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Topic: I'm Having a REALLY Hard Time
domination Joined Fri 06/20/08 Posts: 506	Thu 08/07/08 10:53 PM


itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 08/07/08 10:54 PM
Then again, maybe it's not actually our business and we should just lend support when we can. i'll agree their are many reasons including money that may be an issue who are we to judge. She is pain and I choose to show sympathy being away from a child hurts

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 08/07/08 10:55 PM
my mom has custody of my son sense he was little but it had to do with alot of his health issue and i wasent about to let his dad have him.... my son is a special needs child. and i felt my mom was better off helping me than his dad

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Thu 08/07/08 10:57 PM
For all the people that are offering there support I thank you. I really do. It means a lot to me knowing that there are so many people that care. I will never give up the fight. Never. One day he will be back home were he belongs, sleeping in his own bed. But for now I hurt and will hurt until he is here in my arms again. So thank you for all your love and support. You guys really are great.

LONGHAUL25 Joined Tue 07/29/08 Posts: 204	Thu 08/07/08 10:57 PM
HEY WISPER WE ARE ALL STanding behind you and god will help you out and dont give up the fight hunny i promise everything will turn out fine! love from all of us at just say hi.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Thu 08/07/08 10:58 PM
As my dear friend mom is saying, when there is hurt, there is hurt. Now is not the time to try to judge but to love. peace to all, michael

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 08/07/08 10:58 PM
Head up lass, you'll be alright...and you still have us here to talk to if needs be.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 08/07/08 11:02 PM
Don't know where you live, but know where I'm from it really doesn't matter male or female you can lose custody. And I can verify without a shadow of a doubt that the courts can be wrong...countless times, even on the same basis. Don't judge by what someone tells you, judge by what you yourself see and learn.

punk0027 Joined Mon 06/25/07 Posts: 240	Thu 08/07/08 11:16 PM
You are beautiful and I agree peace and love are the answer

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Thu 08/07/08 11:41 PM
Whisper,No matter what.Never give up the fight for your son.NEVER!!!We all Feeling your pain!No matter who says otherwise.May God be with you and confort you utill you have your child back.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Fri 08/08/08 12:45 AM
As the Mods say "we all have a responsibility to be peaceful here". We should love a cherish each other.

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Fri 08/08/08 01:23 AM
With respect to the OP this thread has been edited and returned to the board. Please remember to stay on topic, the topic here being how to deal with losing custody/ not having your child in your home. Attacking/ or insults are not allowed. Creating rumors or gossip about the poster/ or poster's situation is also not allowed. With that in mind, lets move forward positively! Thank You for your cooperation, Katie Site Mod

sweetandstrong Joined Sat 02/24/07 Posts: 1438	Fri 08/08/08 01:44 AM
Wishper, my heart to you. Don't stop fighting for your son.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 08/08/08 01:52 AM
Whisper

NomadicAngel Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 223	Fri 08/08/08 02:03 AM
I fought for custody for my kids and lost -- i was devastated as i knew i was the better parent --- after about a year and half things finally changed and i ended up with custody as a single father --- as everyone else here has said keep your chin up everything is temporary and keep fighting --- never lose hope!!!!!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 08/08/08 03:04 AM
im really very sorry

grammy09 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 32710	Fri 08/08/08 05:10 AM
melissa)) im so sorry for your pain ill pray for the day you get your son loving thoughts your way one day at a time sweetie it will all come together

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 08/08/08 05:30 AM
to the OP, sorry about your losing custody. To keep your mind in a positive frame, try to think outside of the box. Look ahead, do research, spend time with your child (whenever alloted), redecorate, stay busy, but whatever you do, do not let those woe is me feelings in the door. They will manipulate your mind. Here for you if you ever just want to talk! wishing you the best!!!

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Fri 08/08/08 08:56 AM
Yesterday I had court for the custody of my son. And well I lost. Not only did I lost my visits have been decreased. And I am hurting like hell. I hate being home. Everything here reminds me of him. I am alone which make me think of him and I start crying. I need to be a mother I do. I know that I can not give up. I just can't. But for now it just sucks. How do you stay strong when you feel so weak? I feel like I am going to have a mental break down or something. I can't handle this. I just can't. Any advice on how to handle it? I am so sorry. Your home is his home, no matter where he is.

Unknow Joined Fri 10/06/06 Posts: 4066	Fri 08/08/08 08:57 AM
Did anyone notice he deactivated his account..My prayers are with him and hope hes ok..