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I hate to sound like the green eyed monster has gotten ahold of me...lol, but I really truely LOATHE seeing married and attached people on here. If you're not single, myspace has forums too. I know I'm going to get a lot of flack for that, but seeing someone on a singles' site so happily married or attached just makes me want to scream. Seeing the things I want in my life be given so abundantly to others just makes me feel more single.... something that doesn't even bother me usually on a daily basis... And don't you encounter married people at work, in your neighborhood, at family gatherings, etc.? They are everywhere. |
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And to those who don't want to see people who are happy in a relationship, I don't know what to tell you......anywhere you go you will see couples together. But spending your time under a rock won't open you up to the possibilities of a relationship of your own. My best friend told me more than once, and it finally sunk in.....YOU HAVE TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF, BEFORE ANYONE WILL BE HAPPY WITH YOU!!! I'm thrilled with myself...lol, its the dating world that has me annoyed. My problem seems to be that I am SO secure in who I am it intimidates men for some reason. I refuse to play stupid or bow down. It would take an emotionally strong man to be with me, and accept that I dont' need him to save me. So does this mean that I "played stupid or bowed down" to be in a relationship???????? No way in Hell would I ever do that, it is because I am emotionally strong that I have become ready to be in a relationship. I don't need a man to save me and I wouldn't look for one to do that. If you can't be happy for other couples then you can't be happy for yourself because what happens the day a relationship opportunity opens up for you? You seem to look down on couples, and that is just sad. Even in my most down of days, have I ever NOT felt happy for people who have found love. I never said anyone else did, I just said I'm havin a hard time findin someone who doesn't expect me to. I don't look DOWN on anyone, but after a while you get tired of bein so happy for others and nothin happenin for you. It IS a jealousy, yes, but something I stifle on a daily basis...lol 
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BTW - Becca - you are on the right site. We are not all here trolling for mates. Some of us just like to talk to funny people.
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Yea, I'm married. I've had second thoughts about coming here. A good friend talked me into it. She's been here a while. Many of my ex-website friends are here. I'm finding them slowly. But, it seems as though no matter where I turn, I'm getting the feeling I shouldn't be here because of my marital status. Who else is just here for ****s and giggles? |
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BTW - Becca - you are on the right site. We are not all here trolling for mates. Some of us just like to talk to funny people. Yeah, like you. You're one of the funny people.  
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I hate to sound like the green eyed monster has gotten ahold of me...lol, but I really truely LOATHE seeing married and attached people on here. If you're not single, myspace has forums too. I know I'm going to get a lot of flack for that, but seeing someone on a singles' site so happily married or attached just makes me want to scream. Seeing the things I want in my life be given so abundantly to others just makes me feel more single.... something that doesn't even bother me usually on a daily basis... And don't you encounter married people at work, in your neighborhood, at family gatherings, etc.? They are everywhere. On the top of my window it says "Mingle2, Free online DATING" And yes, I do encounter married people on a daily basis. It drives me nuts too...lol. I don't say nothin b/c I am not mean like that. |
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And to those who don't want to see people who are happy in a relationship, I don't know what to tell you......anywhere you go you will see couples together. But spending your time under a rock won't open you up to the possibilities of a relationship of your own. My best friend told me more than once, and it finally sunk in.....YOU HAVE TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF, BEFORE ANYONE WILL BE HAPPY WITH YOU!!! I'm thrilled with myself...lol, its the dating world that has me annoyed. My problem seems to be that I am SO secure in who I am it intimidates men for some reason. I refuse to play stupid or bow down. It would take an emotionally strong man to be with me, and accept that I dont' need him to save me. So does this mean that I "played stupid or bowed down" to be in a relationship???????? No way in Hell would I ever do that, it is because I am emotionally strong that I have become ready to be in a relationship. I don't need a man to save me and I wouldn't look for one to do that. If you can't be happy for other couples then you can't be happy for yourself because what happens the day a relationship opportunity opens up for you? You seem to look down on couples, and that is just sad. Even in my most down of days, have I ever NOT felt happy for people who have found love. I never said anyone else did, I just said I'm havin a hard time findin someone who doesn't expect me to. I don't look DOWN on anyone, but after a while you get tired of bein so happy for others and nothin happenin for you. It IS a jealousy, yes, but something I stifle on a daily basis...lol Well I didn't mean to...lol, it just happened like that. |
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On the top of my window it says "Mingle2, Free online DATING" Does that mean that single people who are not interested in dating shouldn't be here? |
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I hate to sound like the green eyed monster has gotten ahold of me...lol, but I really truely LOATHE seeing married and attached people on here. If you're not single, myspace has forums too. I know I'm going to get a lot of flack for that, but seeing someone on a singles' site so happily married or attached just makes me want to scream. Seeing the things I want in my life be given so abundantly to others just makes me feel more single.... something that doesn't even bother me usually on a daily basis... And don't you encounter married people at work, in your neighborhood, at family gatherings, etc.? They are everywhere. On the top of my window it says "Mingle2, Free online DATING" And yes, I do encounter married people on a daily basis. It drives me nuts too...lol. I don't say nothin b/c I am not mean like that. it use to say jsh-just say hi |
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What this is a dating site????
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some are here for dating some just for friendship and some well i dont know why for me i have some good friends here and im staying
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On the top of my window it says "Mingle2, Free online DATING" Does that mean that single people who are not interested in dating shouldn't be here? A single person who wasn't interested in dating would probably not be searching google for dating sites... thats how I found it. I put in "free dating sites" and got JUST SAY HI, which is obviously now this. |
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 Lets not hijack peoples threads please, Mark |
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