Topic: Who has to go???
Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:43 PM
Does anyone in this site with answers like this wonder why you are still single.......................

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:43 PM

Does anyone in this site with answers like this wonder why you are still single.......................


I would think that if we're secure in our answer, we don't wonder WE KNOW and we're ok with it...

metalhead1969's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:44 PM

Does anyone in this site with answers like this wonder why you are still single.......................


nope

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Wed 08/06/08 11:45 PM
Edited by littleredhen on Wed 08/06/08 11:45 PM
No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad

rush2001's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:45 PM

Does anyone in this site with answers like this wonder why you are still single.......................


My animals are my babies if I'm dating anyone they will know that.

wiley's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:46 PM

Does anyone in this site with answers like this wonder why you are still single.......................


Nope. I'm pretty sure I know why I'm single. I won't settle for Mrs. Right Now when I can have Mrs. Right. I'm not looking for a short term fix. I'm looking for somebody to grow old with, share life with, etc. If I merely settled for convenience, I'd be cheating myself and I'd be cheating her. flowerforyou

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Wed 08/06/08 11:46 PM


Does anyone in this site with answers like this wonder why you are still single.......................


I would think that if we're secure in our answer, we don't wonder WE KNOW and we're ok with it...


So true!

Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:47 PM

No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............

faithfullguy31's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:51 PM
Sorry pet, you now live outside and if thats not good enough for her then I'll find ya a good home and I will visit ya when I can.

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Wed 08/06/08 11:51 PM


No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............


I do truly love my pets, I used to work for the humane society it's hard to find someone who is more of an animal lover than I. As much as we like treat them like people, they are not. I was shocked when someone posted a thread about saving pets or people in a fire & the overwhelming majority said they would save thier pets 1st!

Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:53 PM


Does anyone in this site with answers like this wonder why you are still single.......................


Nope. I'm pretty sure I know why I'm single. I won't settle for Mrs. Right Now when I can have Mrs. Right. I'm not looking for a short term fix. I'm looking for somebody to grow old with, share life with, etc. If I merely settled for convenience, I'd be cheating myself and I'd be cheating her. flowerforyou


Why should you settle but if you put roadblocks in the experience do you think that you are giving it your biggest shot.............love is hard to come by and when someone wants it you cant be half ass at it and think it will come............it comes in the Now instead of the Right.................flowerforyou

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Wed 08/06/08 11:54 PM



No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............


I do truly love my pets, I used to work for the humane society it's hard to find someone who is more of an animal lover than I. As much as we like treat them like people, they are not. I was shocked when someone posted a thread about saving pets or people in a fire & the overwhelming majority said they would save thier pets 1st!


I wouldn't go that far. But I wouldn't introduce the shock of displacing my pet from his home entirely because of someone else's allergies. I have them as well. If they can't handle it, they more than likely wouldn't be the one for me anyway. Don't like it, tough...

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:54 PM

Sorry pet, you now live outside and if thats not good enough for her then I'll find ya a good home and I will visit ya when I can.


Nice. I think thats a great compromise.

Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:55 PM



No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............


I do truly love my pets, I used to work for the humane society it's hard to find someone who is more of an animal lover than I. As much as we like treat them like people, they are not. I was shocked when someone posted a thread about saving pets or people in a fire & the overwhelming majority said they would save thier pets 1st!



Its a damn shame that humanity has went to sh!t when you put a pet(an animal) that would survive fine without over a human being............and people complain there are no more good people look in the mirror I say................frustrated

metalhead1969's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:56 PM



No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............


I do truly love my pets, I used to work for the humane society it's hard to find someone who is more of an animal lover than I. As much as we like treat them like people, they are not. I was shocked when someone posted a thread about saving pets or people in a fire & the overwhelming majority said they would save thier pets 1st!


because ppl, well most ppl anyway, can take care of themselves. open doors windows ect. ur pet can't, they don't have thumbs. i'm w/ the majority, my boy comes first

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:58 PM




No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............


I do truly love my pets, I used to work for the humane society it's hard to find someone who is more of an animal lover than I. As much as we like treat them like people, they are not. I was shocked when someone posted a thread about saving pets or people in a fire & the overwhelming majority said they would save thier pets 1st!



Its a damn shame that humanity has went to sh!t when you put a pet(an animal) that would survive fine without over a human being............and people complain there are no more good people look in the mirror I say................frustrated


animals can no longer survive on their own unless we're ok with wild animals roaming the streets.. I for one am of the opinion that if I take on an animal then it's part of my family and I DO NOT just get rid of it b/c I've found a man and he is allergic...

Tanzkity's photo
Wed 08/06/08 11:59 PM




No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............


I do truly love my pets, I used to work for the humane society it's hard to find someone who is more of an animal lover than I. As much as we like treat them like people, they are not. I was shocked when someone posted a thread about saving pets or people in a fire & the overwhelming majority said they would save thier pets 1st!


because ppl, well most ppl anyway, can take care of themselves. open doors windows ect. ur pet can't, they don't have thumbs. i'm w/ the majority, my boy comes first



Uh animals have been around since the beginning of time...........we may have domesticated them but they will survive without you when they have to its called animal instinct they dont loose that........and not all ppl can take care of themselves there are kids who cant and I would rather help them in a heart beat than an animal...........

Tanzkity's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:01 AM





No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............


I do truly love my pets, I used to work for the humane society it's hard to find someone who is more of an animal lover than I. As much as we like treat them like people, they are not. I was shocked when someone posted a thread about saving pets or people in a fire & the overwhelming majority said they would save thier pets 1st!



Its a damn shame that humanity has went to sh!t when you put a pet(an animal) that would survive fine without over a human being............and people complain there are no more good people look in the mirror I say................frustrated


animals can no longer survive on their own unless we're ok with wild animals roaming the streets.. I for one am of the opinion that if I take on an animal then it's part of my family and I DO NOT just get rid of it b/c I've found a man and he is allergic...


What are you talking about animals can survive when they are given enough time to adapt to their enviroment..............its not true unless its a wild animal then yes but cats and dogs are not wild and they will survive just fine...................are we really putting animals in front of people..............am I really having this conversation right now...............

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Thu 08/07/08 12:01 AM





No one with cat allergies would be around me long enough for me to fall in love. I have 3 cats. I probably would not spend much time with someone who was allergic or didn't like them. That being said, as much as I love my pets, people come 1st. We'd have to make do until I could find the best possable homes for the kitties. sad


Wow I commend for that because when it comes down to it if a pet was that fulfilling you wouldnt be looking for a human being to share your life with............


I do truly love my pets, I used to work for the humane society it's hard to find someone who is more of an animal lover than I. As much as we like treat them like people, they are not. I was shocked when someone posted a thread about saving pets or people in a fire & the overwhelming majority said they would save thier pets 1st!



Its a damn shame that humanity has went to sh!t when you put a pet(an animal) that would survive fine without over a human being............and people complain there are no more good people look in the mirror I say................frustrated


animals can no longer survive on their own unless we're ok with wild animals roaming the streets.. I for one am of the opinion that if I take on an animal then it's part of my family and I DO NOT just get rid of it b/c I've found a man and he is allergic...


Please do not think I take my responsability to my animals lightly. I am not talking about ditching my cats for a chance to have sex. I am talking about a serious realationship with someone who has a serious allergy. Like I said before, the senario is not likely but I value humans over animals.

wiley's photo
Thu 08/07/08 12:01 AM

love is hard to come by and when someone wants it you cant be half ass at it and think it will come.....


Ah... Irony...