spent enough time in hell to deserve what i have now. and do not even in the slightest be mistaken, we are not without out chalenges, but we hae what we both hope is going to be a sound future...
if you are not happy with who you are now, then you cannot be happy with who you woud be as a couple..

this is just my opinon, but in such places as the advice threads..
who better to offer advice than those who are living it SUCCESFULY rather than a bunch of people who have screwed up as often as i have in the past...

again..this is just my opinoin. and i did not mean any offence by it..

BAH! LOL, I don't even really expect it anymore. It'd just be nice is all.

patience jayme..it will happen in the not too distant future...at least thats what the majic 8 ball said..j/k..about the 8 ball...but it will happen ....

this isn't a dating site, it's more like a blogging page..nobody really gets a date here, and i believe u need to pay in order to get a date..lol..

Send me 100.00 USD and I will activate your premium account so those dates come rolling in with new 'Mutual Match Platinum'!

Okay...I know I am late to this party, but here are my 2 cents on this........

Becca, you are more than welcome on here, and since you told everyone you are married and not looking then that is fine. Honesty is very much appreciated.

There are quite a few couples on here, either married or in committed relationships. I have met my fiance here on JSH and we both still post and joke around with friends we have met. For those who don't know, Grammy is married and so is s1owhand, but they are two of the sweetest (okay s1ow....sexiest) people on here. We all need friends and we all need to laugh.

If this site is not for people in relationships, why is there choices of married, in a relationship, not looking for an intimate encounter....etc on the profiles? The name of this site is/was Just Say Hi.....everyone can do that.

And to those who don't want to see people who are happy in a relationship, I don't know what to tell you......anywhere you go you will see couples together. But spending your time under a rock won't open you up to the possibilities of a relationship of your own. My best friend told me more than once, and it finally sunk in.....YOU HAVE TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF, BEFORE ANYONE WILL BE HAPPY WITH YOU!!!

Never a doubt in my mind, i have known this lady for at least four years, and i can assure you she is a gem!

Well well I don't know ya and could care less if you are married. Does not make a difference as long as your honest and not playing the guys. Then have at it,if they don't like it tough.

The only thing I would do if I was you would make it more clear in my profile that your married and only here due to friends that you have meet.

Besides I have been here since almost day one. I have seen many join find someone then stay here due to the forums and the friends they have meet.

I have not meet the love of my life face to face yet but if I do and it is the real thing I promise you I will still be here after wards and I don't care what anyone thinks.

That will be there problem.

When I joined this site it was listed as a Dating/Friends/Christian Site that is why I joined it. Sorry if all have a problem with having friends here. shshshshh Wake up this is the internet have fun and enjoy life while you can why limit yourself to what you can have?

wanna get rid the ol man , and chat me up .!!!!